Nguyet Hang and Anh Tuan knew each other while working together at the Youth Theater. At first, she said, we hated each other very much, because I was very disciplined, old, and Anh Tuan was personality, destructive, mischievous. But then love each other without knowing, unable to explain. Probably due to “fire near the straw” and after going out, eating and drinking are compatible. 4 years later, we got married. And to live together up to now is encapsulated in the word “fast”. Nguyet Hang – Anh Tuan Actress Nguyet Hang said that being an actress has one advantage for her to apply in her family life, which is to grasp the psychology to deal with her husband. Mr. Tuan is a hot-tempered person, she knows how to stop, so the family life has been through many storms. “Every time my husband and wife are stressed, I stop because I can’t argue or talk anymore. Mr. Tuan is hot-tempered, even a little dry. I have not heard any sweet words from my husband, nor bought gifts. For the mother and daughter on the holidays But he brings other happiness that I find much more valuable. It is a gesture of taking care of me every day when I’m tired, understanding my wife and children and living responsibly with family, “Nguyet Hang said. The most difficult time with her husband and wife was when she was newly married and had children. The couple’s salary at the theater was too low, Anh Tuan left the stage to go out to do business. The actor’s time was also the time when the couple’s life fell into crisis when Nguyet Hang heard many rumors about her husband having someone else. She flew in to meet her husband to find out the truth and then decided to write a divorce petition. Now remembering that “event”, Nguyet Hang could not help but laugh: “According to the court’s appointment, we came to settle, but somehow closed that day. The two of them finished making pho. So we can’t quit each other. Nguyet Hang still remains young She said, in fact, the story of “fluttering” in a man is very difficult to avoid. Anh Tuan himself is also an artist, so I sympathize. Only it must be at what level, if we no longer respect our wife and children, our family should not keep it. And that was just a “miss step”. I could only hold back when I turned my head. Anh Tuan himself is a transit person separated from the age of 6, so he is very afraid of divorce and needs family affection. I also know that I used to be busy playing, and I also had many shortcomings, but because of the children, we tried to get along. Until now, after many waves, we still go together is an “achievement” already. Because in an artistic environment, there is not much that can go so long. As for the future, no one can tell, but we determine the happiness that day or that day, what we can ignore, sympathy for each other should be ignored. So up to now, our married life is being stabilized temporarily. Economic difficulties are also a big challenge affecting the life of actor Nguyet Hang – Anh Tuan. Once in a difficult time, Anh Tuan thought about riding a motorbike taxi to have money to take care of his family. “I asked him if he was afraid when he was an actor well known to the audience, if anyone recognized it, would he be afraid? He shook his head to say he would cover his mask. I took off the mask again to take me on stage. That sincerity I cannot forget now, “remembers Nguyet Hang. Full happiness of actor Nguyet Hang – Anh Tuan Every time Anh Tuan had a business at a loss, Nguyet Hang had to worry about it all. From renting a house to supporting families, children studying… She said, sometimes the car does not have enough money to repair it. It took us 15 very hard years, fortunately I have grandparents to support and take care of my children to work as a profession. And Anh Tuan, after many times of opening a restaurant with losses, has been successful in recent years. Although we are not rich, our lives are now more stable, not too hard anymore. In 2018, when her first daughter studied abroad in Germany (then got married and settled there), she gave birth to a baby girl. Being a mother at the age of 45, Nguyet Hang confided that she did not face much difficulty because of her grandparents’ support. Adding a member, her family is also happier because “Anh Tuan likes to have many children. He is an only son, but does not place a heavy emphasis on having a son and a daughter. It is simply like having many children”, Nguyet Hang said. share with joy radiant in the eyes.

Share with ZingThanh Nhan said she was surprised and moved when she was proposed by Pham Van Tien.

“Until now, I always want the love story to be calm, not noisy. Therefore, I was very surprised when Tien proposed to me in a romantic, unexpected way. what we’ve been through, “she said.

Touched when being proposed by boyfriend

– How did you feel when you were proposed by boyfriend Pham Van Tien?

