It must be said that Vietnamese dramas have never been more interested and discussed than now. I confess that in the past I only liked foreign films, especially Korean films, but recently I have also been caught up in the movement of “plowing” domestic films because my mother always occupied the prime time television every night to watch Vietnamese movies. Male. So I tried to watch the same. It must be said that Vietnamese movies are now attractive, recorded and live voice, the actors play the role and the dialogue is very ordinary, so it is quite interesting to watch. However, I find there is a bad point in the way the filmmakers build the characters, specifically the mother characters in the movie. Let’s say love and The taste of friendship. The character of Mrs. Bich in ‘Flavor of Friendship’. In order to attract the audience’s attention, the mother characters are typified, even extreme, somewhat foreign to the Vietnamese. First of all, the character of Mrs. Bich in The taste of friendship . Right from the first episodes, I was stunned to see this character constantly beat little Nam, shouting and swearing, sometimes just because of the dumpling. Ms. Bich discriminated between her biological and adopted children very clearly, even intending to abandon little Nam in the middle of the market. Granted, Mrs. Bich is an adoptive mother, different from her heart, so it is difficult to treat Nam like her own child, but living with her since she was a child, perhaps there is no love that treats each other like enemies. Later, when she thought that Nam stood to pay her debt, Mrs. Bich somewhat changed her attitude, but in her mind, she always calculated the loss for her adopted child, even intending to calculate how many years to raise her if she met her biological father again. . This character emerges as a formidable, calculating and unselfish mother. Perhaps the writer succeeded in building such an extreme mother character, but I found that Bich was pushed to the extreme, unrealistic and difficult to accept. The character of Mrs. Sa in ‘Flavor of Friendship’. Also in Flavors of Friendship, I dread another mother, Mrs. Sa – Khanh Thy’s mother. Mrs. Sa also appeared as a cold-blooded, pragmatic mother who tried everything to get her daughter to marry one of her best friend’s two sons, in order to enter a rich family. Despite her daughter’s discomfort, Mrs. Sa constantly pressured, even insulted and slapped her daughter for not listening to her in the campaign to lure men. In recent episodes, when she learned that the eldest son had a new relationship, she was a rich family, and Mrs. Sa urged her daughter to pursue her second son, as long as she did not miss the opportunity to enter the noble house. Every mother wants her child to get a good, rich husband, but the character of Mrs. Sa is pushed too much, unrealistically to attract the attention of viewers. Sometimes I wonder if they are real mother and daughter because the way they treat each other is so bad. The character of the mother becomes scary, making viewers shudder. However, the title of the scariest mother on the screen right now must be for Mrs. Hoai in Let’s say love. Maybe I have to use the word “sick” for this character because of his excessive actions, unreasonable control of husband and children, and misplaced love. Granted, Mrs. Hoai had a reason to hire someone to harm her husband’s girlfriend to miscarry, all the madness was just because her husband was out promiscuous, but it’s difficult to explain the unacceptable actions of this mother character with her husband. children. The character of Mrs. Hoai in ‘Let’s say love’. The culmination was when my daughter was tricked by a married man, Hoai tried to publish the man’s photo online to avenge her daughter. However, the way to “bleach” her daughter after the clip of My being jealous was posted online, it subsided, making the girl even more embarrassed, her family story was once again dug up and commented on by netizens. While her daughter was sad because of the painful first trick in her life, instead of comforting her to help My overcome the shock, Mrs. Hoai chose to bully and intimidate her, making My feel like she was cornered. The imposition on her husband and children is also reflected in how Hoai, because of her high expectations for her second son, forced the boy to do everything he wanted, even to enter the school of his choice. Throughout the many episodes that have aired, this mother character makes me frustrated because of her patriarchy, almost never showing normal care to a wife’s family members. normal mother. Watching the mother characters on Vietnamese TV series currently, I only see a dark, pessimistic and ominous color. Readers Thu Huong (Hanoi) If you have any comments, please send them to us at: banvanhoa@vietnamnet.vn. Your opinion may not coincide with the opinion of the article posted on VietNamNet.

The man I used to love and idolized by his masculinity and maturity suddenly disappeared. In front of my eyes right now is a child, overshadowed by her mother.

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When I was studying, I did not go over to his house to play too much, if I had, I only ate for a while and then went home. At that time I just felt that his mother was a meticulous caretaker for her children.

My brother and I went home to light our hometown, and went by motorbike. Before leaving, she reminded them to go out to wear scarves, gloves, and full hats because it was very cold.

That night, we came out from the countryside. As soon as I stepped inside the house, the first thing she reminded me was to go to the kitchen to get him a glass of warm water instead of asking if they were tired.

With the meal, she cooks well and reminds me well, I try to learn to cook according to the taste of the South, later I look after my husband.

I feel, she considers Nam the center of the universe, everyone has the responsibility to serve him attentively.

However, I did not think deeply, but only felt funny inside.

When I got home as a bride I was really disillusioned. My mother-in-law not only takes care of Nam like a child, but also loves him too much.

Men over 30 years old, but at 7:00 a.m., his mother went up to the room to knock on the door, urging her to brush her teeth and wash her face. The clothes I ironed the night before, she still did it the morning again, constantly criticizing the daughter-in-law for being careless.

Nam likes to eat shrimp but has to peel, my mother-in-law buys 1kg, peels it clean, takes off her head, and canned it for her son. Meals, Nam always has its own portion.

Before, every time he dated, Nam took me to eat raw salmon, and eat raw beef… I’ve never seen him say he can’t eat it.

However, when I cook or buy, my mother-in-law always tells Nam not to eat raw food.

I told my mother-in-law, I still saw him go out to eat normally. She immediately sang the song that her son had to please his daughter-in-law, with great respect.

“From a young age, he only likes to eat food that his mother cooks, poisonous things like that, you should never buy it again” – a gentle saying of her mother-in-law but the feeling of weighing a thousand tons. It is not only her reminder, but also her command.

I confided to Nam, he just kept quiet and then turned to other things. Occasionally, I just say a sentence: “Come on, dear, mom is old, it’s nothing to please her”.

Once I went on a business trip with my colleagues, the plane landed at 11 o’clock at night. After that, the group took the car from the airport to the office.

Nam actively texted that he would pick me up at the hospital, but half an hour later his mother-in-law called and told me to take a taxi back because he had a fever. I was a bit down, my heart started to panic.

If Nam did not call, I would go home by myself but I saw that my husband was interested, so I agreed to let him come. I don’t understand why, he got sick so quickly.

When he got home, Nam opened the door, his health was normal, he showed no signs of serious illness as announced by my mother-in-law.

My mother-in-law probably guessed my daughter-in-law, calling me out to scold: “It’s late at night, I called Nam to pick him up, along the dangerous traffic road. Mother is also alone, taking care of her family, she doesn’t rely on anyone “.

I work in the hospital, stay on night duty, and take a rest the next morning. My mother-in-law grumbled, asking me to find another job.

In her opinion, Nam makes money, so my job is to take care of him. In the morning, she cooks for her husband, ensures his health, sees him off to work. 4:30 pm must be present at the rice house.

After the meal, the fruit must be peeled to invite her husband. Fruits such as tangerines and oranges must also be peeled.

A series of regulations, rules … given by my mother-in-law, makes me really stuffy.

Meanwhile, Nam always obediently obeyed his mother. He never had his own stance. Always, mom says anything right.

I proposed to live separately or divorce but Nam did not agree. He blamed me petty, selfish.

I am depressed, do not need to cultivate a home anymore. Please give me advice!

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