A couple and marriage registration certificate. (Source: wsj.com) New York State and New York City have fully reopened since May 19, but there is one place that is still unable to welcome special guests, happy people, that is the New York marriage registration office. . The building is located in the central district of Manhattan where people not only in New York come to register their marriage, so the standard important procedure here is that couples will hug, kiss passionately and take photos to save. memorable moment after being awarded the sacred certificate. But now, the traditional procedures indispensable for couples who want to be married cannot be done because of the risk of infection. COVID-19 too high, even when the pandemic has been pushed back in New York as it is now. The New York marriage registration office has been closed since March 2020 after the pandemic broke out here. It has long been considered a symbolic destination for marriage, and before the pandemic hit, this massive building saw long lines of brides and grooms lining up to be officially spoken. “I agree/you agree” to your other half. In an interview with the Vietnam News Agency reporter, Mr. Michael McSweeney, in charge of the marriage registration office New York , stated: “Before the pandemic hit, our office was very busy, especially during the warmer months, and we did marriage formalities for couples on a first-come, first-served basis. So every day, many people come to line up, they bring their relatives and children here, so the atmosphere is always fun like a festival. A lot of people in other places also want to choose New York as the place to officially say something special.” At that time, flower and photography shops are always ready to open their doors to welcome happy guests to capture their memorable moments. But those scenes are now gone. As of March 2020, marriage recognition ceremonies in New York must be conducted online, and couples receive marriage certificates also on the online platform. In 2020, the office marriage registration New York held an online marriage registration ceremony for 25,603 couples; much less than the 75,370 pairs registered in 2019 due to the impact of the pandemic. Joanne Stevenson and her husband, who went to the New York marriage office to complete the marriage certificate in 2019, shared: “It’s boring to see this place so quiet, but to be honest, that’s why we didn’t have to. have to line up.” As for Joanne’s husband, she remembers the scene like a “happy office” when they went to do the marriage procedures in 2019. He feels sorry now that couples have to get married online . City officials are planning to be able to open the door to welcome couples to register for marriage while ensuring everyone’s safety, but the ability to organize according to the traditional method before the pandemic is still too difficult. . Mr. McSweeney said that the marriage registration office is currently working with relevant New York City agencies to develop a specific plan to help people come to register their marriage directly as before. .

As you can see, in the photo, there are two little rabbits sitting together, a fat rabbit and a long-legged rabbit, which means two people, surrounded by stars and balloons, as well as Du Haitao’s favorite banana, The number “2922” is shown with flowers, which should represent the number of days the two have been together!

He also said, “Little boy, you can change the screen saver.” After that, Shen Mengchen reposted Du Haitao’s tweet for her birthday, and added the previous mobile phone screen saver, saying, “After a year of using the screen saver, I can finally get a new one.” . The picture is also the two little rabbits. The difference is that both rabbits are wearing masks. They should be taken during the epidemic. The number displayed in the bouquet is “2437”, which is really sweet.

In addition, Du Haitao also released a new song that day. The poster picture of the new song shows two bunnies riding an elephant, which is really meaningful.

Some time ago, there were rumors about the two breaking up, but they were denied by the two, they sent a group photo with the essay “We are okay.” In fact, the two of them are doing what should be done at each stage, but they didn’t share it with everyone in the first time.

It is reported that the reason for this incident was that Shen Mengchen ridiculed in the talk show that “Hai Tao could not urge marriage at all.” She said that the two were often urged to marry, but Hai Tao has been urged to get married. The significance may be. What I want to express is that Haitao can’t move because he is fatter!

In a variety show, regarding the rumors that the two are about to have a wedding, Shen Mengchen said sweetly “We should get married” in the face of more and more news about marriage. It seems that the two people get married. The schedule is already set.

The two were announced together on March 29, 2015, but according to Du Haitao’s record of 2922 days conversion, the two have been together for more than eight years, and they really have been in love.

They also participated in “Daughters’ Love” together. In the show, Du Haitao would wait for Shen Mengchen to wait for her outdoors, and brought a large bouquet of flowers. The ceremony was full; Du Haitao also went to Shen Mengchen’s hometown, and the two were on the show. It’s very sweet, and I’ll get used to calling each other a good boy, etc.

Now the relationship between the two is very stable, and I look forward to the wedding as soon as possible.

The “we” that Ah Tao is talking about are gay men on the island, like him. With the aim of understanding the life of the LGBT community in Hainan, I asked Ah Tao to be my guide. Unlike big cities in China such as Beijing, Shanghai or Guangzhou, the LGBT community in the island located on the southern coast of the mainland 30 km is not really well received, has to live a closed life and hide its bias. sexual orientation towards society. Unlike in Beijing or Shanghai, the LGBT community in Hainan province still faces many prejudices and is not accepted by society. Photo: The Beijinger. Hide your identity 11 years ago, I spent 12 months learning Chinese in Hainan and interacting with the local LGBT community. From that experience, for the past 8 years, I have started researching the lives of gay, bisexual and transgender people in this low-economic and culturally low-value locality. In the past few years, the government has made a lot of efforts to promote tourism in Hainan, but there has not been the same level of investment in other coastal areas. Ah Tao led me out of the square, through an empty market, and into a dark alley. “When you go there, don’t mention homosexuality or heterosexuality,” he warned carefully. Most have to hide their identities to be able to integrate into the community and continue to lead normal lives. Photo: New York Post. I suddenly recalled in 2009, the first time my friends took me to the only gay bar in Haikou – the capital of Hainan province. It was nestled behind an abandoned hotel, hidden by another row of working hotels. Later, I found out that that is the common point of spaces for the LGBT community – discreet, out of sight. To outsiders, these areas are completely invisible, hard to find. But for people like Ah Tao, this is the only place to take off your mask and be true to yourself. “Happy or sad, I always go to these bars to relax. The LGBT community here doesn’t have that much space,” said Xiaomai, a 19-year-old gay man. However, such bars only exist in major cities on the island. In smaller towns, they can only meet and chat at teahouses, convenience stores and parks. The risk of being discovered, stigmatized, affecting honor, family and work is also greater. Therefore, Ah Tao told me not to mention a word related to “gay”. Following Ah Tao’s footsteps into a convenience store at an intersection in a dark alley, I saw three electric mahjong tables surrounded by many people, men and women of all kinds. Seeing Ah Tao, they turned to ask about love and marriage. “It looks like it, but the men sitting here are all gay,” Ah Tao whispered to me. Accordingly, because they want to participate in community activities, many gay people in Hainan accept to hide their identities and pretend to be a different person. The worry of “no wife, no children” “How do you have a wife and children that are so few these days?”, a woman playing mahjong turned to ask Ah Tao. In fact, gay men here often receive such curious questions about marriage. Family pressure, children are always present, reminding Ah Tao that he is living “no wife, no children”. Many people in the community fear that they will be forced to marry and have children according to the expectations of family and society. “I am happy to make friends, get to know many people like me. But what about the future? How should I face my family, how do I explain the fact that I am still unmarried at 20-30 years old?”, Xiaomai’s heart. Some gay people living in Hainan choose to have children through surrogacy, which helps relieve the pressure of marriage and the anxiety of loneliness in old age. Photo: The Guardian. In China, the traditional concept of family still has a profound influence in society. For men, they need to be responsible for getting married and having children at all costs. In addition, due to fear of old age without a caregiver, many gay men accept marriage. “I got married partly because of my parents, partly because I was afraid that I wouldn’t have someone to look after me in my old age,” said 24 year old Liang Zongwei, a gay man living in Haikou. Some individuals like Ah Long (36 years old), a factory owner in northeastern Hainan, choose to have children through surrogacy. However, not everyone has the financial means to do this. In big cities, social organizations are trying to change stereotypes and raise social awareness about the LGBT community. But with provinces and cities that have not yet received economic and cultural investment like Hainan, the presence of homosexuals has not been properly recognized. From the experience of making friends with Ah Tao and being exposed to LGBT culture in Hainan, I reflect more on life, wondering if having to hide my true self is really “living”.

