Closer to the wedding day, the groom left for a new love with a dream of changing his life is the content of the story that is attracting the attention of many members in a closed group on the social network below.
The story is as follows: “After nearly 3 years of love, V. and I decided to get married in April 2019. However, in February of that year, I met T., one of the partners appointed by the company, I was in charge of cooperation, then everything started. head turns in the other direction. T. not only looks better than my lover, but also has a very rich family. Working together on a couple of projects, I realized that I and T. not only understand each other at work but also get along very well in conversation. With a lot of contact, we gradually developed feelings. More and more I see that T. is really the girl I want to spend the rest of my life with. Most importantly, if I take T., my future will be much brighter. 
The post of a young man After careful consideration, I secretly hid V. dating T. Many times I tried to turn the cards upside down with V. but I could not speak. Moreover, my parents liked her very much, always telling their sons to treat their future daughter-in-law well, so I was even more awkward. Really talking about feelings, I still love V. but as a man, I need to think further, know how to put money first. Therefore, after thinking carefully, I decided to help V. to perform my calculation, even though I knew for sure that I would have to endure a lot of pressure and scandal. Two days ago, I informed my parents that I would annul the marriage despite their scolding, I decided not to change. At the same time, I also met V. made it clear that I had found another half that was more perfect for me. V. helplessly accepted to break up with me without a word of complaint. After finishing with V., I always ran to my new love with many hopes for a bright tomorrow. At that time to me, T. was like a lever, only marrying her in the future, my career can go far. Unfortunately, things did not go as planned after that. Dating with a new lover for a few months, I discovered that she caught fish with two hands. Even more sad, although I accepted to be patient to ‘grow up’, T. still flatly refused. She said, her feelings for me are just play, never intended to marry a poor guy like me. The previous promises made to me were simply pleasant to say. Failure in love, my career after that time also encountered many difficulties. 2 years went by in a flash, last weekend I was fortunate to be recruited into a very good position in a large company. The sales director of that company was very young, only 2 years older than me, but talented and liberal. I’ve only been working for a few days and I have heard the company’s staff praise a lot about the boss, he is not only good at his profession but also loves his wife very much, which makes me quite curious. After dinner last night, I sat down and went to my boss’s personal page to take a look at his private life. When I saw the wedding photo my boss shared on his timeline, I was stunned, frozen. Unbelievably, the young wife who was loved and pampered by her boss so much that everyone in the company admired her was V., my girlfriend who used to cheat right next to the date of the engagement 2 years ago. Now she is the boss’s wife, living a rich and happy life, few compare. 
Illustration Along with looking at my boss’s facebook, I clicked on V’s personal page, so that my heart went numb before each photo, each status line she shared about the happy home with her husband. Looking at her facebook, the feeling of shame about the past once again rose up in me. The new job position I was enthusiastically working on suddenly lost interest. Not because I don’t want to, but because I don’t know how to face the boss – husband of my ex. Every time I look at my boss, I seem to look back at my wrong past, which makes me miserable and ashamed. Maybe I’ll resign before my boss knows who I am.” The mistake of the guy above is not too rare or unique. In fact, there are many people who have made such a serious mistake, by the time they realize the mistake, it is too late, there is no chance to do it again. The above story can be seen as a common lesson for young people, never let mistakes in the past affect your future, especially in love affairs.
Illustration. Please allow me to tell you a little bit about the time when I was still a bride in that house. I married him quite quickly, the relationship only lasted a while when I received the news that I was pregnant. So we can also temporarily call this a “run-and-run wedding”. Because my situation is not comparable to the other house, my mother-in-law often shows contempt for her daughter-in-law, considering me nothing. In particular, when I got married, I knew well the character of my ex-husband. It was a man who was a parasite to his parents, lazy to work, liked to drink, and a prostitute. When I witnessed the hot clip of my husband and lover with my own eyes, I was shocked both literally and figuratively. And because of that incident, I had a miscarriage. The more painful consequence was that I lost my motherhood forever. Depressed, desperate, I fell into a state of depression for many months. I can’t count how many divorce papers I’ve written and then tore it up myself. Accidentally seeing my ex-mother-in-law, she must have guessed my thoughts and said frankly and ruthlessly so that I could quickly end this marriage. And there, I finally left in a daze. Three and a half years have passed since my divorce. Life is very different now, even the current salary of 3 million dong is 4, 5 times higher. I am very happy, being with my parents to take care of them, sometimes going to my sister’s house to play. Once in a while, if I’m lonely, I’ll find a guy to drink water, talk about life, and have no long-term intentions. 
