The land offering is also known as the “Tai Tho Ky Yen” ceremony. Legend has it that, during the Tran dynasty, when Princess Huyen Tran was married to the king of Champa, Dai Viet received a wedding gift from the land of two continents: Chau O and Chau Ly (Chau Ri). When Dai Viet people came to these two continents to settle down, they were not familiar with the soil and climate, so there was a ritual of worshiping the land. This ritual is to show respect to the native gods and wish for a peaceful settlement. The time to worship the land is done on auspicious days, auspicious hours, the “zodiac hour” of the second or eighth lunar month. People in these regions often tell each other to be rich to do double, narrow to make a single, but a tray of earth offerings usually has three tables including: upper table, middle table and lower table. Some places make two tables. Each table has the scent of lamps, fruits, betel nut wine, votive paper. The upper table is placed in a dress of the earth god, the food includes chicken and sticky rice, surrounded by sticky rice and tea. Particularly for chickens, we must have red flags, yellow feathers, and yellow legs. Especially, the chicken is just right (neither young nor old), fat and fat. The middle table is placed on the middle table, the five-way robe, the offerings include boiled pork, a plate of sticky rice, three plates of crabs and boiled eggs, a piece of boiled meat and salt placed on top, and a tray of rice offerings, especially a plate of boiled potatoes and vegetables, a cup of water. Grilled and grilled fish and meat. The table put clothes, porridge, rice, salt, potatoes, cassava, peanuts… The tables are placed in front of the house, the owner stands from the house to bow. The list of offerings and prayers includes the land and houses of the owner to the gods of streams, gods of wells and ancestors of villages and clans. Especially offering to the souls of the Cham people who used to reside, the souls that no one worships… When the ceremony is almost over, the householder takes some offerings such as sticky rice, bananas, crab claws, chicken eggs, sweet potatoes, baked rice paper, etc. into a small folded banana sheath (the people call it “salad”). Then bring it out and hang it at the corner of a tree in the garden or near the house. The custom of hanging Sa Let has become a very unique feature. Finally, after the donation of the land, the neighbors will be invited to join in the fun because they have the concept of “selling distant relatives to buy close neighbors”, as well as an opportunity to exchange events to tighten “neighborhood friendship”. Over the years, today people in the “five Quang” regions still keep the custom of worshiping the land as a beautiful cultural feature. Invite readers to watch the video: Dangers of using weight loss foods online. Source: VTV24.

For a long time, the two became acquainted. However, , after that, Truong Phuong’s father still could not conquer sickness. His death made his daughter very sad. Truong Phuong at that time was a child, also considered Van Truong Lam as a family, so he relied on him for a long time. Thanks to the familiar doctor by his side, Truong Phuong gradually forgot the pain of losing his father and became happy again. She was very grateful to the doctor and formed a deep friendship between them. After spending time together, they fell in love and eventually became married. When they got married, Truong Phuong was 28 years old, and Van Truong Lam was 73 years old. At that time, Truong Phuong’s mother wanted her to marry a young man from a nearby village, even accepting their home ceremony. However, Truong Phuong’s “stubborn temperament” at that time made everyone unable to convince her. More importantly, she not only refused her mother’s request, but also decided to marry Van Truong Lam immediately. The incident caused a stir in public opinion in the village. Everyone thought that the girl was over-dressed and would have to regret it later. In the end, Truong Phuong and Van Truong Lam also achieved their goal. After getting married, they still gave birth to a baby boy. The couple also participated in the show “Happiness to knock on the door” on television, which surprised the audience with their post-marriage life, extremely simple, despite their normal living conditions. But the breath of a happy life filled the house like many other families. Truong Phuong stays at home to take care of his children and do chores in his spare time. Van Truong Lam is still the main source of income and the breadwinner of the family, he often visits home to visit for patients. Van Truong Lam loves Truong Phuong very much, because every time he comes home, he considers whether to bring something such as household appliances or clothes to Truong Phuong. When the couple looked at each other, their eyes filled with love and hope. In the past, villagers who used to see this as a joke always asked Truong Phuong if she would regret it. But no matter how many people ask, Truong Phuong always insists that he has no regrets. Now, people in the village that used to not take this relationship seriously also begin to send their blessings to them. Today, more and more people are pessimistic about their marriage, feeling that the marriage is not as good as they thought. But for this couple, on the contrary, they are even happier and more peaceful than normal couples. Looking at Truong Phuong and Van Truong Lam so happy, many people will wake up and realize that love is always so warm. However, many questions are raised around the age gap so much, whether they have any difficulty in raising children. Most people believe that the large gap between the two sides easily causes a generation gap. When faced with anything, a wife may have a more flexible resolution or attitude, while an older husband may be more stubborn and rigid. If neither side gives in, the relationship will turn into a game of tit-for-tat and will inevitably deteriorate. The large age gap means that older people will leave the world sooner, and those who stay will endure loneliness while alone. Conversely, if couples are the same age, they may spend more time together. This way, the longer they are together, the longer they will be with the children. In addition, in terms of children’s education, the pairs of “deviated chopsticks” are also often faced with conflicting opinions more often. Today, education is increasingly developing, because the young and the old receive different educational environments, so they will definitely give their own opinions in the process of educating children. Parents’ educational differences will not only affect their relationship but also their children. So in a family with such a large age gap, how can children have a correct view of the two words “family”? First of all, the relationship between parents must be harmonious. Parents should not lose their temper because of disagreement, because it will affect the family atmosphere. Children are very sensitive and can easily feel their parents’ feelings, and at the same time, they also develop a mentality quickly. In order for children to have a correct view of marriage and love, first of all, the love between parents must be harmonious, children must feel the love of their parents and the warmth of the family. For example, Truong Phuong might tell the child that she loves her husband very much, and the couple loves you very much, even though the father may leave later, but his love for the child is always something to be cherished to cherish. . At that time, the child will mature and will know how to cherish himself and others.