However, the bride named Alyssa Hevern (living in South Dakota, USA) decided to dye her wedding dress black, 3 months before the official wedding. Brides often wear white wedding dresses on their big day. Photo: Bridal Guide. She shared with Insider that I don’t care about traditional wedding ceremonies, I want to make a difference on my special day and plan my wedding. Alyssa bought the white design for $500 at The Bridal Gallery, but dyeing it black was the bold decision of her life. “Black means a lot to me and I feel confident wearing this shade. I don’t believe that this color symbolizes death at a funeral. I’ve always had any faith. Everyone has the right to wear their favorite color on their wedding day,” she said. Alyssa and her husband chose the theme of the party as dark and elegant with their wedding taking place on Friday, August 13. All guests must also wear the same black dress as the bride and groom. Alyssa shares the process of changing the color of her wedding dress. Photo: Insider. The process of dyeing the wedding dress was videoed by her and posted on her personal page. Completely at-home process: Soak in designer hot water with vinegar and a multi-purpose black dye pack. The clip quickly received attention with more than 18 million views and comments. Alyssa said that in order for the product to get the desired color, it must go through 3 times of dyeing with the same chemicals to keep the color of the clothes stable. The whole process from preparation to completion takes 7 days. However, her work quickly received mixed reactions from netizens. Many people think that dyeing a wedding dress black is not culturally appropriate. Others commented that products covered with this color will make the wedding ceremony gloomy. “I just get chills wearing a black wedding dress. It’s like going to a funeral. I don’t have the confidence to do this like Alyssa. Creative tastes should have moderation and understanding where you are going. where or when”, the net user commented. Finished product. Photo: Insider.

As a bride, everyone wants to be beautiful on their big day. Therefore, the choice of wedding dress is always carefully chosen by women. One of the criteria for choosing a wedding dress is the ability to flatter and be fashionable. In addition, many people also want to be unique, creating an unforgettable impression for important moments. Because of this desire, many women are ready to “play out” wearing unique, overly creative designs of fashion houses. Recently, the DailyStar page posted a “difficult” image of the bride Rielle on her wedding day. Specifically, she wears a wedding dress with a cup shape, a deep slit to help the bride flatter her full bust. If the upper part of the dress is designed like a corset, the lower body is a transparent, see-through chiffon. Seen from behind, Rielle almost shows off her hot bust, despite the disapproving glances of many people. Not only that, the cut-out details are “dangerous” to make people look “hot”. In order to avoid exposing her private area, Rielle had to use a whole bunch of chemicals to cover it. Immediately after the image of Rielle was posted, many comments criticized the bride’s dressing like no other. In fact, not only Rielle was “stoned” for dressing offensively. In many cases, brides also have similar problems when choosing outfits with 1-0-2, which is likened to a wedding dress disaster. A bride once caused a stir when wearing a wedding dress that could not be shorter, revealing her bust and high socks. Not to mention, she also used chiffon to decorate the back of her hips, which looked extremely “painful”. While the above brides tried to show off their breasts, this girl showed off her oversized bust. Looking at these pictures, surely many guests are embarrassed. A bride with a confusing outfit. Using the dominant white tone, the hotpants and accompanying accessories make the overall look extremely difficult. The bride has a good-looking face, but the point that attracts others’ attention is the wedding dress that is no different from the revealing swimsuit. If compared to the short, bold, sure, this lingerie wedding suit has no “rival”. Photo: Internet. Invite readers to watch the video: Fashion show of plus size people. Source: VTV24.

Rakesh and Dakshina invited 161 guests to their wedding ceremony on the plane. Rakesh and Dakshina, from Madurai, India decided to get married, but due to restrictions and regulations to prevent the Covid-19 epidemic, the couple came up with the idea of ​​​​having a wedding ceremony on an airplane. The couple made this a reality when chartering a plane and holding a wedding ceremony on a flight from Madurai to Bangalore on May 23. The flight took off from Madurai International Airport at 7 a.m., although the guest list far exceeded the state government’s limit for maximum gatherings at an event. The video shows the flight filled with guests as the couple stood in front of the aisle and performed the ceremony. The groom can be seen placing a traditional ornament around the bride’s neck while attendees cheer and toss flowers at them. The flight was packed with people. Rakesh and Dakshina officially performed the ceremony as soon as the plane flew over Madurai Meenakshi Amman Temple. After the wedding on the plane, the couple went to a hotel in Bangalore for a small reception. All passengers on board, who are their relatives, have had RT-PCR tests and tested negative. However, many guests chose not to wear masks and did not keep a safe distance. The police have received information about the incident and are considering whether to open an investigation into violations of regulations on prevention of the Covid-19 epidemic.