The day before, Tien told me to attend a friend’s marriage proposal. I believe you and happily agree to go.

Unexpectedly, when I went to the cinema, I just sat on the chair and saw the clip playing on the screen was my image. I was very surprised and happy when watching the clip recording the two of us so far.

The ceremony also has the appearance of brothers and sisters, close friends of both. They all cried because they witnessed the sweet moment after all the hardships that we went through.

Pham Van Tien proposed to Thanh Nhan. Photo: NVCC.

On my side, I felt surprised and touched. Can’t think that a hot-tempered and arid person like Tien could have thought of such a romantic proposal.

Before now, I like to be calm, not noisy. Through many sad stories, I think a year or ten years, as long as the two of them love and respect each other is enough. I don’t need a lavish, expensive marriage proposal. But Tien loved and wanted to make up for me, so he organized a surprise proposal.

– After more than 7 years of acquaintance and attachment, what about Pham Van Tien made you decide to agree to a proposal from her boyfriend?

• To me, Tien is a strong man with an honest personality. Sometimes he is very hot-tempered and blunt, but Tien is responsible and kind. Previously, Tien was not a person who could easily listen and empathize with others from the beginning.

During the process of getting to know each other, I realize that Tien has changed, knows the needs, listens and gets better every day. Tien said thanks to me for helping him change in a positive direction. But I see a lot of it due to Tien. If he is not ready to change, so will I help.

Currently, Tien knows how to lower his personal ego, reconcile everything, enthusiastically help others and especially laugh more than before. Those things make me very happy.

During the marriage proposal, I said to Tien: ‘Actually, what I wish for is not a complicated life. What’s good happening now is happiness. I don’t need anything distant, promising to draw, just important for the present. We have to put more effort into our happiness. Tien must also love himself more. ‘

What is the difference between being a goalkeeper ‘s girlfriend?

• I find it not difficult to become the girlfriend of a goalkeeper. I am mature enough to adjust my emotions case by case.

Personally, I find myself even busier than Tien. In one day, Tien will be the one to actively text and call me more.

Last time, I was busy with many jobs. The person who always asks and takes care of me from afar is Tien. Tien called my staff and told me to buy delicious food and drinks for his girlfriend.

Sometimes Tien gets angry because I’m too busy and doesn’t spend much time with my boyfriend. After this, I analyze and share about my work for Tien to understand.

Now, he loves and sympathizes a lot for me. If time does not work with his girlfriend, he goes to meditation for many hours.

“Through a breakdown, I cherish Tien’s love”

– Through a broken time, how did you feel when it came to this love?

• When I look back on past difficulties, I am grateful for everything. Those are the challenges that only made me stronger.

I realized that my job just needed to live well, everything was arranged. The biggest luck is going through difficult times, Tien and I still don’t let go of each other. Therefore, I feel more appreciative of their love story.

I used to cry, pain, exhaustion when experiencing emotional pain. But now, I do not want to blame anyone, nor do I want to repeat the sad stories in the past.

The love story of the couple is supported by the family of both sides. Photo: NVCC.

– Do parents on both sides support the love story of you and Pham Van Tien?

• Tien’s parents love me very much. The two doctors often call, text and ask questions. My parents also love Tien because of his honest personality. The two families often contacted by phone and sent food to each other.

I am too busy at work, so I cannot arrange for the family to meet face to face. Tien Thuong’s parents and want to compensate for me, so they often urge to hold the wedding ceremony.

– Are you both planning to hold a wedding ceremony in the nearest time?

• I am not too important to register a marriage or marriage. That is just the form. What I need most is that I’m happy today. That’s enough. We do not have any specific plans for our big day.

Phan Thi Thanh Nhan (born 1989) is from Dong Nai. She won the second prize of a cherry blossom beauty contest, top 6 Ao Dai Flower in 2014. Goalkeeper Pham Van Tien (born in 1993) is from Quang Nam. In 2016, he was part of the U23 team in Vietnam. From the end of 2020, he joined the Ba Ria – Vung Tau Club.