Illustration. About a month ago, I received a text from a friend who played with me and my ex-husband. He said my ex-husband had a serious illness and was being treated in the hospital. To tell the truth, over the years I no longer care to have anything to do with him, sometimes there are rumors that he got married and broke up with nothing. Now hearing this news, part of me feels like retribution for him, the other part is sympathetic. Anyway, the two of them had a bit of a sweet time. I texted a friend to ask where my ex-husband was undergoing treatment to visit. My sister also told me to come along. My sister and I went to the hospital and found our ex-husband and his mother there. Just put the fruit bag with a little envelope of 1 million dong inside it on the table, the ex-mother-in-law sullenly frowned and said: “It’s so precious, now there’s an ex-wife to visit.” The ex-husband was giving water so he fell asleep. I only asked a few questions, but my mother-in-law even threw a stack of papers at her. When I lifted it up, it was all hospital bills. She also said sarcastically: “Don’t think that coming here today, seeing my son dying, thinking that he will inherit the property. Only this pile of hospital bills is left, you can take it if you want! You have ruined my son’s life.” My sister was angry and was about to have a duel but I was able to stop her. Finally, I greeted her and left with her. It is incomprehensible, after all these years, the mother-in-law still hates her ex-daughter-in-law. It is true that there are still such selfish and narrow-minded people in this world!
Unlike in Beijing or Shanghai, the LGBT community in Hainan province still faces many prejudices and is not accepted by society. Photo: The Beijinger. Hide your identity 11 years ago, I spent 12 months learning Chinese in Hainan and interacting with the local LGBT community. From that experience, for the past 8 years, I have started researching the lives of gay, bisexual and transgender people in this low-economic and culturally low-value locality. In the past few years, the government has made a lot of efforts to promote tourism in Hainan, but there has not been the same level of investment in other coastal areas. Ah Tao led me out of the square, through an empty market, and into a dark alley. “When you go there, don’t mention homosexuality or heterosexuality,” he warned carefully. 
Most have to hide their identities to be able to integrate into the community and continue to lead normal lives. Photo: New York Post. I suddenly recalled in 2009, the first time my friends took me to the only gay bar in Haikou – the capital of Hainan province. It was nestled behind an abandoned hotel, hidden by another row of working hotels. Later, I found out that that is the common point of spaces for the LGBT community – discreet, out of sight. To outsiders, these areas are completely invisible, hard to find. But for people like Ah Tao, this is the only place to take off your mask and be true to yourself. “Happy or sad, I always go to these bars to relax. The LGBT community here doesn’t have that much space,” said Xiaomai, a 19-year-old gay man. However, such bars only exist in major cities on the island. In smaller towns, they can only meet and chat at teahouses, convenience stores and parks. The risk of being discovered, stigmatized, affecting honor, family and work is also greater. Therefore, Ah Tao told me not to mention a word related to “gay”. Following Ah Tao’s footsteps into a convenience store at an intersection in a dark alley, I saw three electric mahjong tables surrounded by many people, men and women of all kinds. Seeing Ah Tao, they turned to ask about love and marriage. “It looks like it, but the men sitting here are all gay,” Ah Tao whispered to me. Accordingly, because they want to participate in community activities, many gay people in Hainan accept to hide their identities and pretend to be a different person. The worry of “no wife, no children” “How do you have a wife and children that are so few these days?”, a woman playing mahjong turned to ask Ah Tao. In fact, gay men here often receive such curious questions about marriage. Family pressure, children are always present, reminding Ah Tao that he is living “no wife, no children”. Many people in the community fear that they will be forced to marry and have children according to the expectations of family and society. “I am happy to make friends, get to know many people like me. But what about the future? How should I face my family, how do I explain the fact that I am still unmarried at 20-30 years old?”, Xiaomai’s heart. 
