Many mothers after giving birth to 2 children often feel that they have aged a lot in both appearance and personality. Why is that so? First of all, we need to understand that giving birth consumes a lot of energy from a woman’s body. The body is depleted of energy very easily aging. During pregnancy and childbirth, the mother needs to consume a large amount of energy. Sometimes, your daily diet doesn’t provide enough of this energy. Therefore, many mothers after giving birth to a second child become old and weak because of losing too much energy. And there are also many mothers who give birth often gain too much weight, their bodies are bulky, especially their fat waist, belly, and back also make them look old. Most mothers give birth to a second child when they are in their 30s or older. At this time, their body’s metabolic ability is lower. Therefore, they also suffered a decline during this time. Secondly, after giving birth to the second child, the mother’s mentality changes and becomes more mature After the birth of their second child, many mothers begin to have new understandings of their roles. They even automatically classify themselves as older women than other women. They began to change the way they dress to be age-appropriate. After giving birth to the second child, many mothers will not pursue the youthful style anymore. In addition, to raise two children, a mother needs to put in more effort and under more pressure. For two children to grow up to be human, the mother will have to work harder to work, earn money and take care of both children at the same time every day. A mother has to sacrifice a lot of time, money and energy for her children. Mothers who spend too much time and energy on raising children often do not have time to take care of themselves. That is also the reason why their beauty fades over the years, not as young as before. Quynh Trang / According to Sohu

Nam Hien and his sister Nguyen Thi Hong

On an accidental occasion, I heard about the situation of a man who is an actor club of Nhon Hung commune music club (Tinh Bien). “The song life” seems to be involved in the life of this suffering man as well! He is Nguyen Van Hien, an acquaintance or Nam Hien, who is currently suffering from a stroke, is bedridden and is trying to shake the last days of his life in solitude.

Visiting Nam Hien’s house in Tay Hung hamlet on a hot afternoon, I met with my sister who was directly nurturing. In the hospital bed, Nam Hien was thin and thin, his blank eyes occasionally glancing around. Mrs. Nguyen Thi Hong (his biological sister Nam Hien) said that Nam Hien could not speak but also had no emotional expression, so the care was very extreme. From eating to personal hygiene, Nam Hien has to rely on his sister, because he is now a plant man.

Talking about Mr. Nam Hien’s situation, Ms. Hong could not hold back tears: “When he was still strong, he ran a” motorbike taxi “to make a living and went to the party to hire a party. The income was precarious at that time, but at least I could take care of myself. I remember, at that time he only ate rice with duck seeds, meals were cooked, meals were fried, meals were boiled. The sisters’ family lived next to each other, and I asked him to come over to eat together to help relieve loneliness. Maybe because his life is poor, his wife also left without looking back at her face once! ”.

In terms of character, Nam Hien is considered a gentle and quiet person. When going to the party to hire the party, it does not require or criticize much or less remuneration. One month before Nam Hien became ill, the wife of the first few years held her arms and knees and took off her shirt. “That day, he went to the lodge for people, sitting down suddenly. Everyone gathered and drove them to the hospital, so he couldn’t speak anymore. I stayed in the hospital for a few times, and I brought her here because my illness did not go away. Afraid that I would lie alone at night, if no one would continue, I brought it over to my house to take care of. Looking at you more and more emaciated, I feel very sorry “- Mrs. Hong choked.

Currently, Ms. Hong only watches the time of feeding rice, water and personal hygiene for Nam Hien. The over-60-year-old sister tried every meal to buy some meat and fish to foster her. Occasionally someone loved her. She would drop by for a bit of money to save her to buy more food for Nam Hien. Ms. Hong’s family background is not quite well off. The husband and wife work as hired labor and send money to her every month to live. Now she redistributed a portion of it to Nam Hien. Sometimes when she ran out of money, Mrs. Hong asked people to let her buy fish in shortage, and she would send it back when she had money. Thanks to good neighbors, loving Nam Hien’s circumstances, they were willing.

“I can’t help you, my intestines are bleeding softly! I think I went to a hundred temples and left my brother suffering with this disease even more guilty. If only I try to take care of me until the last day, so that if I have the best part, she will also be happy because my sister will be by my side in the last minute. His life is now over, his wife has abandoned it, and I do not look. I am a real sister, but if not burdened anymore, how can she live! Now, I just hope that all the donors will help me to have more conditions to worry for a long-term Hien year, because my family can only eat enough ”- Ms. Hong confided.

According to the People’s Committee of Nhon Hung commune, Mr. Nguyen Van Hien is one of the near-poor households of the locality. The current situation is quite difficult because of the catastrophic disease and no money to live. We hope all the benefactors help Nam Hien have more conditions to live with the disease that pushed his life into this tragic situation!

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