She completely left showbiz to focus on her small family and business career, having certain achievements for herself and a happy home, admired by many people. But to get that wholeness is never easy! Because Dam Thu Trang, even though she is the wife of a famous businessman, no matter how luxurious her life is, she is still a woman, always has her own difficulties and concerns, especially when entering the role of a businessman. a wife, a mother. Being a mother is the BEST UNpaid BUT BEST JOB For a long time, Dam Thu Trang no longer appeared in the role of a Vietnamese star, instead as a “hot mom”. It seems that your life now largely revolves around family? Perhaps family is the biggest “music product” in Trang’s life. All levels of emotions are fully present in it. So Trang enjoys it every day and always wants to build up to be the most beautiful work. Formerly a model, singer and now a businessman, and also a nursing mother, what job makes Trang feel the hardest? Each position gives Page its own busyness. Although she was mentally prepared for the first time being a mother, Trang could not avoid being surprised or worried about how to take care of her children properly. When she became a mother, everything of Trang revolved around the baby, whether day or night. How can my child be nourished in the best way, how can I have enough milk to feed my child, where is my sick child, are you willing to eat these days?… 100 questions are always asked in the mind of a person every time. motherhood like Trang. And perhaps being a mother is the unpaid overtime job that Trang finds the most extreme but worth it! Almost every mother wants to take care of her child by herself and it seems that Dam Thu Trang is the same? Trang is quite a perfectionist and meticulous person, so she always wants to take care of everything for her children by herself, Trang always tries to spend as much time as possible with her children. Because Trang believes that your child’s childhood is only one, and I will become a companion to witness all important development milestones in his life. That is the happiness that Trang thinks every mother wants to have. Have you ever felt overwhelmed with company and housework so much? Fortunately, Trang has a husband who always understands and shares everything with her. From the time she was pregnant until the birth of Suchin, her husband always wanted Trang’s feelings to be in the best state. Because the husband’s point of view is very clear: If the rear is stable, the work will be stable. When is Trang feeling the happiest and when is the most difficult time of being a first time mother? The happiest moment is when waking up every morning, Suchin always crawls to Trang to hug and kiss her mother. Seeing your child grow up every day and begin to show love is a mother’s happiness. The most difficult time is probably the time of breastfeeding, Trang’s sleeping time is only about 4 hours a day. Pumping milk, taking care of children, lack of sleep with pain due to blocked milk ducts, there was a time when Trang wanted to give up but loved her child, so she told herself to try. At that time, a full 8 hours of sleep was too expensive for Trang. ANH CUONG CAN GET EVERYTHING FOR ONE PHONE CALL How does her husband support Trang in taking care of her children? Her husband is the one who always reminds Trang to balance time with her children and herself to stay healthy, raising children is a long way, not a day 2. In addition to working time, her husband spends almost everything. All the time spent with the children, playing with Suchin, at night, lying down with Subeo about how everything happened at school today, caring and grasping the feelings of the children. Page comments What kind of father is Cuong? How did he change when he got married and especially had a baby Suchin? Trang was attracted to Mr. Cuong by the times he played and the way he was with Subeo, the clumsiness of a father when taking care of every inch of his son. Mr. Cuong could leave all his work to stay and run straight home after only Subeo’s phone call asking his father: “When will you come back to me? I will wait for you to come back and then go to sleep”… Because of those things. that Trang decided to stick with Mr. Cuong. And Suchin news page will be a really happy baby when there are 2 men who love to take care of and are always ready to protect her. It seems that Dam Thu Trang and her husband are also hard members of the “crazy” parent group, right? This “disease” Trang thinks every parent has it, if it’s different, it’s just different in level. If it is said that Trang and her husband belong to the family type, I don’t know if people will believe it or not? Outside of work, the couple just likes to stay at home, spend time with their children, all the family’s attention now revolves around the youngest but most “powerful” child member. SUBEO IS A GOOD, LOVELY BOY Besides taking care of Suchin, does Trang have to worry a lot about Subeo? Subeo is a very affectionate and caring boy. Subeo has begun to reach the age of certain physical changes as well as emotional changes, things will gradually become more sensitive when at this age. So everything I say or show should always make my child feel secure, trust and feel my love for him. The boy seems to be very close and loves his sister? Ever since knowing that Trang and her father would get married, Subeo had calculated that after the wedding 9 months and 10 days, she would have a brother or a sister. And when at the time of routine antenatal checkup, Subeo was very eager to go to the doctor with Trang’s mother so she could see the baby and talk to her, draw pictures for her, always asking: “Now the baby in the womb is as big as the baby What’s wrong?”… Previously, when I came home from school, I was looking for my parents, but now, the first person Subeo looked for was Suchin’s sister, who came into the room to find her, hold her and wish her good night… It was a pleasure The happiness of a mother like Trang, happiness because she is a good boy, emotional, selfless and is mostly ahead of her age. Do Cuong and Trang often share with each other about how to bond family members? The couple always want to let the children’s emotions be as natural and comfortable as possible. Love cannot be forced. As a parent, I always show more love for my children every day, and must always balance all emotions so that my children can understand, every member of the family deserves to be loved. very much. What does Trang want most for her family right now? Be sure to stay healthy and safe during this pandemic! Thank you Dam Thu Trang for the interesting sharing! Following Vietnamese Lifestyle

Counseling, general screening to enhance detection, diagnosis and treatment of diseases in the community for people in Muong Lat district. Ms. Nguyen Thi Loc, Head of Population Division, Sub-Department of Population and Family Planning, said: Pre-marital health check-up has many benefits, limiting the incidence of birth defects. Congenital defects inherited from parents, typically hemolytic anemia. Besides, the pre-marital health check will help to promptly treat sexually transmitted diseases; help doctors to assess fertility and support the treatment of reproductive-related diseases in a timely manner. However, indifference to pre-marital health check-ups is a limitation of the majority of young people today. In fact, many people have long been afraid of getting a medical check-up before marriage, because they are afraid that if they find out the disease will affect the happiness of the couple, some people even think that they only have to suspect each other. . All these thoughts have invisibly created barriers, making the meaning of pre-marital health check-ups a fear and obsession for many young people. Aware of the important role and practical significance of pre-marital health check-ups, over the years, the Provincial Department of Population and Family Planning has implemented many activities to raise awareness about health for young people. including the model “Pre-marital health examination and counseling”. Up to now, the model has been expanded to 46 communes in 8 districts: Ba Thuoc, Lang Chanh, Nhu Xuan, Thuong Xuan, Dong Son, Ha Trung, Trieu Son, Thieu Hoa, attracting more than 1,700 people in the age group. and youth participate in activities. In order to promote the model effectively, the Provincial Sub-Department of Population and Family Planning has directed the district health centers to guide the health stations to coordinate with mass organizations, especially the Women’s Union and the Youth Union, to establish The club serves as a place to propagate the meaning and importance of pre-marital counseling and medical examination. Not only promoting propaganda, the model also organizes free medical check-ups for couples who are about to get married, especially, giving priority to those from poor and disadvantaged households. Thereby, couples will be given a general health check, tested for hepatitis B, and consulted if they need a more in-depth examination on reproductive health (SS). As a result, the models have really become a bridge, helping young people to exchange, exchange and consult on issues related to reproductive health/family planning, heterosexual friendship, love, and sex. safety, prevention of unwanted pregnancy, sexually transmitted diseases, HIV/AIDS and issues to know before marriage. Ms. Nguyen Thi Mai, Binh Luong commune (Thu Xuan) shared, through pre-marital health club activities, seminars and knowledge counseling on gender, reproductive health, marriage and family… , I have accumulated more knowledge about reproductive health care and the need for pre-marital health checks. Therefore, when she was about to get married, she actively asked her boyfriend to go to a medical facility for a health check. Talking to Mr. Nguyen Van Thang, Director of the Provincial Sub-Department of Population and Family Planning, it is known: This is a practical model, helping many young people have the opportunity to access knowledge about pre-marital health care. At the same time, the model has also contributed to raising awareness of the Party committees and authorities at all levels about the work of population and family planning, and reproductive health/family planning care for adolescents and young adults. The model has held hundreds of seminars, attracting thousands of participants; organize propaganda conferences on reproductive health and premarital health for district and commune population steering committees and officials in charge of population and family planning in the districts in which the model is deployed and coordinated health centers. with the Committees of Population and Family Planning of the communes and townships to organize health check-ups and counseling on the risk of giving birth to children with disabilities or deformities for couples preparing for marriage; hepatitis B testing and ultrasound for couples preparing to get married; establish pre-marital health clubs and maintain activities once a quarter to exchange knowledge about healthy male and female love, safe sex, prevention of sexually transmitted diseases, suitable contraceptive methods, safe abortion… Through the activities that helped young people become more aware of the benefits of pre-marital health care, many of them actively sought out Go to a medical facility to check your health before getting married. In the coming time, along with the implementation of the pre-marital health examination and counseling model, the Provincial Department of Population and Family Planning will continue to focus resources and effectively implement projects to improve quality. population, building and consolidating a network of information, counseling and RH/FP care services so that more and more young people know and come to the pre-marital health examination and counseling model. From there, equip yourself with knowledge about love, marriage, family, reproductive health care… to create a happy life for yourself and your family.

