Stewed black chicken with chestnuts: 500g black chicken, 100g chestnut kernel, enough onion; ginger 5g, alcohol 20ml, cooking oil 30ml. Black chickens clean feathers, remove organs, wash, chop pieces, blanch over, take out basket to drain. Put the pot on the stove, add cooking oil and scallions, then pour the chicken, stir fry it, add the chestnuts to the top, pour the ginseng water into the cellar until it is ripe, seasoning is ok. The dish is rich in protein, unsaturated fatty acids, minerals such as calcium, phosphorus, iron and vitamins. Sea cucumber soup Sea cucumber soup: 100g soaked sea cucumber, 20g bamboo shoots, 5g shiitake mushrooms, vegetable oil, alcohol, monosodium glutamate, minced onion, minced ginger, salt, pepper powder just enough. Sliced ​​sea cucumber, shredded bamboo shoots, onion, ginger, add it to the broth, add sea cucumbers, mushrooms, bamboo shoots, boil the spices, sprinkle with pepper powder. Served in meals. The use of kidney tonic benefits gas, increases the number and quality of sperm. Goat meat porridge with silkworm pupae: 50g silkworm pupae, 50g goat meat, 50g ordinary rice, just enough spices. Washed goat meat cut into small pieces, fried silkworm pupae, two things mixed together, seasoned to taste. Cook rice into porridge just cooked, then add the above two to stir well, cook porridge well. 2 times a day in the morning and afternoon. Eat continuously for 7-10 days.

The gentleman has a headache because “above said, below does not listen” (Artwork) Worry because “little boy” is no longer the same MSc. BS. Ta Viet Cuong – Deputy Director of the Center for Obstetrics and Gynecology and Reproductive Health Care, Hanoi Obstetrics and Gynecology Hospital – said: Recently, the doctor has received many cases of male examination because of the husband and wife’s “blanket and pillow” problems. Recently, BS. Cuong was sent by a colleague to send a relative to be examined because of weakness in physiology. Patient is a man over 30 years old, married and with 2 children. Looking very healthy on the outside, but mentally worried. At the clinic, the patient shared: After 5 years of being married, recently he felt that his “little boy” is no longer the same. Whenever the couple did “sex”, he found it difficult to “enter the battle” because the penis could not be erect. After the effects, even though the penis can be an erection, it is very easy to “pass”. This made the wife unhappy and he himself felt uncomfortable. The story of “blanket and pillow” plays an important role in the couple’s love life (Artwork) When the doctor asked more carefully about the health status, family, … the patient said normal. Through examination and testing, the doctor determined that the patient did not have a male disease. The main cause of the “weak” young boy in battle may be related to family life, husband and wife’s love. When asked more about the couple connection, this man shared that: “The couple has been married for a long time, the relationship between husband and wife is no longer the same as when they first fell in love. Specifically, the two people no longer feel new, no longer excited. Even the wife is no longer as unfamiliar as when she first fell in love. In the past, my wife was both good and beautiful, and now she’s fat and like my mother ”. BS. Cuong said that the “physiological weakness” that the husband complained of and had to see a doctor was completely understandable. After a period of marriage, married life, especially sex, has decreased desire, when the desire is reduced, the arousal is reduced, there will be a situation “in the upper and lower level does not listen”. “In fact, reducing libido is not only in men but also in women. However, due to the way of thinking of society, due to the education problem, the woman is less likely to confess than the man. ”- Doctor. Cuong said. Refresh “love” to sublimate together To solve the problem of “above and below not listening” of the patient, the doctor. Cuong said that husband and wife need to regularly renew their “love”. When the “love” is renewed, the two receive enough sexual stimulation and attraction from each other, making both of them desire, feeling close to each other, touching each other then it will be solved the problem and you both will reach pleasure. “Pleasure is only achieved when the two can catch up with each other, both understand what the other wants and work together. And in the case of men reaching their destination earlier, or also known as early climax, people call them physiological weakness, but scientifically it is called premature ejaculation. On the contrary, if two people are close together, receive enough stimulation but the man can not harden (or see in old age), it will be called erectile dysfunction ”- BS. Cuong analyzed. In addition, the decrease in libido can also be caused by the husband or wife being worried, depressed, having problems in family life, falling love, too much responsibility to lose desire. close to each other but just trying to fulfill the responsibility of the other person. When meeting the above problems, BS. Cuong thinks that each family will react differently. Some people realize the problem of understanding the problem and hold hands together to heal, some break up, some people satisfy themselves (masturbate). However, “the best way is that the couple need to share, sympathize with each other, work together, renew the” love “to make life go up” – Doctor. Cuong advises.