Some gay people living in Hainan choose to have children through surrogacy, which helps relieve the pressure of marriage and the anxiety of loneliness in old age. Photo: The Guardian. In China, the traditional concept of family still has a profound influence in society. For men, they need to be responsible for getting married and having children at all costs. In addition, due to fear of old age without a caregiver, many gay men accept marriage. “I got married partly because of my parents, partly because I was afraid that I wouldn’t have someone to look after me in my old age,” said 24 year old Liang Zongwei, a gay man living in Haikou. Some individuals like Ah Long (36 years old), a factory owner in northeastern Hainan, choose to have children through surrogacy. However, not everyone has the financial means to do this. In big cities, social organizations are trying to change stereotypes and raise social awareness about the LGBT community. But with provinces and cities that have not yet received economic and cultural investment like Hainan, the presence of homosexuals has not been properly recognized. From the experience of making friends with Ah Tao and being exposed to LGBT culture in Hainan, I reflect more on life, wondering if having to hide my true self is really “living”.
Part 2 Hospital Playlist relationships will become clearer As characters approach new challenges and potential changes in Season 2 Hospital Playlist, The audience is curious about the unfinished relationships and hopes to have a complete ending in the second part. How will Song Hwa and Ik Joon’s relationship change after he confesses his feelings? 
Jo Jung Suk’s confession was drowned in the silence of Joen Mi Do In the first season of Hospital Playlist, Ik Joon (Jo Jung Suk) went to find Song Hwa (Jeon Mi Do) at the hospital branch in Sokcho to confess his feelings for her. He gently said to her, “ Even though you’ve been my friend for a long time, I’ve come to like you. If I confess my feelings, I think it will be a bit awkward, but if I don’t confess them now, I think I will regret it for the rest of my life. What do I do? “. 
Part 2 viewers are looking forward to them being together Realizing that Song Hwa was at a loss for words, Ik Joon continued, “You can answer slowly. I’ll hear the answer when you come back ”, leaving viewers feeling confused about the fate of their relationship. Especially since the two have been close friends in the past, stay tuned to see if Ik Joon’s romantic confession takes these two even further. 
This sentiment above friendship under love makes the audience excited The kiss between Jung Won and Gyeo UI, there is a beginning of their love in part 2 He dreams of becoming a priest, and Ahn Jung Won (Yoo Yeon Seok) also has a desire to help his patients, which leads to his decision to stay in the hospital. 
Is this kiss the beginning of your love At the end of Season 1, he fell in love and gradually became interested in Jang Gyeo Ul (Shin Hyun Been), who had unrequited feelings for him. On Christmas Eve, she mustered up her courage to confess to him, “I like you, Doctor” and Ahn Jung Won responded by kissing her. But Ahn Jung Won’s love for God is too great, will he be brave enough to start falling in love with humans? 
Jung Won has a great love for God 
Gyeo UI has been in a one-sided love for a long time before replying What challenges will Jun Wan face when starting a long distance relationship with Captain IK Sun Despite the sweet relationship Kim Jun Wan (Jung Kyung Ho) has with Lee Ik Sun (Kwak Sun Young), they are facing a new obstacle when Ik Sun moves to the UK to study abroad. , forcing them to have a distant relationship. 
IK Sun went to study abroad and they fell in love After spending a lot of time thinking about it, Jun Wan sent Ik Sun a ring, but viewers were equally surprised when his ring bounced back. Will this relationship work? while IK Sun is not interested in marriage. 
But recently, Jun Wan got his engagement ring returned What will happen to Seok Hyung after he is contacted again by his ex-wife? In the previous season, Yang Seok Hyung (Kim Dae Myung) rejected Chu Min Ha (Ahn Eun Jin) after thinking a lot, expressing confused and mixed feelings. Suddenly, he received a call from his ex-wife and answered after a moment of hesitation. 
Chu Min Ha is also secretly in love with Dr. Seok Hyung Is Doctor Chu Min Ha still determined to pursue idol Seok Hyung? What role does the ex-wife play in Seok Hyung’s life in part 2 Hospital Playlist ? 