Mr. Nguyen Duc Hoang (Hai Ba Trung, Hanoi) said that he has lost his bald hair for about ten years. Although he is only 40 years old, his hair is already bald. Initially, Mr. Hoang also went to buy drugs to treat, stimulate hair growth … but the effect did not improve. Bald hair makes him lose confidence in communication. Many times I want to shave, but I can’t because of the specifics of the job, if I shave, I have to change the way I dress. Mr. Hoang works for a joint venture company specializing in supplying imported aluminum and plastic materials, so the reception is also a lot. Every time he goes out to meet a customer, everyone asks him “Are you a director, are you a boss”.. a lot. Many times Mr. Hoang goes with his boss to meet new customers, sometimes the partner rushes out to shake Mr. Hoang’s hand, leaving the real boss behind. Hoang only smiled wryly, sometimes his boss frowned because he was mistaken. Recently, Mr. Hoang heard about the hair transplant method, he was very interested in it, but when he consulted a few medical facilities, there were many problems that were not as simple as growing rice. Mr. Bui Phan Vinh (born 1987, Thai Binh) is also bald. Friends often joke that when he washes his face, it takes a long time to wash his hair. Vinh confided that to others, strong hair exudes masculinity, elegance and bravery, while he, on the contrary, loses confidence. Vinh went to the hospital and bought hair growth spray, but it didn’t work. Whenever there is an advertisement for a hair growth drug, Vinh buys and uses it from oral drugs to stimulate hair growth to spray and apply, but the results are not satisfactory, making him depressed. By now, at 34 years old, Vinh is still afraid to get married, because his hair is bald, he still feels guilty when taking pictures or having certain exchanges. Illustration. How is the treatment? BSCKII – Quach Thi Ha Giang – National Hospital of Dermatology said that male hormone hair loss is the most common type of hair loss in men. The forehead, top, and temples are common hair loss sites. In these areas, the hair becomes thin, reducing the diameter of the hair, and reducing the density of the hair. Many men are not too concerned about their problems, peacefully living with thinning hair that progresses naturally, but many people are very worried, guilty, low self-esteem, significantly affecting their quality of life. . Many men complain that baldness causes psychological guilt. Dr. Giang said that currently the treatment of male pattern baldness needs to determine the cause and there are many single or combination therapies that have been performed for patients with positive effects. However, dermatologists need to advise patients to understand the advantages and disadvantages of each therapy so that patients can adhere to and maintain treatment. Currently, hair transplant to treat baldness is of great interest to many people, according to Dr. Giang, this technique was first performed in 1930 in Japan for the hair loss area in the eyebrows. This is a measure that can clearly and long-term improve male pattern baldness. Hair transplant is a technique to permanently transfer hair follicles from the occipital area of ​​the scalp to the bald area at the top and forehead. With modern techniques, the survival rate of transplanted hair follicles can reach over 90%. The prerequisites for this procedure are stable hair loss and a sufficient amount of hair in the occipital region for implantation (> 40 hair follicles/cm2). According to Dr. Giang, there are two basic autologous hair transplant techniques: FUT (follicle unit transplantation) and FUE (follicle unit extraction). Each technique has different pros and cons. First, FUT hair transplant technique – take a scalp flap from 8-12mm wide, 20-30cm long in the occipital area or horizontally behind the ear, then separate each hair follicle to transplant into the bald area. The flap of skin that has just been cut will be sutured, there is a risk of scarring. Monday, FUE hair transplant technique – precisely remove individual hair follicles from the scalp, then graft to the bald area. This method has the advantage of less scarring, less pain, less swelling, but it takes a long time to perform the technique. After the hair transplant, Dr. Giang said, the hair follicles will enter a phase of cessation of growth, so it takes at least 3 months to see cosmetic improvements in those who are transplanted. Local hair follicles can still continue to progress naturally, so it is necessary to continue to maintain systemic and topical treatments such as minoxidil, finasteride for the best effect. In addition, men can be treated with other methods such as pills, low-dose laser…

Ariana Grande’s house was purchased for nearly $7 million. Photo: Realtor. Ariana Grande’s home is built in the English Tudor architectural style with two separate areas named Porter Barn and Black Barn. The two-bedroom and four-bathroom home features features such as vaulted ceilings, antique windows and brick fireplaces. To renew her residence, the singer built a gym with full equipment. The main kitchen of the house. Photo: Realtor. Ariana Grande’s house is located in an isolated area, with many trees and guaranteed security. Her neighbors are Oprah Winfrey, Ellen DeGeneres, husband and wife Harry and Meghan Markle… Ariana Grande has just held a secret wedding ceremony with Dalton Gomez in May with the participation of about 20 people who are family and close friends. The singer’s husband was born in 1995, 2 years younger than Grande. He grew up in southern California and has been in the real estate industry for 5 years. The two spent more than a year together before deciding to share a house. Ariana Grande is secretly married to Dalton Gomez. At the age of 27, Ariana Grande owns many valuable properties. In 2020, she bought a $13.7 million mansion in Hollywood. The singer’s beautiful home is located in the Bird Star neighborhood, an area where many celebrities live. The house is built on a hillside, three stories high with sea views. Ariana Grande’s home is about 10,000 square feet, with four bedrooms, an office and seven bathrooms. Before that, in 2018, Ariana Grande showed off her $16 million apartment in the center of New York City (USA).

Rakesh and Dakshina invited 161 guests to their wedding ceremony on the plane. Rakesh and Dakshina, from Madurai, India decided to get married, but due to restrictions and regulations to prevent the Covid-19 epidemic, the couple came up with the idea of ​​​​having a wedding ceremony on an airplane. The couple made this a reality when chartering a plane and holding a wedding ceremony on a flight from Madurai to Bangalore on May 23. The flight took off from Madurai International Airport at 7 a.m., although the guest list far exceeded the state government’s limit for maximum gatherings at an event. The video shows the flight filled with guests as the couple stood in front of the aisle and performed the ceremony. The groom can be seen placing a traditional ornament around the bride’s neck while attendees cheer and toss flowers at them. The flight was packed with people. Rakesh and Dakshina officially performed the ceremony as soon as the plane flew over Madurai Meenakshi Amman Temple. After the wedding on the plane, the couple went to a hotel in Bangalore for a small reception. All passengers on board, who are their relatives, have had RT-PCR tests and tested negative. However, many guests chose not to wear masks and did not keep a safe distance. The police have received information about the incident and are considering whether to open an investigation into violations of regulations on prevention of the Covid-19 epidemic.

