The story is as follows: “After nearly 3 years of love, V. and I decided to get married in April 2019. However, in February of that year, I met T., one of the partners appointed by the company, I was in charge of cooperation, then everything started. head turns in the other direction. T. not only looks better than my lover, but also has a very rich family. Working together on a couple of projects, I realized that I and T. not only understand each other at work but also get along very well in conversation. With a lot of contact, we gradually developed feelings. More and more I see that T. is really the girl I want to spend the rest of my life with. Most importantly, if I take T., my future will be much brighter. The post of a young man After careful consideration, I secretly hid V. dating T. Many times I tried to turn the cards upside down with V. but I could not speak. Moreover, my parents liked her very much, always telling their sons to treat their future daughter-in-law well, so I was even more awkward. Really talking about feelings, I still love V. but as a man, I need to think further, know how to put money first. Therefore, after thinking carefully, I decided to help V. to perform my calculation, even though I knew for sure that I would have to endure a lot of pressure and scandal. Two days ago, I informed my parents that I would annul the marriage despite their scolding, I decided not to change. At the same time, I also met V. made it clear that I had found another half that was more perfect for me. V. helplessly accepted to break up with me without a word of complaint. After finishing with V., I always ran to my new love with many hopes for a bright tomorrow. At that time to me, T. was like a lever, only marrying her in the future, my career can go far. Unfortunately, things did not go as planned after that. Dating with a new lover for a few months, I discovered that she caught fish with two hands. Even more sad, although I accepted to be patient to ‘grow up’, T. still flatly refused. She said, her feelings for me are just play, never intended to marry a poor guy like me. The previous promises made to me were simply pleasant to say. Failure in love, my career after that time also encountered many difficulties. 2 years went by in a flash, last weekend I was fortunate to be recruited into a very good position in a large company. The sales director of that company was very young, only 2 years older than me, but talented and liberal. I’ve only been working for a few days and I have heard the company’s staff praise a lot about the boss, he is not only good at his profession but also loves his wife very much, which makes me quite curious. After dinner last night, I sat down and went to my boss’s personal page to take a look at his private life. When I saw the wedding photo my boss shared on his timeline, I was stunned, frozen. Unbelievably, the young wife who was loved and pampered by her boss so much that everyone in the company admired her was V., my girlfriend who used to cheat right next to the date of the engagement 2 years ago. Now she is the boss’s wife, living a rich and happy life, few compare. Illustration Along with looking at my boss’s facebook, I clicked on V’s personal page, so that my heart went numb before each photo, each status line she shared about the happy home with her husband. Looking at her facebook, the feeling of shame about the past once again rose up in me. The new job position I was enthusiastically working on suddenly lost interest. Not because I don’t want to, but because I don’t know how to face the boss – husband of my ex. Every time I look at my boss, I seem to look back at my wrong past, which makes me miserable and ashamed. Maybe I’ll resign before my boss knows who I am.” The mistake of the guy above is not too rare or unique. In fact, there are many people who have made such a serious mistake, by the time they realize the mistake, it is too late, there is no chance to do it again. The above story can be seen as a common lesson for young people, never let mistakes in the past affect your future, especially in love affairs.

She completely left showbiz to focus on her small family and business career, having certain achievements for herself and a happy home, admired by many people. But to get that wholeness is never easy! Because Dam Thu Trang, even though she is the wife of a famous businessman, no matter how luxurious her life is, she is still a woman, always has her own difficulties and concerns, especially when entering the role of a businessman. a wife, a mother. Being a mother is the BEST UNpaid BUT BEST JOB For a long time, Dam Thu Trang no longer appeared in the role of a Vietnamese star, instead as a “hot mom”. It seems that your life now largely revolves around family? Perhaps family is the biggest “music product” in Trang’s life. All levels of emotions are fully present in it. So Trang enjoys it every day and always wants to build up to be the most beautiful work. Formerly a model, singer and now a businessman, and also a nursing mother, what job makes Trang feel the hardest? Each position gives Page its own busyness. Although she was mentally prepared for the first time being a mother, Trang could not avoid being surprised or worried about how to take care of her children properly. When she became a mother, everything of Trang revolved around the baby, whether day or night. How can my child be nourished in the best way, how can I have enough milk to feed my child, where is my sick child, are you willing to eat these days?… 100 questions are always asked in the mind of a person every time. motherhood like Trang. And perhaps being a mother is the unpaid overtime job that Trang finds the most extreme but worth it! Almost every mother wants to take care of her child by herself and it seems that Dam Thu Trang is the same? Trang is quite a perfectionist and meticulous person, so she always wants to take care of everything for her children by herself, Trang always tries to spend as much time as possible with her children. Because Trang believes that your child’s childhood is only one, and I will become a companion to witness all important development milestones in his life. That is the happiness that Trang thinks every mother wants to have. Have you ever felt overwhelmed with company and housework so much? Fortunately, Trang has a husband who always understands and shares everything with her. From the time she was pregnant until the birth of Suchin, her husband always wanted Trang’s feelings to be in the best state. Because the husband’s point of view is very clear: If the rear is stable, the work will be stable. When is Trang feeling the happiest and when is the most difficult time of being a first time mother? The happiest moment is when waking up every morning, Suchin always crawls to Trang to hug and kiss her mother. Seeing your child grow up every day and begin to show love is a mother’s happiness. The most difficult time is probably the time of breastfeeding, Trang’s sleeping time is only about 4 hours a day. Pumping milk, taking care of children, lack of sleep with pain due to blocked milk ducts, there was a time when Trang wanted to give up but loved her child, so she told herself to try. At that time, a full 8 hours of sleep was too expensive for Trang. ANH CUONG CAN GET EVERYTHING FOR ONE PHONE CALL How does her husband support Trang in taking care of her children? Her husband is the one who always reminds Trang to balance time with her children and herself to stay healthy, raising children is a long way, not a day 2. In addition to working time, her husband spends almost everything. All the time spent with the children, playing with Suchin, at night, lying down with Subeo about how everything happened at school today, caring and grasping the feelings of the children. Page comments What kind of father is Cuong? How did he change when he got married and especially had a baby Suchin? Trang was attracted to Mr. Cuong by the times he played and the way he was with Subeo, the clumsiness of a father when taking care of every inch of his son. Mr. Cuong could leave all his work to stay and run straight home after only Subeo’s phone call asking his father: “When will you come back to me? I will wait for you to come back and then go to sleep”… Because of those things. that Trang decided to stick with Mr. Cuong. And Suchin news page will be a really happy baby when there are 2 men who love to take care of and are always ready to protect her. It seems that Dam Thu Trang and her husband are also hard members of the “crazy” parent group, right? This “disease” Trang thinks every parent has it, if it’s different, it’s just different in level. If it is said that Trang and her husband belong to the family type, I don’t know if people will believe it or not? Outside of work, the couple just likes to stay at home, spend time with their children, all the family’s attention now revolves around the youngest but most “powerful” child member. SUBEO IS A GOOD, LOVELY BOY Besides taking care of Suchin, does Trang have to worry a lot about Subeo? Subeo is a very affectionate and caring boy. Subeo has begun to reach the age of certain physical changes as well as emotional changes, things will gradually become more sensitive when at this age. So everything I say or show should always make my child feel secure, trust and feel my love for him. The boy seems to be very close and loves his sister? Ever since knowing that Trang and her father would get married, Subeo had calculated that after the wedding 9 months and 10 days, she would have a brother or a sister. And when at the time of routine antenatal checkup, Subeo was very eager to go to the doctor with Trang’s mother so she could see the baby and talk to her, draw pictures for her, always asking: “Now the baby in the womb is as big as the baby What’s wrong?”… Previously, when I came home from school, I was looking for my parents, but now, the first person Subeo looked for was Suchin’s sister, who came into the room to find her, hold her and wish her good night… It was a pleasure The happiness of a mother like Trang, happiness because she is a good boy, emotional, selfless and is mostly ahead of her age. Do Cuong and Trang often share with each other about how to bond family members? The couple always want to let the children’s emotions be as natural and comfortable as possible. Love cannot be forced. As a parent, I always show more love for my children every day, and must always balance all emotions so that my children can understand, every member of the family deserves to be loved. very much. What does Trang want most for her family right now? Be sure to stay healthy and safe during this pandemic! Thank you Dam Thu Trang for the interesting sharing! Following Vietnamese Lifestyle