But he flatly rejected her The producers commented: “ In season 1, all five characters go through big and small changes in their own lives. Look forward to season 2, where the five friends will experience even deeper and more varied relationship changes.” 
Part 2 Hospital Playlist will start on June 17 Second season of Hospital Playlist premieres June 17 at 9pm. Let’s wait and watch this meaningful movie with Saostar.
Ms. Hoang Thi Hang in a blood donation session Right from 2004 when she entered Cao Bang Medical School, Ms. Hoang Thi Hang was taught by teachers about voluntary blood donation. When she went to clinical practice at the Provincial Hospital and witnessed with her own eyes many acute blood loss patients being saved from those volunteer blood drops, she was even more eager to participate in this noble work. Not only is she a blood donation volunteer, she is also a recipient of such emergency blood units. “I myself used to be a patient who donated blood due to hemorrhage during childbirth. As a person who was saved by blood drops of volunteers, I understand more than anything the meaning of this act. As an officer Working in the medical industry, interacting with many patients standing on the border of life and death, I understand the importance of every drop of blood given,” Hang shared. Build a mobile blood store For Ms. Hang, voluntary blood donation is a noble gesture, not only saving the lives of patients but also giving blood donors a joy and happiness because they have done a very noble thing. : “A drop of blood gives, a life stays”. On average, she donates blood 2-3 times a year. As a volunteer, Ms. Hang has participated in many voluntary blood donation activities in Cao Bang province such as the Pink Spring Festival, Red Sunday; Red Journey Army Association and support blood donation points in 11 districts and cities. Besides voluntary blood donation, Hang and her Voluntary Blood Donor Club participate in blood donation campaigns, especially many times of emergency blood donation. The number of volunteers’ blood donations reached over 500 registrations and about 400 blood units were collected. Among the volunteers who were mobilized by her to donate blood were relatives, relatives, friends, colleagues, neighbors… Now, they themselves have become mobile “blood warehouses” that are always ready. response” whenever the patient needs it. They are not only volunteers but also propagandists, spreading good deeds to the community, so that every day the number of blood donors increases, the number of anemic patients decreases… Volunteering to become a “living blood bank” for patients, midwife Hang has shown a noble gesture, expressing the dedication, conscience and responsibility of medical staff. In 2021, Hoang Thi Hang is in the list of 100 typical blood donors honored nationwide.
Formerly a model, singer and now a businessman, and also a nursing mother, what job makes Trang feel the hardest? Each position gives Page its own busyness. Although she was mentally prepared for the first time being a mother, Trang could not avoid being surprised or worried about how to take care of her children properly. When she became a mother, everything of Trang revolved around the baby, whether day or night. How can my child be nourished in the best way, how can I have enough milk to feed my child, where is my sick child, are you willing to eat these days?… 100 questions are always asked in the mind of a person every time. motherhood like Trang. And perhaps being a mother is the unpaid overtime job that Trang finds the most extreme but worth it! Almost every mother wants to take care of her child by herself and it seems that Dam Thu Trang is the same? Trang is quite a perfectionist and meticulous person, so she always wants to take care of everything for her children by herself, Trang always tries to spend as much time as possible with her children. Because Trang believes that your child’s childhood is only one, and I will become a companion to witness all important development milestones in his life. That is the happiness that Trang thinks every mother wants to have. Have you ever felt overwhelmed with company and housework so much? Fortunately, Trang has a husband who always understands and shares everything with her. From the time she was pregnant until the birth of Suchin, her husband always wanted Trang’s feelings to be in the best state. Because the husband’s point of view is very clear: If the rear is stable, the work will be stable. When is Trang feeling the happiest and when is the most difficult time of being a first time mother? The happiest moment is when waking up every morning, Suchin always crawls to Trang to hug and kiss her mother. Seeing your child grow up every day and begin to show love is a mother’s happiness. The most difficult time is probably the time of breastfeeding, Trang’s sleeping time is only about 4 hours a day. Pumping milk, taking care of children, lack of sleep with pain due to blocked milk ducts, there was a time when Trang wanted to give up but loved her child, so she told herself to try. At that time, a full 8 hours of sleep was too expensive for Trang. 