Along with the elegance of Phan Manh Quynh, the bride wore a striking wedding dress with details in the royal baroque style. In addition, the bride’s ao dai Phan Manh Quynh was designed by the designer using a corset to tighten the waist, to flatter the waistline of 58 cm. Khanh Vy wears a wedding dress created by designer Linh Nga. Photo: Thach Thao. The design ensures privacy with the traditional neck. This ao dai was created by designer Linh Nga. Share with Zing , Linh Nga revealed: “Baroque is one of Europe’s oldest and most lavishly decorated styles. To reflect the spirit of this style, I used and hand-attached 8,000 pieces. Swarovski stones, combined with 3D French floral lace, high-grade preciosa pearls with ivory white luster that catch the light very well. This detail helps create symmetrical bands at the chest, highlighting the entire wing. Gemstones catch the light well, helping the bride to stand out. Photo: Thach Thao. In terms of materials, designers prefer airy and light fabrics such as couture lace with high-quality knit chiffon. She integrates 4 layers of fabric to create a relaxed, flattering figure, ensuring privacy but still comfort for Khanh Vy. The end of the skirt is of moderate length and is dotted with baroque motifs. Phan Manh Quynh and Khanh Vy announced their love story in 2015. The male singer proposed to his girlfriend at the end of 2018. They planned to hold a wedding on December 1, 2019 but had to postpone due to the epidemic. Khanh Vy (born in 1994 in Khanh Hoa) is a photo model, who appeared in the MV of Duc Phuc or Only C. She is currently focusing on online business in Ho Chi Minh City. Khanh Vy once registered at the contest The Face Vietnam season 2, but didn’t go deep.

This dress was created by designer Linh Nga, priced at 87.5 million VND, 35 million VND is the rental price. Phan Manh Quynh’s wife chose an A-line dress to create a more cozy feeling. Photo: Thach Thao. Accordingly, with the desire to hold a cozy wedding party, Khanh Vy preferred to choose a light dress to create a feeling of intimacy with relatives and friends instead of the floating style. To be in tune with the bride’s wedding dress on the evening of April 16, this wedding dress has been hand-attached by the designer with 10,000 luxurious silver crystal stones imported from Europe. This detail creates classic baroque motifs but still has a modern touch. In particular, the dress model also uses the technology of sewing one-piece skirts. The highlight is the high-class silk chiffon strip arranged in 5 layers on both sides of the body, stretching from the waist to the skirt. The wedding dress is designed by designer Linh Nga with a seamless sewing pattern. Photo: Thach Thao. Not only helps to create the effect of slimming the hips, respecting the waist and height, this detail also makes the skirt model have a certain floating and graceful shape. This helps Phan Manh Quynh’s bride to show her elegance mixed with a little lady. Phan Manh Quynh and Khanh Vy announced their love story in 2015. The male singer proposed to his girlfriend at the end of 2018. They planned to hold a wedding on December 1, 2019 but had to postpone it due to the epidemic. Khanh Vy (born in 1994 in Khanh Hoa) is a photo model, who appeared in Duc Phuc’s MV, Only C. She is currently focusing on online business in Ho Chi Minh City. Khanh Vy once registered at the contest The Face Vietnam season 2 but did not go deep.