Counseling, general screening to enhance detection, diagnosis and treatment of diseases in the community for people in Muong Lat district. Ms. Nguyen Thi Loc, Head of Population Division, Sub-Department of Population and Family Planning, said: Pre-marital health check-up has many benefits, limiting the incidence of birth defects. Congenital defects inherited from parents, typically hemolytic anemia. Besides, the pre-marital health check will help to promptly treat sexually transmitted diseases; help doctors to assess fertility and support the treatment of reproductive-related diseases in a timely manner. However, indifference to pre-marital health check-ups is a limitation of the majority of young people today. In fact, many people have long been afraid of getting a medical check-up before marriage, because they are afraid that if they find out the disease will affect the happiness of the couple, some people even think that they only have to suspect each other. . All these thoughts have invisibly created barriers, making the meaning of pre-marital health check-ups a fear and obsession for many young people. Aware of the important role and practical significance of pre-marital health check-ups, over the years, the Provincial Department of Population and Family Planning has implemented many activities to raise awareness about health for young people. including the model “Pre-marital health examination and counseling”. Up to now, the model has been expanded to 46 communes in 8 districts: Ba Thuoc, Lang Chanh, Nhu Xuan, Thuong Xuan, Dong Son, Ha Trung, Trieu Son, Thieu Hoa, attracting more than 1,700 people in the age group. and youth participate in activities. In order to promote the model effectively, the Provincial Sub-Department of Population and Family Planning has directed the district health centers to guide the health stations to coordinate with mass organizations, especially the Women’s Union and the Youth Union, to establish The club serves as a place to propagate the meaning and importance of pre-marital counseling and medical examination. Not only promoting propaganda, the model also organizes free medical check-ups for couples who are about to get married, especially, giving priority to those from poor and disadvantaged households. Thereby, couples will be given a general health check, tested for hepatitis B, and consulted if they need a more in-depth examination on reproductive health (SS). As a result, the models have really become a bridge, helping young people to exchange, exchange and consult on issues related to reproductive health/family planning, heterosexual friendship, love, and sex. safety, prevention of unwanted pregnancy, sexually transmitted diseases, HIV/AIDS and issues to know before marriage. Ms. Nguyen Thi Mai, Binh Luong commune (Thu Xuan) shared, through pre-marital health club activities, seminars and knowledge counseling on gender, reproductive health, marriage and family… , I have accumulated more knowledge about reproductive health care and the need for pre-marital health checks. Therefore, when she was about to get married, she actively asked her boyfriend to go to a medical facility for a health check. Talking to Mr. Nguyen Van Thang, Director of the Provincial Sub-Department of Population and Family Planning, it is known: This is a practical model, helping many young people have the opportunity to access knowledge about pre-marital health care. At the same time, the model has also contributed to raising awareness of the Party committees and authorities at all levels about the work of population and family planning, and reproductive health/family planning care for adolescents and young adults. The model has held hundreds of seminars, attracting thousands of participants; organize propaganda conferences on reproductive health and premarital health for district and commune population steering committees and officials in charge of population and family planning in the districts in which the model is deployed and coordinated health centers. with the Committees of Population and Family Planning of the communes and townships to organize health check-ups and counseling on the risk of giving birth to children with disabilities or deformities for couples preparing for marriage; hepatitis B testing and ultrasound for couples preparing to get married; establish pre-marital health clubs and maintain activities once a quarter to exchange knowledge about healthy male and female love, safe sex, prevention of sexually transmitted diseases, suitable contraceptive methods, safe abortion… Through the activities that helped young people become more aware of the benefits of pre-marital health care, many of them actively sought out Go to a medical facility to check your health before getting married. In the coming time, along with the implementation of the pre-marital health examination and counseling model, the Provincial Department of Population and Family Planning will continue to focus resources and effectively implement projects to improve quality. population, building and consolidating a network of information, counseling and RH/FP care services so that more and more young people know and come to the pre-marital health examination and counseling model. From there, equip yourself with knowledge about love, marriage, family, reproductive health care… to create a happy life for yourself and your family.