ANH CUONG CAN GET EVERYTHING FOR ONE PHONE CALL How does her husband support Trang in taking care of her children? Her husband is the one who always reminds Trang to balance time with her children and herself to stay healthy, raising children is a long way, not a day 2. In addition to working time, her husband spends almost everything. All the time spent with the children, playing with Suchin, at night, lying down with Subeo about how everything happened at school today, caring and grasping the feelings of the children. Page comments What kind of father is Cuong? How did he change when he got married and especially had a baby Suchin? Trang was attracted to Mr. Cuong by the times he played and the way he was with Subeo, the clumsiness of a father when taking care of every inch of his son. Mr. Cuong could leave all his work to stay and run straight home after only Subeo’s phone call asking his father: “When will you come back to me? I will wait for you to come back and then go to sleep”… Because of those things. that Trang decided to stick with Mr. Cuong. And Suchin news page will be a really happy baby when there are 2 men who love to take care of and are always ready to protect her. 
It seems that Dam Thu Trang and her husband are also hard members of the “crazy” parent group, right? This “disease” Trang thinks every parent has it, if it’s different, it’s just different in level. If it is said that Trang and her husband belong to the family type, I don’t know if people will believe it or not? Outside of work, the couple just likes to stay at home, spend time with their children, all the family’s attention now revolves around the youngest but most “powerful” child member. SUBEO IS A GOOD, LOVELY BOY Besides taking care of Suchin, does Trang have to worry a lot about Subeo? Subeo is a very affectionate and caring boy. Subeo has begun to reach the age of certain physical changes as well as emotional changes, things will gradually become more sensitive when at this age. So everything I say or show should always make my child feel secure, trust and feel my love for him. The boy seems to be very close and loves his sister? Ever since knowing that Trang and her father would get married, Subeo had calculated that after the wedding 9 months and 10 days, she would have a brother or a sister. And when at the time of routine antenatal checkup, Subeo was very eager to go to the doctor with Trang’s mother so she could see the baby and talk to her, draw pictures for her, always asking: “Now the baby in the womb is as big as the baby What’s wrong?”… Previously, when I came home from school, I was looking for my parents, but now, the first person Subeo looked for was Suchin’s sister, who came into the room to find her, hold her and wish her good night… It was a pleasure The happiness of a mother like Trang, happiness because she is a good boy, emotional, selfless and is mostly ahead of her age. 
Do Cuong and Trang often share with each other about how to bond family members? The couple always want to let the children’s emotions be as natural and comfortable as possible. Love cannot be forced. As a parent, I always show more love for my children every day, and must always balance all emotions so that my children can understand, every member of the family deserves to be loved. very much. What does Trang want most for her family right now? Be sure to stay healthy and safe during this pandemic! Thank you Dam Thu Trang for the interesting sharing! Following Vietnamese Lifestyle
The first episodes of My Roommate Is A Gumiho extremely funny. Before witnessing Lee Dam fall in love with “Old Man” Gumiho who has practiced for 999 years, those who want to be “sustainable” but not yet “capable” can learn from her. Because Lee Dam has a whole basket of anti-hearing tips, driving away the bad guys! Tip #1: Don’t touch, don’t touch, roll evenly! This secret is very simple, just don’t give the listener the opportunity to put your shoulder, hand in hand, accidentally touch. In Lee Dam’s situation, the reason she didn’t want Gye Sun Woo to touch her was because he was in the year of the Tiger (tiger), and she had a conflicting jade fox (fox). But it’s clear that Gye Sun Woo wants to create a close relationship with the real Lee Dam, so now it’s always convenient to avoid both ways. 
Dodge left dodge right. 
Dodge again. However, sometimes this trick is quite hard, can cause a little scratch, that is when you have to lie down on the ground and roll evenly like Lee Dam in this situation. Gye Sun Woo reached out his hand to protect Lee Dam from being hit by a bicycle, but she was determined to measure the ground better. Raise your hand here! But I don’t know you, I just roll. Tip #2: Unruly appearance, scandalous behavior! Because he did not want his senior Gye Sun Woo to pursue him, Lee Dam planned to make him lose his sympathy, threatening him to run away. The first is to dress in a scandal: Old T-shirt has ruffled fur, collar is stretched, sneakers are worn out. 