Ariana Grande’s house was purchased for nearly $7 million. Photo: Realtor. Ariana Grande’s home is built in the English Tudor architectural style with two separate areas named Porter Barn and Black Barn. The two-bedroom and four-bathroom home features features such as vaulted ceilings, antique windows and brick fireplaces. To renew her residence, the singer built a gym with full equipment. The main kitchen of the house. Photo: Realtor. Ariana Grande’s house is located in an isolated area, with many trees and guaranteed security. Her neighbors are Oprah Winfrey, Ellen DeGeneres, husband and wife Harry and Meghan Markle… Ariana Grande has just held a secret wedding ceremony with Dalton Gomez in May with the participation of about 20 people who are family and close friends. The singer’s husband was born in 1995, 2 years younger than Grande. He grew up in southern California and has been in the real estate industry for 5 years. The two spent more than a year together before deciding to share a house. Ariana Grande is secretly married to Dalton Gomez. At the age of 27, Ariana Grande owns many valuable properties. In 2020, she bought a $13.7 million mansion in Hollywood. The singer’s beautiful home is located in the Bird Star neighborhood, an area where many celebrities live. The house is built on a hillside, three stories high with sea views. Ariana Grande’s home is about 10,000 square feet, with four bedrooms, an office and seven bathrooms. Before that, in 2018, Ariana Grande showed off her $16 million apartment in the center of New York City (USA).

He Dao Van Nam ( 53 years old, from Vinh Phuc) has 5 daughters, all of them are married far away, but they all love their parents and come back to reunite every weekend. The cowpea rig is full of fruit, cultivated and cared for by Mr. Nam. Loving the children who are getting married far away, and wanting them to have clean vegetables and fruits to use every day, he made his own garden at home so that every weekend the children would have food to pack to take away. At first, his family only planted a few perennial fruit trees such as jackfruit, pomelo, sapodilla, coconut, apple, etc. Later, when the children got married, Mr. Nam planted many other fruits and vegetables. Knowing that their parents love bonsai but don’t have much money to buy, the daughters sometimes come back and add more plants to the garden. Gradually the garden was also filled with green trees. “My garden is about 200 square meters. Trees surround the house, so in the summer you don’t have to worry about the children playing in the sun. On both sides of the house, my wife and I mainly grow perennial fruit trees, in front of the yard are pots of ancient roses. In the garden, there are more asparagus, cloves, chayote, strawberries and some short-term leafy vegetables,” said Mr. Nam. Fresh asparagus stalks The garden is full of different kinds of fruit Also according to Mr. Nam’s share, he gardening completely by organic methods, so the short-term vegetables and flowers must be taken care of more meticulously from the stages of composting, pruning leaves, catching worms, etc. “The house is surrounded by fish ponds, so the humid environment will have many insects. There are vegetable seasons when I’m busy and I don’t have time to take care of them, the insects eat all the roots and tops, I have to buy new plants instead, take care of the vegetables from the beginning. With fruit trees, it takes less care, the tree still grows and bears a lot of fruit,” said Mr. Nam. Daughters get married far away, every time they return to their hometown, they feel at peace in front of their parents’ garden. It is a strange thing that all the fruit trees in Mr. Nam’s house do not have to be cared for much, but they are very wrong. Neighbors who came to visit also praised his garden and learned from his experience of taking care of plants. “There are five jackfruit trees with a harvest of up to 100 fruits growing from root to tip, my family has to pick and share with everyone. Even the coconut tree, when my daughter was pregnant, she kept picking the whole room of coconuts to drink but couldn’t. There are fruits that are aged for a long time and I bring them to the store with meat, which is also very delicious. My wife and I are very happy to share with everyone the results we have made,” said Mr. Nam happily. The garden is green all year round The garden contains many deep memories with Mr. Nam’s family. He still vividly remembers the hot summer afternoons, the children who couldn’t sleep, kept playing with goods, eating mandarin umbrellas, jumping rope under the jackfruit tree. He wants nothing more than to want his children to be happy and peaceful like the childhood memories that they still tell each other to this day. “Happiness is simply the moment when the whole family goes out to the garden to pick vegetables, happily cook family meals, and watch the children play under the tree. My hometown is a bunch of sweet star fruit, so I always want my children to eat the “bundles of sweet star fruit” made by myself. I will collect and grow a lot of delicious vegetables and sweet fruits so that every time I go back to my hometown, my children and grandchildren can eat well,” said Mr. Nam.

A part of modern women today has the idea of ​​not wanting to give birth, partly because of economic pressures, fear of not being able to take good care of their children and a small part because they fear that having a baby can harm their lives. inherent shape and shape. So if you look at the “mums with milk” that give birth to a whole bunch of children and still look as beautiful as runner-up Ngo Thuy Ha, will they think again? Ngo Thuy Ha was born in 1979, crowned runner-up at the Miss Vietnam pageant in 1998. At that time, she was a very “hot” name with oriental beauty, slim body and special waistline. 56cm smallest Vietnamese model village at that time. But after getting married, Ngo Thuy Ha almost disappeared from showbiz, retired to business and became a mother. Ngo Thuy Ha owns a beautiful beauty, a slim body when crowned runner-up Vietnam in 1998. Recently, Vietnam runner-up has had a rare public appearance. It was during the music rehearsal to prepare for the liveshow of a close friend – male singer Quang Ha. Here, Ngo Thuy Ha impresses with a rustic, simple but no less elegant and noble appearance. In particular, the body of a mother of 4 at the age of 42 is still neat and toned, and her skin is pinkish and smooth, admirable. Rare runner-up appeared in public lately. She still maintains a neat figure with youthful, smooth skin. However, few people know that the time after giving birth to 3 children (Ngo Thuy Ha has 4 children, of which one is adopted “, she also had a time when she was disorganized, her body was rough and her hair was messy because take care of children. She confided: “Because I gave birth to 3 children immediately, my body could not rest in time, normally I weigh 54 kg, when pregnant, the weight is 80, 82 kg looks terrible. After giving birth, I am also smooth and simple. On the street, I still have a messy hair and I never thought I was the runner “. Everything only changed when Ngo Thuy Ha accidentally met an old acquaintance and heard them exclaim: “God, is this the old runner Ngo Thuy Ha or not, I don’t even recognize you”. At that time, she was startled, looked back at herself and found herself still bored with herself, let alone anyone else. So a mother with many children is determined to “slap” herself. Runner Ngo Thuy Ha underwent 3 births after receiving a first adopted baby. “I am determined to reduce my diet, do not eat carbohydrates, sugar and fat. After a month and a half I have lost 16 kg, my body is slimmer and I also know how to invest in clothes. thank you old friend for the very comment that “awakened” me, Ngo Thuy Ha shared. The mother of four also said that in the past, people favorably called her the beauty queen with the smallest waist (56 cm), but after giving birth, all were upside down, the waist 56 cm to 65 cm, the third round also from 89 cm into 98 cm. But she is lucky and satisfied because her body is still slim and toned. The mother of 4 also had a period of ebb and flow, but quickly recovered after giving birth. Sharing more about the secret to having a rosy white, smooth skin that makes herself always younger than her age, the 1998 runner said she … has no secret. Because of her allergic condition, Ngo Thuy Ha cannot make-up and always has a completely bare face. When going out, she only wears lipstick and applies a little more sunscreen, but skin creams are also rarely used because she often forgets. “I must be happy, so young for a long time, playing with children makes me feel so cute and lovely. I am also an optimistic person in thinking and simple in action. I am a peaceful person, not indulgent. pit, because if I want money too much, I would have been like today “, The 4-child runner revealed the “unique” secret to preserve beauty. Ngo Thuy Ha is young thanks to a happy life, less crowded. Ngo Thuy Ha also said she has absolutely no intention of returning to showbiz. Currently, she runs a furniture company and focuses on taking care of and nurturing 4 children. Principles of eating after giving birth to lose weight effectively The runner, which has a neat and slim body like Ngo Thuy Ha, cannot avoid gaining weight and losing shape when pregnant. But after giving birth, she quickly lost 16kg thanks to a change in a scientific, balanced diet. Postpartum mothers can refer to the following principles of eating after giving birth to lose weight safely and effectively: – Eat many meals, each meal with a moderate portion, avoid overeating in one meal. – Cut down on carbs, eat more protein-rich foods such as lean meat, chicken, beans, fish and calcium supplements from milk, yogurt, … – Eat a variety of fruits and vegetables to supplement vitamins and fiber. Healthy snacks: Eat snacks that are low in fat and sugar such as fresh fruits or whole grains. Drink lots of water: When you are dehydrated, your mother’s body will not burn many calories. Drink at least 1 glass of water each time you feed your baby. Eliminate greasy fast foods. – Do not drink alcoholic or carbonated water.