Bride Huynh Khanh Vy wears a white dress, sweet makeup, always smiling happily with the groom Phan Manh Quynh. Both are always considerate, caring for each other in every moment. According to the wedding dress designer Linh Nga Bridal, Khanh Vy did not choose a big fluffy skirt because she wanted to hold a cozy wedding party, so Khanh Vy chose a light dress, creating a feeling of closeness with relatives and friends. raft. Khanh Vy’s dress wears an A-line design, hand-attached with 10,000 luxurious silver crystal stones, imported from Europe, creating classic baroque motifs. This design unit has used the technology of sewing one-piece skirts, accented with high-class silk chiffon strips arranged in 5 layers on both sides of the body from the waist to the skirt, not only helping to create a slimming effect on the hips. , respecting the waist shape, “hacking” the height, but also making the dress model have a floating and graceful shape. This dress costs 87.5 million VND. In addition, the images of the bride smiling happily wiping her husband’s sweat, and the groom also carefully removing the firecrackers that fell on the bride’s head during the wedding ceremony also made the online community “stand still”. The couple is always smiling happily on their big day. According to the people of Nghe An, the terrible wedding of the male singer “There is a boy who writes on the tree” attracted great attention from the people here, everyone was admiring the splendor of the wedding. this fairy tale.

“If you wonder what this is, it’s Brooklyn’s wisdom tooth. Mom took my wisdom tooth five years ago and put it in her locker, and I kept his tooth for the same. self, “Nicola said above Vogue . She shares the reason behind this action comes from thinking that all of their wisdom will be in the teeth. Nicola Peltz shares an image of a wisdom tooth pendant. Photo: Vogue. Nicola asked a jeweler named Anita Ko to design, gilded two wisdom teeth to become a part of the attachment on the accessory. She also added that the wisdom tooth pendant also brings luck to Brooklyn. Earlier in April, Nicola Peltz showed off on her new tattoo page, named Brooklyn Beckham. According to the Hello Magazine , the marked position is on the 26-year-old actress’s back. 6 days ago, the beauty posted a photo taken with Brooklyn. The remarkable point is the butterfly tattoo in the area of ​​her blue collarbone. The Sun indicates that this is a double motif of Brooklyn and Nicola. As for his son David Beckham, he marks two large butterflies on his arms. This is Brooklyn 7th ink stain for his fiancé. Brooklyn tattoo author is Dr. Woo – the artist is trusted by stars like Justin Bieber, Miley Cyrus, Drake -. Discover Los Angeles said there are customers who have to wait 2 years to get Dr. Woo marked his body. For a simple picture, he charges $ 250. Meanwhile, the more elaborate work costs $ 650. Butterfly tattoo on blue collarbone of Brooklyn Beckham’s girlfriend. Photo: @nicolaannepeltz.

According to Khanh Vy, the ceremony took place in a warm atmosphere. About 200 guests were present to bless the couple. The ceremonial ceremony of Phan Manh Quynh and Khanh Vy took place in Nha Trang City. Photo: NVCC. On the happy day, the bride Khanh Vy wore an A-line dress with a shoulder-length design that was individually designed. According to research, the dress costs 87.5 million VND, 35 million VND (the same price as the wedding dress Khanh Vy wore in Nghe An) is the rental price. Different from the dress model in Nghe An, this dress is designed by the designer using super soft chiffon fabric with high quality silk chiffon layers to create the elegance. The late shoulder detail is stylized from the image of a bow tie as well as more than 3,000 Swarovski stones imported directly from Austria. Not only that, the dress also applies the famous waist-strapping corset technique, giving Phan Manh Quynh’s bride a slim waistline. After the wedding ceremony at the girl’s house in Nha Trang City, the couple’s wedding in Ho Chi Minh City will be held at a wedding center in District 1. Phan Manh Quynh and Khanh Vy went back to the same house after 6 years of sticking. Photo: Thach Thao. Phan Manh Quynh and Huynh Khanh Vy first met in October 2015. In September 2018, on a beach, in the presence of close friends, Phan Manh Quynh knelt to propose to his girlfriend. They plan to hold the wedding on December 1, 2019, but have to postpone them for personal reasons. By 2020, Phan Manh Quynh will once again postpone marriage due to epidemic diseases. Sharing about her lover, Phan Manh Quynh said Khanh Vy was always there to encourage him and give him advice at work. He confided: “We can’t avoid disagreements, but we are always happy and humorous when we are together. My girlfriend is not too knowledgeable about music, so it does not affect my work much. Instead, she’s like a spectator, offering a neutral opinion. Sometimes, I listen to her helpful suggestions ”. The girlfriend of the 31-year-old musician is Huynh Khanh Vy. She is a photo model and has acted in sitcoms and MVs. Khanh Vy once registered at The Face Vietnam competition season 2, but did not go deep.