Seo Hee Soo and Han Ji Yong Mine is a TV series revolving around the fate of brides in Korean chaebol families. Seo Hee Soo (Lee Bo Young) was once an entertainment superstar, but in order to fulfill her responsibilities as a bride, she accepted to give up her career. Hee Soo is married to Han Ji Yong (Lee Hyun Wook), the second son of the Hyowon clan. Seo Hee Soo became a front for her husband and mistress to interact with each other. Photo: tvN. Han Ji Yong got lost in the Hyowon clan in an unexpected way, he did not have the bloodline of this famous family. Ji Yong herself also had a child with another woman before marrying Hee Soo. To serve the education of Ha Jun (Jung Hyun Joon), Ji Yong’s stepson, the Hyowon family hired Kang Ja Kyung (Ok Ja Yeon) to be the boy’s personal tutor. The tutor often acts in excess, beyond her rights and responsibilities. Ja Kyung also has an affair with Ji Yong. When Hee Soo suggested firing the tutor, Ji Yong expressed disapproval because Ja Kyung is actually Ha Jun’s biological mother. The love scene was revealed to reveal the greedy nature of the young master Ji Yong. Even though he took Hee Soo as his wife, he still blatantly brought his old love back to live in the same house for convenience. Hee Soo is embarrassed to realize that she has been used as a screen for a long time for her husband and mistress to cover the eyes of the world. Not only failed as a husband, Ji Yong was also an irresponsible father. When stepmother Hee Soo and biological mother Ja Kyeong took each other to court to win custody of baby Ha Jun. Despite being the father, Ji Yong did not intervene to save the situation. He just kept silent “judging the mountain and fighting the tiger”. In the latest developments of Mine , the man’s nature was fully revealed. Ji Yong on the main road sat in the chair of the corporation’s chairman, not caring about the broken marriage or the fate of his son after the court’s ruling. Evil, intrigue and pervert are adjectives that most accurately describe the nature of Ji Yong’s character. Shim Su Ryeon and Ju Dan Tae Penthouse is a TV series about the super rich that has been storming the Korean small screen for the past year. Up to now, the film has entered the third season and shows signs of returning to the basic conflict – the confrontation between husband and wife Shim Su Ryeon (Lee Ji Ah) and Ju Dan Tae (Uhm Ki Joon). Ju Dan Tae single-handedly manipulates his family members as well as the residents of Hera. Photo: SBS. Ju Dan Tae plays the role of a one-armed villain. He is a true dictator both in business and in family life. In the past, out of jealousy, Ju Dan Tae hired someone to kill Shim Su Ryeon’s husband, separating her and her first daughter to replace the missing head of the family. After having Shim Su Ryeon, Dan Tae quickly fell in love with his neighbor Cheon Seo Jin, an opera singer and teacher at a prestigious art school. This time, Dan Tae has found a worthy partner when Seo Jin is also someone who does not use tricks to achieve his goal. Ju Dan Tae is ready to use the most despicable ways to destroy opponents in the marketplace. In the apartment located on the 100th floor of the Hera high-class apartment building, Dan Tae appears to be a brute, ready to beat his wife and children if they do not want to. At the end of season one, when he discovered Su Ryeon’s plot against him, Dan Tae did not hesitate to kill her. Living a hellish marriage with Ju Dan Tae, Shim Su Ryeon lost the man she loved, twice lost her child, lost her close sister and, finally, lost her life. Of course, as season 2 revealed, a last-minute change saved the woman’s life. But Su Ryeon’s miraculous survival only pushed her life to new limits – all caused by her ex-husband Ju Dan Tae. Ji Sun Woo and Lee Tae Oh The World of the Married is the work that achieved the rating record of the Korean screen in the first half of 2020. The film revolves around the dark corners of infidelity, betrayal, hatred, and payment in the marriage between talented doctor Ji Sun Woo (Kim Hee). Ae) and her husband is film director Lee Tae Oh (Park Hae Joon). The marriage between Ji Sun Woo and Lee Tae Oh was purely enmity. Photo: Jtbc. Outsiders looking in will only see Sun Woo and Tae Oh as a model family. They are educated, successful, rich and have never raised their voices to each other. However, the guise of a devoted husband and exemplary father that Tae Oh wears is only to hide his morally corrupt nature. On the one hand, Tae Oh respects his wife, but on the other hand, he wants to deny her influence on his life and career. For years, Tae Oh has been secretly having an affair. Until things broke out, he had no regrets but also used love to justify wrongdoing. In the world of a greedy man, Tae Oh has the right to love two women at the same time. Not only making the audience angry because of his distorted view of love, but Tae Oh is also an on-screen nightmare because of his jealous nature and brute force. Right from episode 2, the sick husband beat Sun Woo brutally. Throughout the series, the violent acts aimed at Tae Oh’s ex-wife are repeated many times. The image of Lee Tae Oh’s husband on the screen became even more pathetic when he returned to Sun Woo, feeling reassured when he was having an affair with his ex-wife. Thought that the marriage with the lover had satisfied Tae Oh’s love fantasy, but it turned out that what the man loved so much before was just himself. Lee Tae Oh’s greed and selfishness eventually pushed the lives of two women and his children into a spiral of pain and hatred.