Get married through the brokerage center Many foreign brides are “invisible people”. After many years of suffering from an abusive husband, not allowed to leave the house and often starved, Lyly (character has been renamed) – the 30-year-old Vietnamese bride has decided to leave her bad husband. Lyly said her ex-husband, a driver about 60 years old, often beat her when he was angry, drunk or losing money. “I don’t know where the market is, where the bus station is. I have no money and no friends. I ask him for money to spend in the house, but he always asks” What do you need money for? For another guy? “, She shared about her difficulties. Once, he didn’t buy anything for her and their son for a week. Lyly said she took her son away at least 3 times but returned because her husband promised to change. However, Lily continued to suffer violence. He even starved her mother and daughter. Desperate, Lyly turned to the police. Thanks to her shelter, she was referred to lawyer June Lim, who represented her to carry out free divorce proceedings. Lyly has sole custody of his son – who is a Singaporean, 6 years old this year. After the divorce, Lyly’s ex-husband canceled her long-term relative visit visa. However, she was fortunate enough to be sponsored by a friend to be able to stay. “If no one helps, I don’t know what to do,” she said. Not only Lyly, many foreign women married to Singapore face a wide range of issues from domestic violence to poverty and uncertain futures in Singapore. These women seem “invisible and have no voice” because of their immigration status, limited rights, lack of protection by law and difficult access to social welfare. Many people lack understanding of the rights and benefits they enjoy, feel helpless in need of help because they do not know where to go for help. This is partly due to their limited social network in Singapore. They are often financially dependent on their husbands. Some people suffer from marriage violence or conflict for fear of leaving their children if their husbands cancel their long-term relative’s visas upon divorce. Member of a matchmaking company in Singapore. Photo: The Straits Times The government gave “fulcrum” A spokesman for the Lawyers Association Pro Bono said that it is very important that the Singapore Government publicizes its stance on the immigration status of foreigners after divorce. This is a “thoughtful and tolerant” approach by the government of this country, she said. In addition, a spokesman for the Ministry of the Interior (MHA) told The Straits Times that widows, spouses or divorced Singapore citizens have the right to custody of children under the age of 21. They are allowed to live in Singapore on a long-term visitor visa until the child reaches 21 years of age. Although the former Singaporean spouse cancels the visa extension, they can still be sponsored by another Singapore citizen or permanent resident over the age of 21. At the age of 21, children can sponsor foreign parents to stay. Since December 2018, the Pro Bono Lawyers Association and Ms. June Lim – CEO of Eden Law Firm – have started the LEAF Project (Empowerment and Legal Support for Foreign Spouses). . The LEAF project is now part of a Family Justice Assistance program that helps noncitizens or Singapore permanent residents with marriage matters. The project aims to provide free assistance to a spouse who is a foreigner who meets a number of conditions, for example with a per capita monthly income of S $ 950 or less. They decided to start this pilot scheme because foreign spouses with children in Singapore are a “particularly vulnerable” group. They often depend on their partner for all aspects of their life. They may not have anyone to help them in the face of home violence or a broken marriage. In many cases, they also do not have any other friends or relatives in Singapore, they just have to look to charities like LEAF to stay. To avoid unfortunate things from happening, the Singapore Department of Family and Social Development has introduced a marriage support program for couples of different nationalities to help them have a strong marriage foundation. The program offers classes that teach English or Mandarin for the brides, give instructions on how to communicate, deal with conflicts in a multicultural setting, as well as tips on living in Singapore. Source: Straits Times, Sixth Tone

Recently, on his personal page, Phan Nhu Thao received a donation of 4,791 square meters of land in Lam Dong province, so many people couldn’t help but admire. Photo: FBNV. Before that, when married to great Duc An, Phan Nhu Thao lived in a 5-storey house in the heart of District 1 (Ho Chi Minh City). The house was asked to buy for 45 billion but she did not sell. Photo: Vietnamnet In 2019, the former model was given a 100m2 villa with a cost of about 25 billion VND in Da Lat, named Villa Bo Do (after the little girl’s name). Photo: Vietnamnet Next, giant Duc An presented his wife with a 800-square-meter wooden villa built on the pine hill in Da Lat. Photo: Saostar The villa of Phan Nhu Thao is built entirely of steel and wood frame, four sides covered with glass; All walls and floors are covered with pine wood. Photo: Saostar With the criteria of being close to nature and children can freely run and jump, the villa is decorated with modern and luxurious furniture, overlooking the pine forest. Photo: FBNV. Estimated, the 800m2 wooden villa of Phan Nhu Thao couple is worth about 40 billion VND. Photo: Saostar Not only building a house for his wife, Duc An giant also guides Phan Nhu Thao on the business management so that now, she is extremely successful as the owner of her own spa chain. Photo: Vietnamnet Dai Duc An also said that he authorized his wife as well as his will. Photo: Ngoisao. He affirmed: “If I give Thao a piece of land, she will know what to do with it to make a profit”. Photo: Vietnamnet Video: Ho Chi Minh City preserves ancient villas. Source: VTV24

After Nhu Thuy’s victory in the first round, the six contestants continued to enter the second round with themes Singer Ngoc Anh . At the first night of competition in episode 3 Listen to me sing 2021 , Tuan Hoang, Tina Ngoc Nu and Nhu Thuy will be the faces participating in the competition. Appearing on the judges’ bench as usual is still the main judge throughout, singer Thai Chau; topic judge, singer Ngoc Anh and guest judge, editor, MC Minh Duc. Nhu Thuy. Photo: JET With the victor’s attitude last week, Nhu Thuy “volunteered” to perform her first song and the song that this talented girl chose was Country boat trip . The reason for Nhu Thuy to choose her hometown music to compete is because she feels a lack of confidence in performing singer Ngoc Anh’s “rock quality”. In exchange for having to sing the sweet, deep Country boat trip It is also an interesting challenge and experience that Nhu Thuy gives me. Judge Ngoc Anh expressed interest in the version of Nhu Thuy brought with a new and youthful rhythm. Photo: JET Ngoc Anh commented that instead of bringing a nostalgic feeling of her homeland trip to the expatriates like her original, Nhu Thuy sent the message to return to her homeland, everything is happy but fresh. new. Tina Ngoc Nu. Photo: JET Coming to Tina Ngoc Nu, she expressed her admiration for the talent of singer Ngoc Anh. The beauty of Vietnamese and French origin chose for her song Huong silently , a hit hit at the beginning of the profession by “Queen of Rock”. For the first time listening and singing, Tina Ngoc Nu worked to ask her to translate each word and sentence to understand the meaning and emotion contained in the work. With the subject judge Ngoc Anh, despite her love, she did not appreciate Tina’s performance in terms of rhythm and attachment. Trailer Listen to me sing 2021 – Episode 3. Source: JET Listen to me sing 2021 aired at 21:00 every Thursday on channel THVL1.