Get married through the brokerage center Many foreign brides are “invisible people”. After many years of suffering from an abusive husband, not allowed to leave the house and often starved, Lyly (character has been renamed) – the 30-year-old Vietnamese bride has decided to leave her bad husband. Lyly said her ex-husband, a driver about 60 years old, often beat her when he was angry, drunk or losing money. “I don’t know where the market is, where the bus station is. I have no money and no friends. I ask him for money to spend in the house, but he always asks” What do you need money for? For another guy? “, She shared about her difficulties. Once, he didn’t buy anything for her and their son for a week. Lyly said she took her son away at least 3 times but returned because her husband promised to change. However, Lily continued to suffer violence. He even starved her mother and daughter. Desperate, Lyly turned to the police. Thanks to her shelter, she was referred to lawyer June Lim, who represented her to carry out free divorce proceedings. Lyly has sole custody of his son – who is a Singaporean, 6 years old this year. After the divorce, Lyly’s ex-husband canceled her long-term relative visit visa. However, she was fortunate enough to be sponsored by a friend to be able to stay. “If no one helps, I don’t know what to do,” she said. Not only Lyly, many foreign women married to Singapore face a wide range of issues from domestic violence to poverty and uncertain futures in Singapore. These women seem “invisible and have no voice” because of their immigration status, limited rights, lack of protection by law and difficult access to social welfare. Many people lack understanding of the rights and benefits they enjoy, feel helpless in need of help because they do not know where to go for help. This is partly due to their limited social network in Singapore. They are often financially dependent on their husbands. Some people suffer from marriage violence or conflict for fear of leaving their children if their husbands cancel their long-term relative’s visas upon divorce. Member of a matchmaking company in Singapore. Photo: The Straits Times The government gave “fulcrum” A spokesman for the Lawyers Association Pro Bono said that it is very important that the Singapore Government publicizes its stance on the immigration status of foreigners after divorce. This is a “thoughtful and tolerant” approach by the government of this country, she said. In addition, a spokesman for the Ministry of the Interior (MHA) told The Straits Times that widows, spouses or divorced Singapore citizens have the right to custody of children under the age of 21. They are allowed to live in Singapore on a long-term visitor visa until the child reaches 21 years of age. Although the former Singaporean spouse cancels the visa extension, they can still be sponsored by another Singapore citizen or permanent resident over the age of 21. At the age of 21, children can sponsor foreign parents to stay. Since December 2018, the Pro Bono Lawyers Association and Ms. June Lim – CEO of Eden Law Firm – have started the LEAF Project (Empowerment and Legal Support for Foreign Spouses). . The LEAF project is now part of a Family Justice Assistance program that helps noncitizens or Singapore permanent residents with marriage matters. The project aims to provide free assistance to a spouse who is a foreigner who meets a number of conditions, for example with a per capita monthly income of S $ 950 or less. They decided to start this pilot scheme because foreign spouses with children in Singapore are a “particularly vulnerable” group. They often depend on their partner for all aspects of their life. They may not have anyone to help them in the face of home violence or a broken marriage. In many cases, they also do not have any other friends or relatives in Singapore, they just have to look to charities like LEAF to stay. To avoid unfortunate things from happening, the Singapore Department of Family and Social Development has introduced a marriage support program for couples of different nationalities to help them have a strong marriage foundation. The program offers classes that teach English or Mandarin for the brides, give instructions on how to communicate, deal with conflicts in a multicultural setting, as well as tips on living in Singapore. Source: Straits Times, Sixth Tone