Eat like a train with its mouth open… 
Eating avalanches and rivers, don’t give the other person a piece of it. Then there are scandalous behaviors such as eating loudly, eating greedily, talking loudly, telling bland jokes and then laughing loudly. This way will be especially “heavy” when inviting people to eat black soy sauce noodles, then reminiscent of the associated toilet congestion that makes people just want to… let go of chopsticks. 
Reminds me of “memories” of seniors helping me clear a clogged toilet. 
Confused men… 
Well, should we eat more then… Tip #3: “No” and “No” to all offers This method is super simple and easy to do, just say “No” to every suggestion of a stalker. Invited out to eat? Are not! Going to the movies? Are not! Will you go for a walk? No and no! 
What’s the point of dating, eating and drinking is true love. Tip #4: Have a super big box ready Rain is often the setting of quite a few romantic love stories. Usually two young people will stand together under the eaves, and then one will ask the other to cover the umbrella. If you want to get rid of it, the other person, whether or not he is carrying an umbrella, must know what tells him to forget. 
A classic allure. But what a shame it’s Lee Dam! Instead of saying that she had brought an umbrella, she also emphasized “my umbrella is bigger”, and then spread out a super big umbrella big enough for a whole neighborhood to crawl in like “sorry”. Those who listen will also “die in the heart a little”. 
But the answer is not canonical at all. 
There is also a super-terrible umbrella and acts like a “sorry”. Bonus: Call your crush “niece” Lee Dam may be the last boss to avoid hearing, but he’s not the only one because of his strength My Roommate Is A Gumiho . The “Old Man” Shin Woo Yeo is approximately 1000 years old, but there are few pieces of love on the shoulder because of the “lack of potential” too strong. 
Calling someone a granddaughter… 
but when people call themselves uncle… 
I was so surprised that I didn’t understand where I was wrong. “Old man” Gumiho, after using a gentle and handsome face to tell his daughter that she is also very special to me, that we have become relatives, the last sentence fell off the chair: She is like so is my niece. Until he was angry with Lee Dam, “grandfather” was still bewildered and did not understand where he was wrong. What a waste of 1000 years of living in the mundane “Gumiho”! 
Tracheostomy for COVID-19 patients at the ICU bed. One thing I am sure of is that my female colleagues have shed tears at least once in the past 41 days. Because they are not the same person, they are also weak and weak. They have an average weight of less than 50kg, a height of less than 1.6m, but their strength is extraordinary and their love is intense. They love their job, love people, love all of this life. They fight with love for their profession, with their duties and responsibilities as doctors. They have overcome many hardships and challenges, although everyone faces the risk of infection and the work intensity is terrible. I love those girls, the golden girls in the COVID-19 village. Small but strong, weak but indomitable. The pandemic is so fierce, we are just a small corner in this pandemic. Do not dare to be pompous. But everything we experienced is very difficult to describe in words. Female friends can burst into tears. Who can bear to think of a baby crying all night because of thirst for milk, when a loved one has to be separated without a date to return, this tear cannot be swallowed. Who can be at ease when the whole family goes to fight the epidemic, leaving a sick and lonely mother in a 12m2 motel. And who can rest easy when both parents rush to the front line, leaving the child bewildered all night. We have chosen to sacrifice many things to contribute a part to the great cause. And male medics behave their way. They ran down to the yard, screaming like a man out of control. What is he shouting, you know? “50 patients! 50 patients! Fight to the end! Fight to the end!” (50 patients related to COVID-19 have died, by noon on June 15, the number of patients who died was 61). God, I felt my eyes go away, and I wanted to hug him and cry. That is the person who always volunteered to bury the ill COVID-19 patients, who had no loved ones by their side at the time of death. 