According to Melinda’s profile, obtained by People magazine, Ms Melinda said the marriage had “broken down beyond repair”. Billionaire Bill Gates is said to have been at a luxury golf club in California for several months now to avoid questions about his divorce from his wife – Melinda Gates – after 27 years of marriage. (Photo: California News Times) After the divorce announcement was officially released, the post-divorce life of billionaire Bill Gates and his wife also attracted much attention. On May 11, Fox Business channel quoted a source as saying that US billionaire and Microsoft co-founder, Bill Gates went to one of the most luxurious and luxurious golf clubs in the US in California in the past year. many months now. The most luxurious and luxurious golf club in the US in the state of California – The Vintage Club. (Photo: LinkedIn) The source said, the 65-year-old billionaire was at The Vintage Club golf club in Indian Wells, California. Located in Indian Wells, California, The Vintage Club is considered “one of America’s most prestigious and private private club communities.” (Photo: Jetset Magazine) (Photo: Jetset Magazine) The club’s membership fee is $250,000, while house prices here range from $2.3 million to $20 million. In the center of the club is a complex of nearly 7,900 square meters with a restaurant, spa and two 18-hole golf courses. Page Six, citing an exclusive source, said that this week, Bill Gates was seen at the Vintage club with his eldest daughter Jennifer Gates, 25, and Jennifer’s fiancé, Egyptian millionaire Nayel Nassar. Bill Gates and his wife were still in love. (Image: Getty Images) According to this source, billionaire Bill Gates knew the divorce was inevitable and he had been hiding at The Vintage Club for about 3 months now. Billionaire Bill Gates is said to have spent $ 12.5 million to buy a large villa located in this resort in 1999. The house is nearly 1,300 m2, has 6 bedrooms, 9 bathrooms and is located along. golf course. The source added, The Vintage Club is very private and this is “the perfect place for billionaire Bill Gates to hide from anyone who wants to ask him about his divorce or his relationship with scandalous billionaire Jeffrey. Epstein.” Billionaire Bill Gates. (Photo: ASSOCIATED PRESS) Another detail was also revealed, that when announcing the divorce, Bill Gates and his wife were not close to each other. According to Fox Business, Bill Gates signed the divorce papers in the city of Palm Desert, California. Melinda signed the divorce papers in Bellevue, Washington, close to the family’s $130 million mansion.

According to Forbes magazine, the co-founder of Microsoft Corp has a fortune of up to $ 130 billion. This huge fortune includes the charitable foundation jointly named and the largest in the world by the billionaire and Bill Gates, a large-scale private investment firm and a series of expensive real estate. in U.S.A. The Xanadu 2.0 mansion of the billionaire and billionaire Bill Gates is currently worth more than $ 130 million. (Photo: TNS) In addition to the 98,000-hectare ranch, the once-happy couple owning homes across the United States have been acquired for nearly 30 years including in Washington, California, Montana and Florida. One of the most expensive real estate properties of the billionaire Bill Gates is in Medina, a suburb of Seattle. It is famous for being home to billionaire Bill Gates and Amazon CEO Jeff Bezos. The mansion worth more than $ 130 million is also known as Xanadu 2.0 with an area of ​​more than 6,100 square meters located in Medina. The house has an indoor swimming pool up to 18 m long. In addition, the mansion also has an artificial stream to raise salmon. The villa has 7 bedrooms and 18 bathrooms, an indoor cinema with 20 seats and a dining room of 92 m2 with 24 seats. 195 m2 library in Xanadu 2.0 mansion includes 2 secretly rotating bookcases. Depending on the divorce resolution process, Xanadu 2.0 mansion can be sold to divide the Bill Gates and his wife’s divorce property. According to the divorce document that Bill’s family sent to the court and was announced by TMZ, the couple asked the court to divide the property based on separate contracts and did not mention the prenuptial contract. The divorce petition of the couple was filed with the King County court in Washington and this is also one of the 9 states that have communal property laws of the couple, According to Colleen Sparks, the leading lawyer dealing with family affairs at Talkov Law, in states with communist property laws, divorced couples are required to divide all assets in the period. live together fairly. Since billionaire Bill Gates bought the Xanadu 2.0 mansion after he got married in 1994, this means that the world’s fourth-largest billionaire is not the complete owner of this $ 130 million estate. . According to Mr. Sparks, if Bill Gates and his wife do not reach an agreement to buy a mansion in Medina, the court may be forced to sell expensive real estate. But according to Ellen Griffith, an expert in charge of the division of real estate upon divorce, because the Bill Gates and his wife’s house was bought after they got married, it is likely that this fortune will be divided equally by 50 / 50. But according to Ms. Griffith, “They can make an absolute effort to have real estate. It will be a great fight ”. In addition to the large mansion in Medina, Bill Gates and his wife also own 3 homes in California. In 1999, the couple spent $ 12.5 million to buy 1,263 square meters of land in the resort city of Indian Wells. In 2014, the couple continued to withdraw a $ 18 million purse to buy a 92-hectare horse farm owned by weight loss expert Jenny Craig. Bill Gates and his wife are the most expensive deal in California in 2020 when they spend $ 43 million to buy a house overlooking the sea in Del Mar. This house is just 36 meters from the beach. This is the 2nd most expensive real estate deal in history in the city of San Diego.

Nguyet Hang and Anh Tuan knew each other while working together at the Youth Theater. At first, she said, we hated each other very much, because I was very disciplined, old, and Anh Tuan was personality, destructive, mischievous. But then love each other without knowing, unable to explain. Probably due to “fire near the straw” and after going out, eating and drinking are compatible. 4 years later, we got married. And to live together up to now is encapsulated in the word “fast”. Nguyet Hang – Anh Tuan Actress Nguyet Hang said that being an actress has one advantage for her to apply in her family life, which is to grasp the psychology to deal with her husband. Mr. Tuan is a hot-tempered person, she knows how to stop, so the family life has been through many storms. “Every time my husband and wife are stressed, I stop because I can’t argue or talk anymore. Mr. Tuan is hot-tempered, even a little dry. I have not heard any sweet words from my husband, nor bought gifts. For the mother and daughter on the holidays But he brings other happiness that I find much more valuable. It is a gesture of taking care of me every day when I’m tired, understanding my wife and children and living responsibly with family, “Nguyet Hang said. The most difficult time with her husband and wife was when she was newly married and had children. The couple’s salary at the theater was too low, Anh Tuan left the stage to go out to do business. The actor’s time was also the time when the couple’s life fell into crisis when Nguyet Hang heard many rumors about her husband having someone else. She flew in to meet her husband to find out the truth and then decided to write a divorce petition. Now remembering that “event”, Nguyet Hang could not help but laugh: “According to the court’s appointment, we came to settle, but somehow closed that day. The two of them finished making pho. So we can’t quit each other. Nguyet Hang still remains young She said, in fact, the story of “fluttering” in a man is very difficult to avoid. Anh Tuan himself is also an artist, so I sympathize. Only it must be at what level, if we no longer respect our wife and children, our family should not keep it. And that was just a “miss step”. I could only hold back when I turned my head. Anh Tuan himself is a transit person separated from the age of 6, so he is very afraid of divorce and needs family affection. I also know that I used to be busy playing, and I also had many shortcomings, but because of the children, we tried to get along. Until now, after many waves, we still go together is an “achievement” already. Because in an artistic environment, there is not much that can go so long. As for the future, no one can tell, but we determine the happiness that day or that day, what we can ignore, sympathy for each other should be ignored. So up to now, our married life is being stabilized temporarily. Economic difficulties are also a big challenge affecting the life of actor Nguyet Hang – Anh Tuan. Once in a difficult time, Anh Tuan thought about riding a motorbike taxi to have money to take care of his family. “I asked him if he was afraid when he was an actor well known to the audience, if anyone recognized it, would he be afraid? He shook his head to say he would cover his mask. I took off the mask again to take me on stage. That sincerity I cannot forget now, “remembers Nguyet Hang. Full happiness of actor Nguyet Hang – Anh Tuan Every time Anh Tuan had a business at a loss, Nguyet Hang had to worry about it all. From renting a house to supporting families, children studying… She said, sometimes the car does not have enough money to repair it. It took us 15 very hard years, fortunately I have grandparents to support and take care of my children to work as a profession. And Anh Tuan, after many times of opening a restaurant with losses, has been successful in recent years. Although we are not rich, our lives are now more stable, not too hard anymore. In 2018, when her first daughter studied abroad in Germany (then got married and settled there), she gave birth to a baby girl. Being a mother at the age of 45, Nguyet Hang confided that she did not face much difficulty because of her grandparents’ support. Adding a member, her family is also happier because “Anh Tuan likes to have many children. He is an only son, but does not place a heavy emphasis on having a son and a daughter. It is simply like having many children”, Nguyet Hang said. share with joy radiant in the eyes.