For a long time, the two became acquainted. However, , after that, Truong Phuong’s father still could not conquer sickness. His death made his daughter very sad. Truong Phuong at that time was a child, also considered Van Truong Lam as a family, so he relied on him for a long time. Thanks to the familiar doctor by his side, Truong Phuong gradually forgot the pain of losing his father and became happy again. She was very grateful to the doctor and formed a deep friendship between them. After spending time together, they fell in love and eventually became married. When they got married, Truong Phuong was 28 years old, and Van Truong Lam was 73 years old. At that time, Truong Phuong’s mother wanted her to marry a young man from a nearby village, even accepting their home ceremony. However, Truong Phuong’s “stubborn temperament” at that time made everyone unable to convince her. More importantly, she not only refused her mother’s request, but also decided to marry Van Truong Lam immediately. The incident caused a stir in public opinion in the village. Everyone thought that the girl was over-dressed and would have to regret it later. In the end, Truong Phuong and Van Truong Lam also achieved their goal. After getting married, they still gave birth to a baby boy. The couple also participated in the show “Happiness to knock on the door” on television, which surprised the audience with their post-marriage life, extremely simple, despite their normal living conditions. But the breath of a happy life filled the house like many other families. Truong Phuong stays at home to take care of his children and do chores in his spare time. Van Truong Lam is still the main source of income and the breadwinner of the family, he often visits home to visit for patients. Van Truong Lam loves Truong Phuong very much, because every time he comes home, he considers whether to bring something such as household appliances or clothes to Truong Phuong. When the couple looked at each other, their eyes filled with love and hope. In the past, villagers who used to see this as a joke always asked Truong Phuong if she would regret it. But no matter how many people ask, Truong Phuong always insists that he has no regrets. Now, people in the village that used to not take this relationship seriously also begin to send their blessings to them. Today, more and more people are pessimistic about their marriage, feeling that the marriage is not as good as they thought. But for this couple, on the contrary, they are even happier and more peaceful than normal couples. Looking at Truong Phuong and Van Truong Lam so happy, many people will wake up and realize that love is always so warm. However, many questions are raised around the age gap so much, whether they have any difficulty in raising children. Most people believe that the large gap between the two sides easily causes a generation gap. When faced with anything, a wife may have a more flexible resolution or attitude, while an older husband may be more stubborn and rigid. If neither side gives in, the relationship will turn into a game of tit-for-tat and will inevitably deteriorate. The large age gap means that older people will leave the world sooner, and those who stay will endure loneliness while alone. Conversely, if couples are the same age, they may spend more time together. This way, the longer they are together, the longer they will be with the children. In addition, in terms of children’s education, the pairs of “deviated chopsticks” are also often faced with conflicting opinions more often. Today, education is increasingly developing, because the young and the old receive different educational environments, so they will definitely give their own opinions in the process of educating children. Parents’ educational differences will not only affect their relationship but also their children. So in a family with such a large age gap, how can children have a correct view of the two words “family”? First of all, the relationship between parents must be harmonious. Parents should not lose their temper because of disagreement, because it will affect the family atmosphere. Children are very sensitive and can easily feel their parents’ feelings, and at the same time, they also develop a mentality quickly. In order for children to have a correct view of marriage and love, first of all, the love between parents must be harmonious, children must feel the love of their parents and the warmth of the family. For example, Truong Phuong might tell the child that she loves her husband very much, and the couple loves you very much, even though the father may leave later, but his love for the child is always something to be cherished to cherish. . At that time, the child will mature and will know how to cherish himself and others.

She shared in English: “I asked him for money to spend in the house, but he always asked:” What do you need money for? Let another guy? “.

Once, he didn’t buy anything for her and their son for a week.

Desperate when there was nothing to eat in the house, she called the police for help. She talked about the violence she had endured. “I don’t know where the market is or where the bus station is. I have no money, no friends ”.

She had taken her son away three times but then returned because her husband promised to change each time. However, he continued to beat her. In the end, Lyly decided “that’s more than enough”.

Currently, she is working as a kitchen assistant. “My son is too afraid of him. All times of violence affect the boy “.

Many foreign brides do not dare to speak up when being abused by their husbands.

Thanks to her shelter, she was referred to lawyer June Lim, who represented her to carry out free divorce proceedings. Lyly has sole custody of his son – who is a Singaporean, 6 years old this year.

A spokesman for the Lawyers Association Pro Bono said that it is very important for the Singapore Government to publicize its stance on the immigration status of foreigners after divorce. This is a “thoughtful and tolerant” approach by the government of this country, she said.