Accordingly, Sacombank’s shareholder meeting has approved the business plan of 2021 with the pre-tax profit target of 4,000 billion dong, up 20% year-on-year. In addition, total assets are 533,300 billion VND, an increase of 8% compared to 2020; the total mobilized capital reached 485,500 billion VND, an increase of 9% over the previous year. In which, mobilization from residents and economic organizations is expected to reach VND 478,300 billion, an increase of 9%; Total credit balance reached 372,000 billion VND, up 9% compared to 2020. Sacombank said, based on the allowed credit growth of the State Bank and the business situation in 2021, the Board of Directors will adjust appropriate deposit and loan growth target. NPL ratio with Sacombank’s target in control is below 2%. Answering questions from shareholders about business results in the first quarter of 2021, Ms. Nguyen Duc Thach Diem, General Director of Sacombank said that by the end of March 2021, Sacombank’s capital mobilization increased by over 3.5%, lending credit room reached 5.8%, revenue over 1,200 billion services. Bad debt settlement in 4 months is 2,280 billion dong. Profit reached 25% of the plan, equivalent to 1,000 billion VND. Sacombank’s Board of Directors also said that the bank’s profit retained was high at 6,000 billion dong. The Bank plans to use retained earnings to pay stock dividends, to increase charter capital as well as to meet shareholders’ expectations for many years without receiving dividends. Sacombank has submitted to the State Bank for dividends, but since the Bank is in the restructuring process, resources must be concentrated to handle bad debts. Sacombank aims to handle VND 10,000 billion of bad debt. Responding to shareholders about the dividend schedule, Mr. Duong Cong Minh, Chairman of the Board of Directors of Sacombank, said that when the restructuring is successful, the Bank’s Board of Directors promises to try to restructure successfully in 5 years, expected to be 2022 or more. to normal status, early 2023 will be able to pay dividends. According to Mr. Minh, the Bank is focusing on handling outstanding bad debts. The bank continues to open a public and transparent auction of Phong Phu industrial park. Over the past time, Phong Phu shareholders have had a lot of controversy to buy and sell lawsuits, so the People’s Committee of Ho Chi Minh City is suspending to resolve it completely, hoping to continue to handle it in 2021. In addition, Sacombank has also sold successful auction of many real estate to recover bad debt. Before the information about whether to merge LienVietPostBank (LPB) into Sacombank (STB) as well as the relationship between these two banks, Mr. Duong Cong Minh said: “LienVietPostBank is a natural child, I let go to get married, Sacombank is my daughter-in-law recently married, so I’m more precious, and my job is to focus on Sacombank “. In addition, the Chairman of Sacombank also informs shareholders about plans to sell capital to foreign investors that can only be resolved when the restructuring is successful. Speaking at the AGM of Sacombank this morning, the representative of the State Bank highly appreciated the handling of the post-merger bad debts of Sacombank. In particular, the role of the head of the Board of Directors is Mr. Duong Cong Minh – Chairman of the Board of Directors and Ms. Nguyen Duc Thach Diem – General Director of Sacombank. However, at the request of SBV leaders, after the epidemic is controlled, Sacombank needs to focus on promoting asset sales to handle bad debts and outstanding assets since the time of Tram Be at Phuong Bank. South after merging with Sacombank. By the end of 2020, Sacombank’s consolidated pre-tax profit reached VND 3,339 billion, an increase of 3.8% compared to 2019 and 30% higher than the plan. Profit after tax reached VND 2,682 billion, up 9.2%. Total provision balance of Sacombank by the end of 2020 is 13,000 billion VND, an increase of 43.3% compared to 2019 (equivalent to the level of provisioning in 2020 is 3,951 billion VND). As of December 31, 2020, total bank assets reached VND 492,637 billion, an increase of 8.6% compared to the end of the previous year. Customer deposits increased by 6.8%, reaching VND 427,972 billion. By the end of 2020, the total NPL of Sacombank increased by 0.8% to 5,780 billion VND. Meanwhile, customer loans balance grew 14.9% y / y to VND 340,268 billion. Thereby dragging the ratio of NPLs to total outstanding loans decreased from 1.94% to 1.7%. Sacombank’s revenue from collecting and handling bad debts in the past year reached more than VND 15,200 billion. In which, 8,200 billion VND was withdrawn from the Sacombank Restructuring Project after merging with Southern Bank. Raising the accumulated recovery from the project implementation to 46,457 billion VND, reaching 52.2% of the overall plan of the Project to 2025, exceeding 4.2% of the progress. Outstanding assets under the Project decreased by 48.2% compared to the end of 2016, accounting for 9.8% of total assets, contributing to increasing the proportion of profitable assets from 67.9% to 85.2%.

Since both are about to turn 40, fans await the dream wedding of the two most powerful stars in Korea. Amid the media speculating about Hyun Bin and Son Ye Jin’s house, the newspaper Ilyo revealed that the 39-year-old actor bought a new penthouse worth about $ 4.3 million. This is considered Hyun Bin’s marriage preparation. The place where Hyun Bin lives is high tranquility and privacy. RiRi followed in the footsteps of a colleague who bought a house after dating According to the SCMP Hyun Bin’s new $ 4.3 million penthouse is too large for a person to live in. Therefore, it is not wrong for the media and fans to think that he buys a house to prepare for a marriage. During the past year, many Korean stars bought a new house after declaring their love stories or deciding to marry, Hyun Bin was also among them. The couple recently known to join the “dating, buying and getting married” cycle are actor So Ji Sub and former reporter Cho Eun Jung. June 2019, movie star Glass shoes spent $ 5 million in cash to buy real estate in Hannam The Hill in Hannamdong area. The property is located near Nine One Hannam, the residence of G-Dragon and several other famous idols. The couple landed where he followed in the footsteps of his colleague to buy a house to plan marriage. Real estate was bought only a month later, he publicized his relationship with reporter Cho Eun Jung. After months of dating, So Ji Sub got married in April 2020 and moved home. Rain and Kim Tae Hee did the same thing a few years ago. Movie stars Happy home bought a house in Itaewon area in October 2016, just three months before getting married to “national treasure of Korean beauty”. Song Joong Ki and Song Hye Kyo also have a similar way of buying a house before getting married. Dilettante Descendants of the sun Buy a villa in Hannamdong for about $ 9 million before officially officially dating Song Hye Kyo. However, the powerful couple divorced. Become the neighbor of many famous people Amid the media constantly discussing Hyun Bin’s new home, Vast Entertainment quickly said, “We cannot confirm or reveal the details of the house. It is Hyun Bin’s private residence”. Although not directly confirmed, many fans believe that Hyun Bin buys a house to prepare to welcome Son Ye Jin to live with him. December 2020, movie star I’m Kim Sam Soon moved to a penthouse with an area of ​​about 242 m2, located in the Walkerhill Podoville area of ​​2,600 square meters. Real estate Hyun Bin just bought is located in Achiul Village, an eco-friendly neighborhood in Guri City, Gyeonggi Province, not far from Seoul. According to the Sunday News, All procedures, papers to transfer the ownership of the villa have been transferred to Hyun Bin by the investor since early January. Park Jin Young and Oh Yeon Seo are Hyun Bin’s new neighbors. From a distance, the attic apartment is tastefully designed with a garden on the top floor, lots of open and airy spaces. The property has transparent glass windows, including a sky well. However, the apartment still retains a very high privacy. The interior of the house is also designed with a simple but luxurious architecture, while the bedroom has a spacious, comfortable bed, and a large wardrobe. After buying an apartment in Achiul Village, Hyun Bin became the neighbor of many big stars, typically Park Jin Young – the CEO of JYP Entertainment. Park Jin Young introduced her apartment in Achiul Village while appearing on show Our Neighborhood Arts and Physical Education. Comedian Yang Se Hyung visited JYP’s boss’s house and confirmed Achiul was a good accommodation. He contacted the real estate agent to find out information about the real estate. Singer Jo Sung Mo and actor Oh Yeon Seo – the actress appeared in many dramas like Enthusiasm, Hoa Du Ky … – also becomes Hyun Bin’s new neighbor. Oh Yeon Seo lives right below the 39-year-old’s apartment. Due to the high privacy, the neighborhood attracts many famous artists specializing in painting and composing. Some famous names are writer Lee Hwa, Park Wan Suh, painter Lee Seong Ja, Choi Ji Suk and hanbok designer Heo Young. Hyun Bin’s expensive real estate The $ 4.3 million penthouse is not the only property Hyun Bin owns. In 2013, the actor Memories of the Alhambra Buying the entire building in Cheongdamdong for $ 4.3 million. This is considered an upmarket and expensive neighborhood not inferior to Hannamdong in Seoul. The actor also aggressively spent $ 2.4 million to turn the old house into a modern and comfortable place to live. In 2017, with its expensive facade and luxurious design, the building won the 35th Seoul Architecture Awards Excellence Award. Currently, the market price of the building falls to about 8.9 million USD. Hyun Bin used to live in many expensive areas. Before moving to a penthouse, Hyun Bin lived in the luxurious Mark Hills area in Heukseokdong, Seoul, South Korea. In Korea, Mark Hills is considered a building with a beautiful view, watching the Han River, Namsan Tower hidden in the fog. Information from TMI News , to own an apartment in Mark Hills, buyers have to spend 3-4.5 billion won (equivalent to 2.5-3.7 million USD). While living in Mark Hills, the actor became the neighbor of many stars, including actor Lee Min Ho, couple Jang Dong Gun – Ko So Young, sister couple Krystal Jung of group f (x) and Jessica. Jung (SNSD), Daesung (Big Bang) …