“One thing that I still hide from my audience and my colleagues and many of my friends is that my marriage has broken down. My husband and I broke up about a year ago. With their small family. It was a really hard time for me, but now we have found a way to make each of us better “, Hoang Quyen suddenly shared. Hoang Quyen was born in 1992 in Thai Nguyen and is the runner-up of Vietnam Idol 2012. She is highly appreciated for her voice by many musicians such as Le Minh Son, Quoc Trung, Anh Quan. As the guide Hoang Quyen and brought her to the position of runner-up Vietnam Idol 2012, My Linh spread her heart on her personal page. “About three weeks ago, the rare low-voice singer Hoang Quyen called to me and told her, I want you to help me practice my vocal range so that I can develop my vocal range. Of course she agrees! Quyen comes to study, extremely hard. She is also extremely smart and stubborn, and she is also a stubborn and stubborn hand with a number of cheeks, so in the end Quyen stays quiet and tells her that she wants to study whenever she is free. This morning, I read Quyen’s latest interview with two main shares, the first one: Quyen wrote music for herself to fully cover Quyen’s own vibrations that others could not take away from the end of love. love freedom, the woman’s singing and the girl’s “zero up hero”. This is so good, the right trend and the right thing! Second share: Quyen said “I have been divorced more than this year”, I am now living my aspirations at the age of 28, the age of the first nine of the woman, the woman sing”. Hoang Quyen has released a number of albums such as Sunshine Fragrant Door (2014), Go (2015), Attractive Wave (2018). My Linh confided, read the interview and looked at the picture of her student, suddenly thinking back to her twenty-eight years old. Back then, My Linh was like Hoang Quyen full of desires and storms. The diva recalls an overnight conversation with her husband on a 28-year-old absence. “I know my personality often forgets and when I feel more emotional or forgetful, I think ahead and compose an outline, key words for a vital conversation. I mean: Will you love me like I love your daughter? Or be generous as your love for your sister? Please put yourself as your father or brother, but be generous and compassionate to love you because you deserve it? And if you can’t do that, please let go Let me go, I’m just 28 still pretty and still have many opportunities for others to do it for me? Can you do that? In short, the answer was that he practiced and would try … “, the voice of” Spring whisper “recalls. My Linh shares a memorable 28-year-old photo She said, recently reading the book “Search inside your self” that said to maintain any relationship good behavior always has to be three times more than bad behavior. What is good behavior or vice versa may still have to say long, but basically love and understanding to love. Yet the same book has the conclusion of psychologists that in marriage the ratio is five to one. Meaning good behavior should be five times greater. So many! How difficult it is! “My marriage is still the same as everyone else’s still difficult but I know how to stop to listen to breathe to understand and to love. No one can say anything in advance but I hope I will practice well in my own house! Wish Quyen and other girls find success in their career and quiet in their souls! Age 28 is a milestone in a person’s life “, My Linh concluded.