After the divorce, Lyly’s ex-husband canceled her long-term visit visa, but a friend at the church helped her to sponsor her to continue living in Singapore.

“If I don’t have people to help me, I don’t know what to do,” said the woman.

A spokesperson for the Ministry of the Interior (MHA) told The Straits Times that those who are widowed or divorced from a Singapore citizen and have custody of children under the age of 21 are “essentially” allowed to live. stay in Singapore on a long-term visit visa until the child reaches 21 years of age.

“This allows them to take care of the Singaporean here,” said a MHA spokesperson.

These foreigners can also be sponsored for living in Singapore by another Singaporean or another permanent resident who is 21 years of age or older. That means when the child turns 21 years old, he / she can further sponsor his / her parent for a long-term visitor visa.

Foreign wives often keep quiet when they are abused by their husbands, the spokesman said, because husbands often threaten to cancel their wives’ visas and deny them custody if they divorce.

In addition, whether or not a foreigner has permanent residency in Singapore will be one of the main judicial considerations when deciding who the child will live with after divorce.

In December 2018, the Pro Bono Lawyers Association and Ms. June Lim, CEO of Eden Law Firm, started the Leaf Project (Empowerment and Legal Support for Foreign Spouses). .

This pilot project aims to provide free assistance to a spouse who is a foreigner who meets certain conditions, for example with a monthly per capita income of S $ 950 or less.

Lawyers Association spokesman Pro Bono said the association decided to start a pilot plan with foreigners with Singaporean children because it is a “vulnerable” group.

They often depend on their partner for all aspects of their life. They may not have anyone to help them in the face of home violence or a broken marriage.

“They face the risk of being repatriated if the partner cancels the visa extension.”

“This problem is especially frustrating when they have Singaporeans, the children will have to leave the country or separate from the mother – often the main caregiver.”

She also said that many foreign wives cannot afford to hire a lawyer. They are also ineligible for legal aid programs because they are not a Singapore citizen or permanent resident.

In addition to divorce and related issues, these wives face the risk of domestic violence, she added.

In many cases, there are many foreign wives who do not have Singaporean friends. So they turn to charities and religious groups to find a native to sponsor their long-term visa.

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According to the Daily Mail, Mr. Johnson, ex-wife Marina Wheeler bought the house in 2003 for £ 690,000. Currently the house is worth about 1.2 million pounds. The house has a minimalist décor with white walls and wooden floors.

The new tenants will own a house about 288 square meters with 4 bedrooms. On campus there is an outdoor swimming pool and a small house with kitchen and fireplace.

British Prime Minister Johnson rents the house. (Photo: RIA)

British authorities said Prime Minister Johnson and his family could not stay in the property because of confidentiality principles under British Government regulations, forcing him to live in the Chequers mansion.

Traditionally, the country mansion that the incumbent prime minister stayed, rested on weekends and hosted international guests was the Chequers Palace, located on the 600-hectare grassland and forest in Buckinghamshire.

Mr. Johnson was not the first British Prime Minister to rent out his home when he moved to 10 Downing Street.

In 2010, former Prime Minister David Cameron also rented a house in Notting Hill worth 2.7 million pounds for about 6,000 pounds a month. And former Prime Minister Theresa May also rents out a London property, reports show she earns £ 10,000 a month.

In November 2019, Mr. Johnson sold the house in the north of London for £ 3.75 million (more than $ 4.6 million). The house used to be the home of Mr. Johnson with his second wife, Marina Wheeler, before the couple announced their divorce in September 2018. This five-story house was bought by Prime Minister Johnson in 2005 for nearly $ 2.4 million. The house is designed according to traditional architecture, has an area of ​​more than 306 m2 with 4 bedrooms, 3 bathrooms.

In March, British Prime Minister Boris Johnson wants to set up a charity to pay for the costly renovation of his home. The former work was overseen by the politician’s fiancé, Carrie Symonds – she has been unable to control her expenses, putting her future husband in a difficult situation.

Renovating an apartment on Downing Street in London costs “tens, tens of thousands of pounds”. In another conversation Mr. Johnson complained that the cost of repairs amounted to “more than a hundred thousand”.