I have a physical appearance, and is judged by my colleagues to be younger than my real age. Besides, I also have a stable job, the salary is enough for me to live comfortably. Reading here, many people will wonder: Why is the condition so good, am I getting married late? That’s because in the past, I used to fall in love with one person. But in the end he betrayed me, stole all my money to run away with another woman. That shocked me very badly. It took me a long time to stabilize. And since then I’ve always had a bad feeling about love. I have no intention of getting married. Because I feel that my life right now is fine. Sometimes going to weddings sees people being happy together, or seeing lovers on the street … I feel a little off. But I think it is better to stay like that than being betrayed and deceived. But I can’t overcome family pressure. I can’t bear to go back to my hometown, my mother cries out loud, saying that my family is blessed, and has a lovely daughter, not so bad that no one will be surprised. As for my father, my grandmother, and my relatives, I just urged me to get married for everyone who had grandchildren to hold them … In the end, I gave up, in peace to let my mother match up a husband. Through a professional matchmaker, my mother found me a man who turned fifty (50 years old). However, he has never been married. In contrast, he has a house, a car, and a decent job. In the early days of my dating, I was captivated by his politeness and profound understanding. Then, I quickly forgot my guilt, nodded in agreement to marry. The wedding took place just 2 months after the first meeting. Illustration. On my wedding day, everyone was happy, me too. I eagerly think about my new future. But things are completely contrary to my thinking. On the wedding night, her husband approached me with a lewd face that was completely different from his usual politeness. He touches me impulsively. I’m not used to it, put his hand away, say slowly, because we have never been so close. Finished he laughed, telling me: “The boat is built now, and the high bar is set up?”. I’m shocked! But not in time to regain his spirit, he pulled my hand sideways to another room. It had all sorts of sex toys out there – something I’ve only seen on the internet that I’ve never seen with my own eyes. “ My job is to be my wife well. If you know how to serve, I won’t let you down. Know it yet? Whatever you want ” – When he finished, he pushed me in and tortured me all night in there. In the morning, I frown on my face, my whole body aches and I can’t shuffle back to my room. But my husband considered not. He threw me a to-do list for me and said: “Now I have to go out. You clean the house, then cook. At 12 o’clock you have to have rice, everything should be decent. Especially the first floor, clean it up, the wedding day is crowded. You can walk, you can die. Well, you should quit your job, you have more money for you to live happily. And so from that day until now, I have been like an umbrella in the house. This board is cleaning, taking care of the rice. The evening serves his bizarre hobby. I take 10 days off, everyone thinks I’m happy, happy on my honeymoon. In fact, I’m so tired I can’t even crawl … Now I suddenly understand why my husband is never married at age 50. Perhaps no one girl meets his bizarre hobby and paternalism. I am a fool, deceived by your elegant cover. I regret it now. I want to give up everything about my mother, is that okay?

The gentleman has a headache because “above said, below does not listen” (Artwork) Worry because “little boy” is no longer the same MSc. BS. Ta Viet Cuong – Deputy Director of the Center for Obstetrics and Gynecology and Reproductive Health Care, Hanoi Obstetrics and Gynecology Hospital – said: Recently, the doctor has received many cases of male examination because of the husband and wife’s “blanket and pillow” problems. Recently, BS. Cuong was sent by a colleague to send a relative to be examined because of weakness in physiology. Patient is a man over 30 years old, married and with 2 children. Looking very healthy on the outside, but mentally worried. At the clinic, the patient shared: After 5 years of being married, recently he felt that his “little boy” is no longer the same. Whenever the couple did “sex”, he found it difficult to “enter the battle” because the penis could not be erect. After the effects, even though the penis can be an erection, it is very easy to “pass”. This made the wife unhappy and he himself felt uncomfortable. The story of “blanket and pillow” plays an important role in the couple’s love life (Artwork) When the doctor asked more carefully about the health status, family, … the patient said normal. Through examination and testing, the doctor determined that the patient did not have a male disease. The main cause of the “weak” young boy in battle may be related to family life, husband and wife’s love. When asked more about the couple connection, this man shared that: “The couple has been married for a long time, the relationship between husband and wife is no longer the same as when they first fell in love. Specifically, the two people no longer feel new, no longer excited. Even the wife is no longer as unfamiliar as when she first fell in love. In the past, my wife was both good and beautiful, and now she’s fat and like my mother ”. BS. Cuong said that the “physiological weakness” that the husband complained of and had to see a doctor was completely understandable. After a period of marriage, married life, especially sex, has decreased desire, when the desire is reduced, the arousal is reduced, there will be a situation “in the upper and lower level does not listen”. “In fact, reducing libido is not only in men but also in women. However, due to the way of thinking of society, due to the education problem, the woman is less likely to confess than the man. ”- Doctor. Cuong said. Refresh “love” to sublimate together To solve the problem of “above and below not listening” of the patient, the doctor. Cuong said that husband and wife need to regularly renew their “love”. When the “love” is renewed, the two receive enough sexual stimulation and attraction from each other, making both of them desire, feeling close to each other, touching each other then it will be solved the problem and you both will reach pleasure. “Pleasure is only achieved when the two can catch up with each other, both understand what the other wants and work together. And in the case of men reaching their destination earlier, or also known as early climax, people call them physiological weakness, but scientifically it is called premature ejaculation. On the contrary, if two people are close together, receive enough stimulation but the man can not harden (or see in old age), it will be called erectile dysfunction ”- BS. Cuong analyzed. In addition, the decrease in libido can also be caused by the husband or wife being worried, depressed, having problems in family life, falling love, too much responsibility to lose desire. close to each other but just trying to fulfill the responsibility of the other person. When meeting the above problems, BS. Cuong thinks that each family will react differently. Some people realize the problem of understanding the problem and hold hands together to heal, some break up, some people satisfy themselves (masturbate). However, “the best way is that the couple need to share, sympathize with each other, work together, renew the” love “to make life go up” – Doctor. Cuong advises.