For a long time, the two became acquainted. However, , after that, Truong Phuong’s father still could not conquer sickness. His death made his daughter very sad. Truong Phuong at that time was a child, also considered Van Truong Lam as a family, so he relied on him for a long time. Thanks to the familiar doctor by his side, Truong Phuong gradually forgot the pain of losing his father and became happy again. She was very grateful to the doctor and formed a deep friendship between them. After spending time together, they fell in love and eventually became married. When they got married, Truong Phuong was 28 years old, and Van Truong Lam was 73 years old. At that time, Truong Phuong’s mother wanted her to marry a young man from a nearby village, even accepting their home ceremony. However, Truong Phuong’s “stubborn temperament” at that time made everyone unable to convince her. More importantly, she not only refused her mother’s request, but also decided to marry Van Truong Lam immediately. The incident caused a stir in public opinion in the village. Everyone thought that the girl was over-dressed and would have to regret it later. In the end, Truong Phuong and Van Truong Lam also achieved their goal. After getting married, they still gave birth to a baby boy. The couple also participated in the show “Happiness to knock on the door” on television, which surprised the audience with their post-marriage life, extremely simple, despite their normal living conditions. But the breath of a happy life filled the house like many other families. Truong Phuong stays at home to take care of his children and do chores in his spare time. Van Truong Lam is still the main source of income and the breadwinner of the family, he often visits home to visit for patients. Van Truong Lam loves Truong Phuong very much, because every time he comes home, he considers whether to bring something such as household appliances or clothes to Truong Phuong. When the couple looked at each other, their eyes filled with love and hope. In the past, villagers who used to see this as a joke always asked Truong Phuong if she would regret it. But no matter how many people ask, Truong Phuong always insists that he has no regrets. Now, people in the village that used to not take this relationship seriously also begin to send their blessings to them. Today, more and more people are pessimistic about their marriage, feeling that the marriage is not as good as they thought. But for this couple, on the contrary, they are even happier and more peaceful than normal couples. Looking at Truong Phuong and Van Truong Lam so happy, many people will wake up and realize that love is always so warm. However, many questions are raised around the age gap so much, whether they have any difficulty in raising children. Most people believe that the large gap between the two sides easily causes a generation gap. When faced with anything, a wife may have a more flexible resolution or attitude, while an older husband may be more stubborn and rigid. If neither side gives in, the relationship will turn into a game of tit-for-tat and will inevitably deteriorate. The large age gap means that older people will leave the world sooner, and those who stay will endure loneliness while alone. Conversely, if couples are the same age, they may spend more time together. This way, the longer they are together, the longer they will be with the children. In addition, in terms of children’s education, the pairs of “deviated chopsticks” are also often faced with conflicting opinions more often. Today, education is increasingly developing, because the young and the old receive different educational environments, so they will definitely give their own opinions in the process of educating children. Parents’ educational differences will not only affect their relationship but also their children. So in a family with such a large age gap, how can children have a correct view of the two words “family”? First of all, the relationship between parents must be harmonious. Parents should not lose their temper because of disagreement, because it will affect the family atmosphere. Children are very sensitive and can easily feel their parents’ feelings, and at the same time, they also develop a mentality quickly. In order for children to have a correct view of marriage and love, first of all, the love between parents must be harmonious, children must feel the love of their parents and the warmth of the family. For example, Truong Phuong might tell the child that she loves her husband very much, and the couple loves you very much, even though the father may leave later, but his love for the child is always something to be cherished to cherish. . At that time, the child will mature and will know how to cherish himself and others.

But a lot of couples have finished this at home, before they can breathe a sigh of relief, then another problem occurs in a month or so. Continuing to find an expert to help … The marriage was just going to fix this hole, fill that hole. In the family marriage healing classes, many couples return to school because they have new problems. For example, after the previous course, they had a common voice in teaching children, agreed to fulfill their obligations with the families of both sides, were able to sit down and talk to each other … but now they cannot find. have a common voice in finance (such as who is a key in family spending, buying a car, buying a house or investing in real estate …). There are couples who, after healing the injuries of communication with each other, arise conflicts, so they prioritize personal development or business investment? Or the couple previously had a very heavy fracture because of the “13th zodiac child”, after going to the healing course, the couple’s relationship was quite good. But since then, the relationship between the bride and her mother-in-law has been born again, for the reason that the mother-in-law hates the bride is: “What medicine do you give my son, but now he is against me to defend her?” “What medicine did you give my son that he kept against me to defend you?” Illustration. Experts have many opportunities to observe in Love – Marriage – Family courses, find that every person who comes to healing courses, or to find specialists has his or her own symptoms, or relationship. Our system is facing to be consulted, “prescribed” … Most of the trainees just stop at the level of handling, or healing situations after the course. And every time they have problems such as getting stuck in the unification of parenting methods, parenting methods, conflicts of relationships, responsible behavior with paternal and maternal parents … they have to find experts to express themselves. problem, disassembly. The way it is going to heal this problem couples will have other problems in their life (the little ones quarrel about taking care of their children; the kids go to school, the children conflict with the official schooling. Many, or learn life skills; when children come back to life, they disagree about how they choose their lover; when the internal affairs of the relationship are okay, there will be problems with both sides’ paternal and maternal grandparents; when successful in making money, arising conflicts in the use of money, money management …). Just like that, until retirement, the married life will not necessarily reduce the problems of conflict. Then they argued about daughter-in-law, son-in-law, grandchild, grandchild, sui … maybe even quarreling about sleeping together or sleeping separately, eating bland or eating salty food. In fact, all the difficulties in raising children, disagreements between internal and external positions, inconsistency in financial management, problems with the blanket … the instability is not caused by children, internal affairs, finances, Or what is the problem of sex … but it is in an unstable relationship between husband and wife. Going further, each person himself is in turmoil. The war with oneself is the important one. Illustration. More specifically, where each person still has a lot of hurts and inadequacies, so that we haven’t been able to solve this problem in time, another problem has arisen. I thought that everything was finished handling and everything went smoothly, and suddenly that story appeared. After all, external instability is just a reflection of our inner turmoil. When we don’t deal with the root cause of our instability – whoever interacts with us, whatever happens to us … obstacles arise. This war is not outside (with children, parents, finance, health, or sex …), but is a war within each person. The problem is not that we find a solution in turn, or win in every thing that happens to us, to our family, but that we have to find a solution to win the war with ourselves. It is a battle with the ego, with the “I”, overcoming the limits of the physical world to enter the true mind, true and unconditional love of oneself. If we lose ourselves – that is, we will lose our ego – then we have to lose in every war. If we just run to settle the top, forever we won’t have any moments of satisfaction, peace, happiness. So when encountering any external problem, first of all couples go deep into themselves to observe, to connect and to realize what is wrong inside, the voice. Which is coming up… So couples will find it easier to see where the real knot of external problems is within themselves. Nguyen Duc Quynh (Love – Marriage – Family Consultant)