To overcome this situation, Mr. Johnson decided to set up a charity that will receive funding to survive as a cultural heritage fund. Establishment application is being prepared. The head of the fund will be Baron David Brownlow, a millionaire and former Vice President of the Conservative Party of England.

Before that, in July 2019, Boris Johnson became the first British Prime Minister in history to live with an unmarried woman at the Prime Minister’s Palace at 10 Downing Street.

In April 2020, Prime Minister Johnson’s fiancé, Carrie Symonds, gave birth to a baby boy at a NHS National Health System hospital in London.

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The man I used to love and idolized by his masculinity and maturity suddenly disappeared. In front of my eyes right now is a child, overshadowed by her mother.

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When I was studying, I did not go over to his house to play too much, if I had, I only ate for a while and then went home. At that time I just felt that his mother was a meticulous caretaker for her children.

My brother and I went home to light our hometown, and went by motorbike. Before leaving, she reminded them to go out to wear scarves, gloves, and full hats because it was very cold.

That night, we came out from the countryside. As soon as I stepped inside the house, the first thing she reminded me was to go to the kitchen to get him a glass of warm water instead of asking if they were tired.

With the meal, she cooks well and reminds me well, I try to learn to cook according to the taste of the South, later I look after my husband.

I feel, she considers Nam the center of the universe, everyone has the responsibility to serve him attentively.

However, I did not think deeply, but only felt funny inside.

When I got home as a bride I was really disillusioned. My mother-in-law not only takes care of Nam like a child, but also loves him too much.

Men over 30 years old, but at 7:00 a.m., his mother went up to the room to knock on the door, urging her to brush her teeth and wash her face. The clothes I ironed the night before, she still did it the morning again, constantly criticizing the daughter-in-law for being careless.

Nam likes to eat shrimp but has to peel, my mother-in-law buys 1kg, peels it clean, takes off her head, and canned it for her son. Meals, Nam always has its own portion.

Before, every time he dated, Nam took me to eat raw salmon, and eat raw beef… I’ve never seen him say he can’t eat it.

However, when I cook or buy, my mother-in-law always tells Nam not to eat raw food.

I told my mother-in-law, I still saw him go out to eat normally. She immediately sang the song that her son had to please his daughter-in-law, with great respect.

“From a young age, he only likes to eat food that his mother cooks, poisonous things like that, you should never buy it again” – a gentle saying of her mother-in-law but the feeling of weighing a thousand tons. It is not only her reminder, but also her command.

I confided to Nam, he just kept quiet and then turned to other things. Occasionally, I just say a sentence: “Come on, dear, mom is old, it’s nothing to please her”.

Once I went on a business trip with my colleagues, the plane landed at 11 o’clock at night. After that, the group took the car from the airport to the office.

Nam actively texted that he would pick me up at the hospital, but half an hour later his mother-in-law called and told me to take a taxi back because he had a fever. I was a bit down, my heart started to panic.

If Nam did not call, I would go home by myself but I saw that my husband was interested, so I agreed to let him come. I don’t understand why, he got sick so quickly.

When he got home, Nam opened the door, his health was normal, he showed no signs of serious illness as announced by my mother-in-law.

My mother-in-law probably guessed my daughter-in-law, calling me out to scold: “It’s late at night, I called Nam to pick him up, along the dangerous traffic road. Mother is also alone, taking care of her family, she doesn’t rely on anyone “.

I work in the hospital, stay on night duty, and take a rest the next morning. My mother-in-law grumbled, asking me to find another job.

In her opinion, Nam makes money, so my job is to take care of him. In the morning, she cooks for her husband, ensures his health, sees him off to work. 4:30 pm must be present at the rice house.

After the meal, the fruit must be peeled to invite her husband. Fruits such as tangerines and oranges must also be peeled.

A series of regulations, rules … given by my mother-in-law, makes me really stuffy.

Meanwhile, Nam always obediently obeyed his mother. He never had his own stance. Always, mom says anything right.

I proposed to live separately or divorce but Nam did not agree. He blamed me petty, selfish.

I am depressed, do not need to cultivate a home anymore. Please give me advice!

According to VietnamNet