For a long time, the two became acquainted. However, , after that, Truong Phuong’s father still could not conquer sickness. His death made his daughter very sad. Truong Phuong at that time was a child, also considered Van Truong Lam as a family, so he relied on him for a long time. Thanks to the familiar doctor by his side, Truong Phuong gradually forgot the pain of losing his father and became happy again. She was very grateful to the doctor and formed a deep friendship between them. After spending time together, they fell in love and eventually became married. When they got married, Truong Phuong was 28 years old, and Van Truong Lam was 73 years old. At that time, Truong Phuong’s mother wanted her to marry a young man from a nearby village, even accepting their home ceremony. However, Truong Phuong’s “stubborn temperament” at that time made everyone unable to convince her. More importantly, she not only refused her mother’s request, but also decided to marry Van Truong Lam immediately. The incident caused a stir in public opinion in the village. Everyone thought that the girl was over-dressed and would have to regret it later. In the end, Truong Phuong and Van Truong Lam also achieved their goal. After getting married, they still gave birth to a baby boy. The couple also participated in the show “Happiness to knock on the door” on television, which surprised the audience with their post-marriage life, extremely simple, despite their normal living conditions. But the breath of a happy life filled the house like many other families. Truong Phuong stays at home to take care of his children and do chores in his spare time. Van Truong Lam is still the main source of income and the breadwinner of the family, he often visits home to visit for patients. Van Truong Lam loves Truong Phuong very much, because every time he comes home, he considers whether to bring something such as household appliances or clothes to Truong Phuong. When the couple looked at each other, their eyes filled with love and hope. In the past, villagers who used to see this as a joke always asked Truong Phuong if she would regret it. But no matter how many people ask, Truong Phuong always insists that he has no regrets. Now, people in the village that used to not take this relationship seriously also begin to send their blessings to them. Today, more and more people are pessimistic about their marriage, feeling that the marriage is not as good as they thought. But for this couple, on the contrary, they are even happier and more peaceful than normal couples. Looking at Truong Phuong and Van Truong Lam so happy, many people will wake up and realize that love is always so warm. However, many questions are raised around the age gap so much, whether they have any difficulty in raising children. Most people believe that the large gap between the two sides easily causes a generation gap. When faced with anything, a wife may have a more flexible resolution or attitude, while an older husband may be more stubborn and rigid. If neither side gives in, the relationship will turn into a game of tit-for-tat and will inevitably deteriorate. The large age gap means that older people will leave the world sooner, and those who stay will endure loneliness while alone. Conversely, if couples are the same age, they may spend more time together. This way, the longer they are together, the longer they will be with the children. In addition, in terms of children’s education, the pairs of “deviated chopsticks” are also often faced with conflicting opinions more often. Today, education is increasingly developing, because the young and the old receive different educational environments, so they will definitely give their own opinions in the process of educating children. Parents’ educational differences will not only affect their relationship but also their children. So in a family with such a large age gap, how can children have a correct view of the two words “family”? First of all, the relationship between parents must be harmonious. Parents should not lose their temper because of disagreement, because it will affect the family atmosphere. Children are very sensitive and can easily feel their parents’ feelings, and at the same time, they also develop a mentality quickly. In order for children to have a correct view of marriage and love, first of all, the love between parents must be harmonious, children must feel the love of their parents and the warmth of the family. For example, Truong Phuong might tell the child that she loves her husband very much, and the couple loves you very much, even though the father may leave later, but his love for the child is always something to be cherished to cherish. . At that time, the child will mature and will know how to cherish himself and others.

Not long ago, Dong Son Xuzhou Court, China tried the divorce case between a 70-year-old couple. Ms. Liu said she had difficulty resolutely demanding a divorce even when her family went bankrupt. In 1975, Ms. Liu and Mr. Wang registered their marriage. For more than 40 years, Ms. Liu suffered year-round domestic violence resulting in repeated miscarriages, her health was not normal. At the age near the earth, she decided to divorce her husband with the solid support of her children. “This nightmare is finally over!” – Ms. Liu burst into tears when she received her divorce verdict. Writer Strindberg said: “The most beautiful and painful is love. Marrying someone is the most important investment in a person’s life. A good marriage doesn’t have to be paradise but one. Bad marriage is definitely hell. Illustration. There was a topic on social networks: “What experience can we learn from a good husband?”. A reader named Xiao shared her story. Her husband is very stingy, does not allow her to use credit cards, does not allow her to go to restaurants, let alone use expensive skin care products and rarely gives her gifts except for her birthday. This taciturn, taciturn man often made her question her original choice. Xiao has a disability in her legs, her parents abandoned her at a young age. During an argument, she blamed her husband for being stingy, he shouted: “Don’t you know how to eat and drink? But is it time? I want to save enough money for you to have surgery sooner. Recovery becomes more difficult as you get older. Only then did Xiao understand her husband’s sincere feelings for her. Marriage is to find a normal person, to live a normal life happily. A good marriage can help one complete person. A bad marriage can bury a person. Shakespeare said: “Marriage is not satisfactory like hell, fighting for a lifetime is also not peaceful, on the contrary, choosing a mate like that can be peaceful, happy hundred years”. Japanese filmmaker Miyazaki says that whoever you choose from is their lifestyle and values. Which partner you choose not only determines your current life circumstances and moods, but also all the emotions you will experience in your future life. How is marrying the right person? As the saying goes, the other half is the most important investment in life. A spouse with negative energy will only bring negative energy into your life, while someone with positive energy can give you more positive energy. Illustration. In fact, the so-called right marriage is probably two people going through the storms of life together. In the end, you get better and make the enemy better. Many people wonder, how do you know if a man is worthy of marriage? Many people agree that a person worthy of marriage will have the same mindset in solving big problems. Many people avoid discussing some issues in love and marriage, and even classify them as forbidden areas, but these issues will emerge sooner or later. For example: Do you agree to live with your parents-in-law? Is there a monthly allowance for parents? Can dowry money be negotiated? If one day the other half leaves? … Before getting married, these issues need to be seriously discussed with your spouse, being honest about each other’s ideas, what can be done, and what can’t. Not everyone is suitable for getting old with you. Someone comes to help us become more mature, someone comes to live with, and someone has to spend a lifetime to remember. Life is an adventure full of unknowns, it is impossible to choose the starting point, let alone predict the future correctly. However, as long as you marry the right people, the value you can get is much greater than your wealth. Choosing a suitable spouse, taking care of each other, caring for each other, having children and raising children are the happiest things in the world.

I am 27 years old this year, no lover, and have just experienced a few love that went nowhere in the past. However, this does not bother me. With a strong personality, I live a celibacy, prioritize loving myself, don’t need a man to “fill the void”.

However, my daughter was also of age, my mother kept urging me to get married quickly and give birth to children. She is from the previous generation, her thoughts are a bit old-fashioned. Before, when my father was still alive, he was definitely a psychological father to a daughter. Normally, when my mother urged me to get married, my father would just brush it off and say that now I need to travel a lot, take care of myself. Even so, my father even gave me money when my mother “bullied”. However, my father passed away too soon, could not wait for my filial piety, it was all because of a serious illness.

There is a younger brother below me who is in college this year. The family has 3 mothers and children sometimes sad. That is why my mother urged me to get married early so that we could have more a bridegroom, and furthermore, one of my grandchildren.

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Although I do not actively seek for love, I also have a few dating apps installed on my phone. I have to say I have good looks, sharp eyes and a personality face, so many boys take the initiative to get acquainted with the text. Sometimes I just go to check and reply to someone’s messages that I find intrigued. Some boys texted me to go out, go on a date, but I was too lazy, didn’t want to carry my body out, even though I said my home address.

Lately, a strange man kept sending flowers to his house. A few days after I got home from work, my mother gave me a bouquet of flowers and spoke “There’s someone in front of my house here. No text, just flowers.”

Each week, about 1-2 bouquets of flowers will be sent flowers like that. Not a message, not a recipient’s address, all just a bare bouquet. I immediately “localize” a few people that I often text back and forth. But everyone denied giving flowers to me, even sarcasm “Many people like it so many people do not know what to give flowers now!”

I was really curious inside that couldn’t be helped. Find all the suspicious people and still find no confirmation. Bouquets of flowers are sent out around the time I go to work, but normally if I’m at home there won’t be any.

In the end, I came up with a way, but still quite unlucky. That is, I check the camera in the apartment where I live. It is difficult to get in, because only the security guard or someone on management can grant the permission. Fortunately, thanks to the “relationship” plus the smart mouth, I can also see who came to the house to give the bouquet.

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It turns out, a man came to my mother, put on a mask, and said something to her. I don’t know if he was the owner of the bouquets or just the delivery man. I hid this story and did not rush to tell my mother.

However, shortly after, I discovered in the drawer of the mother’s room an envelope containing 10 million VND. Besides that, there is also a message attached “Dear me, I hope you and your children will live well”.

I really doubted that the envelope was attached to the bouquet. And if you send it to me, why “hope you and the children”? I continued to secretly look in my mother’s locker when she was not at home. At the bottom of the cupboard, many envelopes have similar content. Especially, the number of envelopes is equal to the number of bouquets I received.

At this point, I couldn’t stand it. My mother must have had an affair with another man and then lied that the bouquet he sent for me was to cover her eyes. When talking privately with her mother, she admitted. That because my father is dead, she feels lonely, empty, and needs to be filled with her thoughts. The man was rich, his wife also died, just wanting to provide more support for my mother’s life comfortably.

My mother said to understand her, but now I’m really empty, don’t know what to do to sympathize …