Not long ago, Dong Son Xuzhou Court, China tried the divorce case between a 70-year-old couple. Ms. Liu said she had difficulty resolutely demanding a divorce even when her family went bankrupt. In 1975, Ms. Liu and Mr. Wang registered their marriage. For more than 40 years, Ms. Liu suffered year-round domestic violence resulting in repeated miscarriages, her health was not normal. At the age near the earth, she decided to divorce her husband with the solid support of her children. “This nightmare is finally over!” – Ms. Liu burst into tears when she received her divorce verdict. Writer Strindberg said: “The most beautiful and painful is love. Marrying someone is the most important investment in a person’s life. A good marriage doesn’t have to be paradise but one. Bad marriage is definitely hell. Illustration. There was a topic on social networks: “What experience can we learn from a good husband?”. A reader named Xiao shared her story. Her husband is very stingy, does not allow her to use credit cards, does not allow her to go to restaurants, let alone use expensive skin care products and rarely gives her gifts except for her birthday. This taciturn, taciturn man often made her question her original choice. Xiao has a disability in her legs, her parents abandoned her at a young age. During an argument, she blamed her husband for being stingy, he shouted: “Don’t you know how to eat and drink? But is it time? I want to save enough money for you to have surgery sooner. Recovery becomes more difficult as you get older. Only then did Xiao understand her husband’s sincere feelings for her. Marriage is to find a normal person, to live a normal life happily. A good marriage can help one complete person. A bad marriage can bury a person. Shakespeare said: “Marriage is not satisfactory like hell, fighting for a lifetime is also not peaceful, on the contrary, choosing a mate like that can be peaceful, happy hundred years”. Japanese filmmaker Miyazaki says that whoever you choose from is their lifestyle and values. Which partner you choose not only determines your current life circumstances and moods, but also all the emotions you will experience in your future life. How is marrying the right person? As the saying goes, the other half is the most important investment in life. A spouse with negative energy will only bring negative energy into your life, while someone with positive energy can give you more positive energy. Illustration. In fact, the so-called right marriage is probably two people going through the storms of life together. In the end, you get better and make the enemy better. Many people wonder, how do you know if a man is worthy of marriage? Many people agree that a person worthy of marriage will have the same mindset in solving big problems. Many people avoid discussing some issues in love and marriage, and even classify them as forbidden areas, but these issues will emerge sooner or later. For example: Do you agree to live with your parents-in-law? Is there a monthly allowance for parents? Can dowry money be negotiated? If one day the other half leaves? … Before getting married, these issues need to be seriously discussed with your spouse, being honest about each other’s ideas, what can be done, and what can’t. Not everyone is suitable for getting old with you. Someone comes to help us become more mature, someone comes to live with, and someone has to spend a lifetime to remember. Life is an adventure full of unknowns, it is impossible to choose the starting point, let alone predict the future correctly. However, as long as you marry the right people, the value you can get is much greater than your wealth. Choosing a suitable spouse, taking care of each other, caring for each other, having children and raising children are the happiest things in the world.

Everyone knows that the plot in “The Top Floor” is very bloody, but many people don’t know that Li Zhiya’s life in reality has a more turning point than that of Xiulian in the play, and even the TV series dare not shoot like this.

At the age of 42, she is still as beautiful as ever, and her figure is very well maintained. In “Top Floor”, the temperament plutocracy daughter can be said to be her true color.

Li Zhiya was originally named Kim Sang-eun. Before liberation, her family made a lot of money by doing silk business, and later established the Yuying Consortium to gain prestige.

The land in Pyeongchang-dong of Seoul High School was donated by Lee Ji-A’s grandparents. Her family and political party advisors have had private contacts for many years, and even have the same private house as the former president.

The well-born Li Zhiya studied in the United States since she was a child, enjoying a good education, and graduated from the Art Center School of Design, which is ranked number one among the 30 best design schools in the world.

I often design dresses by myself, and I also designed my own official website. I can play bass, music, and write. I am very talented.

He just debuted at the age of nearly 30, and he played against Bae Yong Joon as soon as he debuted, and partnered with the hottest Jang Keun Suk at the time, which shows how unusual the identity of this sister is.

Later because of the collaboration with “Athena” Li Zhiya and Zheng Yusheng reported a love affair, and the two were photographed walking together on the streets of Paris.

After the two acquiesced in their relationship, it suddenly came out that Li Zhiya had married Xu Taizhi.

At the beginning, Xu Taizhi was the most sought after figure in the men’s group “Xu Taizhi and the children”. His talent was sought after by many fans. At that time, he had a high status in the entire music scene, and every move would be affected.

At that time, Xu Taizhi was also known as the “Cultural President” and was a completely national idol.

When Li Zhiya was studying in the United States and met Seo Tae-zhi who came to the United States to perform in the United States. After her sister’s introduction, the two had exchanges and kept in touch with each other. At that time, Li Ji-a, who was only 16 years old, was devoted to love and married Seo Tae-zhi at the age of 19. In order to prevent anyone from knowing about her marriage with Xu Taizhi, she broke all her family and friends, and her life revolved only around Xu Taizhi.

After returning to China as an actor, he also met his boyfriend Zheng Yusheng, and Zheng Yusheng once said in an interview, “She said one thing very hard. She told me in Paris before the report appeared. The fact of the relationship has learned about marriage and divorce.”

But after all the explosive news appeared, public opinion was accusing Li Zhiya, but Zheng Yusheng chose to remain silent, and in the end the two did not come to the end.

And her face has changed a lot in the ten years since her debut, so there have been rumors about her plastic surgery.

And Li Zhiya also repeatedly denied through the brokerage company, saying that the facial swelling was caused by bad condition. However, she once admitted on the show that she wanted a tall nose, so she had a rhinoplasty, but because of her physical condition, she became irritated, and finally chose to take out the filler.

Although it has experienced a low ebb, Li Zhiya is now relying on “Top Tower” to become popular again, and has won the love of the public, letting more people know her true side, and the cast members of the same crew also commented on her very well. When she was on a variety show, she could also tell that she was really a gentle and charming person. Although many viewers have already wanted to abandon the show because of the reversal of the first two seasons of “Top Floor”, I believe that after the third season comes out, the audience will still watch Xiulian sister on time.

Presumably all people who have been to Lugu Lake have heard of the Marriage Clan and the Mosuo people. They are known as the “last matrilineal clan in the world”, and some people compare them to the “daughter country.”

For a long time, the female culture has been washing away the threat of cultural erosion with a wise mind and a powerful body. Under the impact of this modern civilization, there is also such a mystery that makes the beauty of Lugu Lake exude a unique charm. The marriage bridge with a vicissitudes of history has attracted countless tourists to this day.

I have been here twice, once in late autumn and once in early autumn. I have a good relationship with the autumn of Lugu Lake. When the mountains and rivers merge, the ancient humanities naturally derive. The arrival of autumn symbolizes the maturity of fruits, the harvest of farmland, and the cohesion of culture.