Please adhere to 5K and cherish precious vaccines Life is inherently impermanent, leaves fall to the roots. Those unfortunate people, they died without family, but we, the doctors, the nurses were always with them, holding their hands throughout the battle. With a mortality rate of less than 3%. If forced to choose to meet the amount of that 3%. I firmly believe those people, people who have reached an age that is rare, who have tasted all the bitterness of life, who have struggled with cancer. They will be willing to accept the departure. to leave the lushness of life to flourish. Giving life to a 25-week-old baby, giving up the happiness of a couple’s love to a 27-year-old boy, giving up the dedication to science of doctors, or simply giving up smiles to children… They know that we have put our heart and soul into pulling them out of the gate! They knew that we had spent the last 41 days up all night beside them, they knew that the doctor’s eyes were wilted from lack of sleep. Today is the 41st day, I don’t know how many long days and nights will be left, we have to fight the epidemic and win against COVID-19. No one is allowed to fall. We want people to adhere to the 5K, to appreciate the precious doses of vaccines. Get vaccinated if you can, and support the Vaccine Foundation if you can afford it. Let’s join hands to fight the pandemic and spread love. Me and my friends are proud to be soldiers in white at the heart of this storm… Nurse Nguyen Thi Thuong ( Chief Nurse, Intensive Care Unit, Central Hospital for Tropical Diseases )
In recent days, the poor family of Ho Van Cuong’s family and the image of a shabby house in the countryside, shared from the sister who sells bottles of adopted children, have flooded the newspapers. Next to her, what did Ho Van Cuong’s parents say? Yesterday, the press also directly interviewed Cuong’s father and mother. The story of Cuong’s family, I do not share anymore and they will have their own thoughts and decisions. What era is this when terrible lies can still exist like I imprisoned the whole Cuong family. Ho Van Cuong’s father’s job is to manage the work at a vegetarian restaurant owned by Phi Nhung, but he keeps being told that he works as a security guard and receives a monthly salary of 10 million. While Ho Van Cuong’s mother helped take care of the children and adopted Phi Nhung, including the grandson of Ho Van Cuong’s parents, the two sisters were told to stay and live. That day, I also wanted to pick up my sister Cuong to live with my parents and younger brother, but after 3 months she wanted to go back to her hometown to get married. How do you and your team think about publicizing Ho Van Cuong’s income and expenses during the past time to whitewash himself? We are considering the date of handing over all the money to Cuong and he will realize his dream of becoming independent. Maybe, that day will take place when Cuong finishes his exam. In fact, Cuong’s parents and manager have always exchanged and held numbers. She once shared that each management company has its own rules, so she doesn’t know much about salary, but her manager shared with the press that, between management, she and Ho Van Cuong are not important. The show’s election system is family relations. What do you explain about this? There is really a familial relationship between us, not calculating the details like the usual activities between a singer and an entertainment company. I say that each company has its own principle that every singer – the company has a satisfactory contract agreement that is acceptable to both parties. But Cuong and me or the company did not have that contract. We treat each other like children of the same family. However, what I dare to affirm, Cuong’s money I do not touch. On the day I give the money back to Cuong, I will give all the money I have. The entire cost of making music products that I have invested in so far, of course, I take care of my children. I adopted Cuong as my son with the promise of a good education and now I am close to fulfilling my promise. 
What do you think when there is an opinion that the singer does not know his salary, for the management to completely decide the revenue and expenditure is unreasonable? Everyone has an opinion, but I don’t want money to affect my feelings of making art. Of course, I don’t leave everything to others, but I certainly don’t meddle in accounting matters. I work professionally and the balance between my revenue and expenditure budget and the whole company is done by the accountant. Of course, when needed, everything is clearly documented. Over the years, how have you taught and invested in Ho Van Cuong? – Cuong has a desire to sing professionally after graduating from university and that’s what I’m very happy about because I know Cuong’s talent. I also want her to have a professional career, focus on her profession and take her profession seriously. That’s why, when I have free time, I take Cuong to sing to learn, get acquainted with the stage and from colleagues. I also invest in products for Cuong seriously to conquer the audience. What do you think about the public act of criticizing Ho Van Cuong and bringing his adopted child to public opinion a few months ago? It is a wrong act as an adult and a mother. The online world is not as simple as I thought it would be. After that, Cuong and I also talked and everything was cleared up. How do your biological and adopted children encourage you in the midst of this controversy? – “Don’t be sad, we understand you”, they can only say that, but they don’t know how to help you. But, I’m still sad. Everything is on me. I was wrong about asking the online community to teach my children when they are naughty. I simply thought, I hope the online community helps me tell Cuong not to be bad, not to be stubborn anymore. But I was wrong. Many people attacked Cuong and that made Cuong angry. On her fanpage, she still shares her positive energy when regularly exercising, mobilizing people to wear masks when going out and giving gifts in the middle of the epidemic season. Many fans expressed concern, thinking that she was trying to pretend that she was fine. In addition to the shared moments, how do you deal with negative emotions when the market surrounds you? What I share is real. If I have done nothing wrong then there is nothing to worry or fear. When I was so angry, like when I heard Cuong admit that the message to the fan was real, I was very angry. But at that time, I looked at the image of the Buddha of Concern to find peace of mind. I know that in order to solve external problems, you must first solve your own mind. That’s how I deal with negativity.
