The man I used to love and idolized by his masculinity and maturity suddenly disappeared. In front of my eyes right now is a child, overshadowed by her mother.

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When I was studying, I did not go over to his house to play too much, if I had, I only ate for a while and then went home. At that time I just felt that his mother was a meticulous caretaker for her children.

My brother and I went home to light our hometown, and went by motorbike. Before leaving, she reminded them to go out to wear scarves, gloves, and full hats because it was very cold.

That night, we came out from the countryside. As soon as I stepped inside the house, the first thing she reminded me was to go to the kitchen to get him a glass of warm water instead of asking if they were tired.

With the meal, she cooks well and reminds me well, I try to learn to cook according to the taste of the South, later I look after my husband.

I feel, she considers Nam the center of the universe, everyone has the responsibility to serve him attentively.

However, I did not think deeply, but only felt funny inside.

When I got home as a bride I was really disillusioned. My mother-in-law not only takes care of Nam like a child, but also loves him too much.

Men over 30 years old, but at 7:00 a.m., his mother went up to the room to knock on the door, urging her to brush her teeth and wash her face. The clothes I ironed the night before, she still did it the morning again, constantly criticizing the daughter-in-law for being careless.

Nam likes to eat shrimp but has to peel, my mother-in-law buys 1kg, peels it clean, takes off her head, and canned it for her son. Meals, Nam always has its own portion.

Before, every time he dated, Nam took me to eat raw salmon, and eat raw beef… I’ve never seen him say he can’t eat it.

However, when I cook or buy, my mother-in-law always tells Nam not to eat raw food.

I told my mother-in-law, I still saw him go out to eat normally. She immediately sang the song that her son had to please his daughter-in-law, with great respect.

“From a young age, he only likes to eat food that his mother cooks, poisonous things like that, you should never buy it again” – a gentle saying of her mother-in-law but the feeling of weighing a thousand tons. It is not only her reminder, but also her command.

I confided to Nam, he just kept quiet and then turned to other things. Occasionally, I just say a sentence: “Come on, dear, mom is old, it’s nothing to please her”.

Once I went on a business trip with my colleagues, the plane landed at 11 o’clock at night. After that, the group took the car from the airport to the office.

Nam actively texted that he would pick me up at the hospital, but half an hour later his mother-in-law called and told me to take a taxi back because he had a fever. I was a bit down, my heart started to panic.

If Nam did not call, I would go home by myself but I saw that my husband was interested, so I agreed to let him come. I don’t understand why, he got sick so quickly.

When he got home, Nam opened the door, his health was normal, he showed no signs of serious illness as announced by my mother-in-law.

My mother-in-law probably guessed my daughter-in-law, calling me out to scold: “It’s late at night, I called Nam to pick him up, along the dangerous traffic road. Mother is also alone, taking care of her family, she doesn’t rely on anyone “.

I work in the hospital, stay on night duty, and take a rest the next morning. My mother-in-law grumbled, asking me to find another job.

In her opinion, Nam makes money, so my job is to take care of him. In the morning, she cooks for her husband, ensures his health, sees him off to work. 4:30 pm must be present at the rice house.

After the meal, the fruit must be peeled to invite her husband. Fruits such as tangerines and oranges must also be peeled.

A series of regulations, rules … given by my mother-in-law, makes me really stuffy.

Meanwhile, Nam always obediently obeyed his mother. He never had his own stance. Always, mom says anything right.

I proposed to live separately or divorce but Nam did not agree. He blamed me petty, selfish.

I am depressed, do not need to cultivate a home anymore. Please give me advice!

According to VietnamNet

Tra An ward, Binh Thuy district, deployed panels and banners to propagate the election of the 15th National Assembly and the People’s Council at all levels for the term 2021-2026 along the Huynh Phan Ho street.

Immediately after receiving information about the election activities of the National Assembly, term XV and representatives of People’s Councils at all levels for the term 2021-2026, the Binh Thuy District Election Steering Committee directed the grassroots election steering committee to organize the development. fully and promptly declaring and grasping the documents of the Central and Can Tho city to cadres, civil servants and public employees and propagating them to union members, members, all classes of people. At the same time, to direct the establishment of the Election Commission (UBBC), the constituencies, and the assisting team to serve the election. The People’s Committee of the district has issued a resolution fixing and announcing the number of constituencies, the list of constituencies and the number of district and ward People’s Council deputies elected for the term 2021-2026. The Vietnam Fatherland Front Committee at all levels in the district held a consultation to introduce the candidates of the People’s Council of districts and wards in accordance with the process and regulations.

Through the first consultation, the number of candidates for district People’s Council candidates for the term 2021-2026 is 66 people (2 are self-nominated). In terms of composition, there are 11 people from political organizations, 11 people from socio-political organizations, 17 people from state organizations, 2 people from non-business units, 18 people from subordinate administrative units, 3 people belong to socio-professional – economic organizations, 1 person is religious, 1 person is ethnic minority, 2 people self-nominated … At the 2nd consultation, Vietnam Fatherland Front Committee of district and the member organizations that have prepared a preliminary list of 60 people nominated for District People’s Council candidates for the term 2021-2026. The 8-ward People’s Committee issued the Decision on fixing and announcing 44 constituencies, a list of constituencies and 178 elected delegates of each ward-level People’s Council election unit. Binh Thuy District People’s Committee has approved 86 polling stations; of which, there are 11 polling stations belonging to the armed forces units located in the area.

In order for the people to understand and actively participate in the election, the Propaganda Subcommittee proactively compiled a set of question and answer documents on the election of the 15th National Assembly and the representatives of the People’s Council at all levels for the term 2021-2026. In particular, to attach importance to propagating the meaning and importance of the election; on the standards of the National Assembly, the People’s Council delegates; the process of introducing candidates, the right to vote of citizens and the steps to conduct the election … At the same time, coordinating with the District Education and Training Department to deploy schools to hang propaganda banners at school sites; The Office of the Interior and the Culture Office guide agencies and units of wards to focus on implementing propaganda banners and panels according to the proposed plan.

According to Ms. Le Hoang Thuy Trinh, Head of the Propaganda Department of Binh Thuy District, Head of the District Election Propaganda Subcommittee has posted directing documents, propagating slogans about the election of the 15th National Assembly and the People’s Council. All levels for the term 2021-2026 on the website of the district, on the led light board at the gate of Binh Thuy bridge, the led screen in front of the headquarters of the District Party Committee, the District People’s Committee … The wards have implemented 10 pa- slaves, 60 horizontal banners, 303 vertical banners. The District Center for Culture and Broadcasting conducts the column “Towards the election of the National Assembly and the election of People’s Council deputies at all levels”, broadcast every Thursday afternoon and Friday, with a duration of 5 minutes …

Ms. Nguyen Thi Nu, Permanent Deputy Secretary of the District Party Committee, Chairwoman of the People’s Council of Binh Thuy District, Chairman of the District People’s Committee, said: “Up to this point, the work of implementing the election of the 15th National Assembly and the People’s Council members at all levels period 2021-2026 is implemented seriously, fully and in accordance with regulations by Binh Thuy District Party Committee. In the near future, the district People’s Committee will continue to coordinate with the district Fatherland Front Committee to hold the third consultation meeting to make a list of candidates for People’s Council delegates on time. At the same time, make a list of voters, review the electoral roll before posting, write voter cards, provide professional training for officials in charge of elections at the grassroots level. The District Party Committee will continue to direct the functional forces to strengthen coordination to maintain security and order, well implement the epidemic prevention, … for the election of the 15th National Assembly, the delegates of the People’s Council at all levels. the period 2021-2026 in the district took place successfully ”.