Lugu Lake was called “Lukuhaizi” in ancient times. The magical Mosuo language of Naxi people always makes people curious. In their language, “Lugu Lake” means the lake in the ravine, and is their “mother lake”. Known as the “Penglai Wonderland”, it also has such nicknames as “the pearl of the plateau”, “a pure land in northwestern Yunnan”, and “the first wonderland in the East”.

This ravine lake connects Yunnan and Sichuan, but the culture of the mysterious daughter country does not divide the monument boundary, and the traditional life of the Mosuo people is still a place that travelers and explorers yearn for.

Even if today’s Lugu Lake has become a very mature and commercial tourist attraction, people’s curiosity about that culture is still full of freshness.

On the shore of Lugu Lake, there are not only Mosuo people, but also 7 ethnic groups including Yi, Pumi, and Mongolian. Among them, only the Mosuo people make Lugu Lake more and more magical.

The sun and the moon rotate, and everything is broken into three thousand dusts in the sky and earth, and the most pure touch falls into a bay of blue lake. When the dust settles, that bay of lake is the Lugu Lake that the world yearns for.

Lugu Lake stretches from north to west to southeast. It is 9.5 kilometers long from north to south, 5.2 kilometers wide from east to west, and its shoreline is about 44 kilometers long. It was selected as the best leisure tourism destination in China National Tourism in 2018.

In autumn, Lugu Lake is more charming. Just like the Mosuo people who have no words and take Daba culture as their culture, the beautiful scenery and rich legendary style are full of mystery. Locke, the captain of the American expedition, once expressed his heartfelt admiration, saying, “This is a place suitable for gods to live.”

Standing on the mountainside, the jewel-like Lugu Lake gradually deepens in the autumn colors, integrating the landscape culture of “one lake and two provinces” with a calm oil painting tone. If I have the opportunity, I will choose to come again in the fall.

I remember when I came to Lugu Lake for the first time, the mountain mist enveloped the lake in the morning, and the small island was floating on the calm lake like a boat. At that time, there were no particularly noisy people. The quietness and simplicity of the surroundings made me unable to believe Yunnan There is such a wonderland.

If only the scenery is used to describe Lugu Lake, it is more beautiful than it, but no other lake has the ancient and mysterious Mosuo culture like it.

Although the Mosuo people have no words, their traditional life is a cultural history. Because of their cultural multiplication, the mountains and rivers are more beautiful and full of vitality, making Lugu Lake so unique. When people use Sichuan and Yunnan to distinguish a bay of lake water, in fact, the flow of culture and water is closer than that of humans.

Immersive, the water and the sky are the same color, the pig trough boats slowly gliding on the blue waves and the Mosuo folk songs slowly floating between the water and the sky make it more simple and quiet.

In Lugu Lake quietly changing their colors with the changing of the seasons, people look forward to the forests of the mountain lakes, while the Mosuo marriage customs and ancient civilization are silently integrated into this landscape.

There are many ancient myths, long historical monuments and mysterious humanities hidden on the shores of Lugu Lake and on various small islands, such as Liwubi Island, Rock Island (Snake Island, because the American botanist Dr. Locke once lived here In 8 years, the relationship with the Mosuo people was very good. Later, people called Snake Island “Rock Island”);

Luoshui Temple, Daluoshui Village (one of the must-visit places for most tourists), Lige Village, Lige Peninsula, Zuoming Bridge (the only bridge on Lugu Lake), Xiaoluoshui Village (the last place beside Lugu Lake in Yunnan) A village), Goddess Gem Mountain and so on.

These places not only have profound history and culture, ancient magical folk customs, but also beautiful scenery of mountains and lakes, attracting a large number of tourists, and they have become the first choice for many variety shows.

Learn how to separate from a large family and take a separate view of marriage and family

There is a term called “to learn something”, which means that as an adult the child will imitate the parents’ words and actions and be deeply influenced by the parents.

What is the marriage of a parent, the children’s attitude toward marriage is probably the same. For example, parents quarreling every day, children will think that marriage is a bad thing, bringing pain to both parents. When parents divorce, the children will think the marriage is unreliable and will feel a bit guilty.

Have you ever wondered why poor children study hard? Did those kids realize the importance of reading? In fact, those children are brought up in a family that is materially poor but their parents are “not poor”.

In other words, parents have recognized the importance of reading and have taught their children about reading from a young age. Children learn and read more books, the more intelligent, talented and have the opportunity to become successful in the future.

If one day, you feel that you can live independently, not depend on a big family and have a certain concept of marriage and family, you are already mature.

Learn how to say goodbye to the past

One sage said: “Adults don’t ask about the past, intelligent people don’t ask about the present and talented people don’t ask about the future”.

When you contend with people and things of the past, you made nonsense. No matter how capable you are, you cannot go back to the past.

Since the past is over, let it go. If you can’t let it go, let the memory always exist, and it will fade away over time. When you do not think about the past, you will find that the past is something not worth mentioning, whether it is joy or sadness.

Learn to empathize, respect others, and understand others with your heart.

“An important mark of a mature personality: tolerance, generosity, and kindness,” Carnegie said.

Why can’t you understand others? Why do you want to crush people who are better than you? In fact, you’re too petty, selfish. Human heart is only the size of a fist, how many things can hold? As you try to understand others, you will find that each has their own set of challenges and weaknesses and good sides.

A mature person understands and is tolerant of others. Turn the strengths of others into your own. Adults who are good at understanding others, of course, have a broader resource network. If you understand others, you also have a broader vision.

Learn to respect ethical rules and believe that good things will pay off

Immature people often obey moral rules. For example, not stealing, picking up belongings, giving back the lost people, living honestly and upright. Even when living in accordance with morality, they may suffer disadvantages, but their souls are at ease.

Learn to be humble and “hide” your wealth and wisdom

When you were young, you really liked to show off. When anything or success is achieved, you want to share it with your friends and family as much as possible. Now, when you open Facebook, you will see thousands of posts with bragging content: Traveling, opening a restaurant, eating hot pot at home, getting a certificate …

If you look closely, you will see that there are always underground giants around you that do not boast anything.

Adults will know how to behave in a humble way. Even if they are richer or wiser than others, they still know how to hide their wealth and wisdom and reveal them only when necessary.

Quynh Trang/ According to Sohu