Master Cuong said 5 years ago, he received a special case but perhaps even he saw it “how is it”. The girl named Hà, from Hải Phòng, was married, but the couple could not have sex. Every time the husband wants to ‘love’, the girl is afraid of crying and screaming. Therefore, the husband is no longer demanding from his wife.

The two only caressed the outside. Once Ha’s husband was determined to “break the fence” and put the ‘little boy’ in, his wife cried, tears filled his nose. Husband panicked too quickly surrendered and had vaginal ejaculation

After that special time the wife became pregnant. When visiting Dr. Cuong, the patient said that she had never had sex with her husband. The doctor suddenly “how can I be pregnant?” And when the girl told her due to her fear of pain, she refused to let her husband ‘love’ but was still pregnant.

Master Cuong said that this case is rare, but in medicine it can still happen that only a healthy sperm enters the uterus can still conceive. Many cases of vaginal ejaculation are still pregnant because there are certain sperm in the semen.

When she examined the girl, the doctor found that her hymen had disappeared and her vagina was constricting. The doctor checked because he found that the patient was accompanied by vaginitis but could not use a normal speculum but only took a tiny speculum with a finger and then gently spleen the vaginal cavity to get fluid. But the girl kept cowering, her whole body stiffening. Dr. Cuong saw that this was the reason why her husband could not have sex, because of fear, the harder the girl, the tighter the vagina.

Dr. Cuong has planned for the patient the possibility of having a cesarean section because he cannot give birth normally. But on the day of her labor, even though she had a lot of stomachache, she was still afraid to go to hospital. It was only when her sister was forced into the hospital that she opened 6 cm. Doctor Cuong was surprised because he only went to the hospital for a moment when the girl gave birth by vaginal delivery, giving birth normally. Later, the girl returned to her hometown, so Dr. Cuong did not know if he could have sex with her husband or not.

Or another case is that two young couples in Hanoi go to the hospital for an examination because they cannot have sex. The reason is that the wife suffers from the fear of having sex. Every time the couple wanted to do ‘sex’, the wife cried with tears, her mentality affected and gradually the husband could not get an erection.

When examining the patient, Dr. Cuong discovered that the girl had the uterus tip down so it caused pain during sex, 1 time of pain and the girl was afraid of obsession. Meanwhile, the vaginal cavity is a virtual cavity that expands when the woman relaxes her body and it will close tightly if the woman is frightened.

Master Ta Viet Cuong shares vaginal muscle contraction syndrome.

In these cases, meeting a husband with sexual skills and experience may also help his wife, but this husband does not have much experience with sex.

Meanwhile, Dr. Cuong said in Vietnam there is no major in sex studies, training people how to deal with sex. When it comes to sex, people still think it is a secret story and can not be revealed out.

Vaginismus Syndrome

The syndrome that the other women have, according to Dr. Cuong, the literature mentions it is a syndrome called “Vaginismus” which literally means pain when putting anything into the genital area (maybe the finger hands, penis …) caused by muscle contraction in the vagina.

This syndrome is divided into two types, primary occurring in people who have never had sex. Secondly, it is found in those who have ever had sex and for some reason, the relationship hurts like this. These cases are most common after normal birth, or have a condition with the genital pelvic area.

Master Cuong said although this is not a disease, but the problem of treatment is not simple, the first reason is always considered a delicate problem both for the patient and the medical professional.

Some cases can use sex therapy that instructs the patient to self-pleasure because vaginal spasms do not mean a woman becomes cold, does not want to have sex or does not love her partner. .

In addition, self-inducing self-pleasure can help alleviate your fear of having sex. Doctors believe that peak sensation is not the sole purpose of self-pleasure, but also a way to increase genital comfort.