If you don’t believe it, then let me go to someone else so I can find my true happiness (illustration) So I went back and invited my girlfriend. She mentioned it a few times before, but she resolutely kept it, this time I took the initiative to ask again: – Loved each other for more than 1 year, brought back to meet my parents, but you still don’t believe me? If you don’t believe it, I’ll let you go to someone else so you can find your true happiness. “It’s not that I don’t believe you, it’s because I want to keep you.” You and I are not young anymore, we are both mature. Determined to come together, it’s okay to wait a little longer when we get married. – But my mother said that many people are very infertile now, the daughters-in-law of his mother’s friends all returned for several years without giving birth, so I am worried. Mom is telling you to get pregnant and get married. Actually, that’s when I thought of what my mother said, but my mother did not encourage me to do it. But unexpectedly, the lover really believed: – Did your mother really say that? – Yes, my mother said that I am old, but not in my twenties. Now that I’m pregnant, my mother will marry me. I didn’t expect her to be here, everyone, and agreed to go to the motel with me that night. But what made me so surprised and happy was that on the pure white sheet there were red blood stains, proving that my girlfriend was still a virgin. I happily texted my friend: – My girlfriend is still 100% zin, here is the proof. – Come on, Dad, it’s too early to be happy. Who knows, what if she patched? – What is it? – Maybe your girlfriend fake it. The 26-year-old girl is still zin I go to the ground. Don’t believe it, ask online and see… At this time, I also half believed and half doubted so I decided to post my status line on Facebook. “The 26-year-old daughter is still zin, which proves it’s fake, everyone.” I didn’t expect people to comment very loudly, each with an opinion. Some people say it’s true, some say it’s fake, some even tag my girlfriend’s name. At that time, when I read the comments, I was so excited that I didn’t expect that each of these stories would be dissected from many angles, and it was fun to tell. Then I fell asleep at random, my girlfriend slept before me. When I woke up, she was nowhere to be found, I went to the bathroom and she was not there. I discovered there was a 500k bill on the nightstand. This money is definitely left by the girlfriend because there are only 2 people in the room. 
“I paid you last night, don’t look for me anymore. I didn’t expect him to be like that.” (illustration) Or she went to buy breakfast, I took out my phone to call her when I saw the message she left: “ I paid you last night, don’t look for me anymore. I didn’t expect him to be like this.” . My phone is still flooded with notifications from Facebook, many people tag their names and ask my girlfriend directly: “You let him tell you that.” “That kind of thing is abandoned early”. Since then, she hasn’t appeared in front of me anymore. I asked friends who knew someone who said they didn’t know, who didn’t, but most of her close friends were disdainful towards me, as if I was the one to blame for her to leave. Until now, after 2 years, I still haven’t seen my ex. I am married, and my wife was not chaste when she came to me. Sometimes when I think back, I still feel that I was a bit too much with my ex, maybe if it happened today, I wouldn’t have asked on the internet like that. If she reads these lines, I hope you will forgive me… Wish you a peaceful and happy life forever.
“Flavor of friendship” episode 37: Being scolded by Nam, Hong had to ask for the dumpling he invited boss Long. Then Long also had the opportunity to “revenge” when he went to pick up his grandmother at a stone bench by the lake, where the girls, including Nam, Diep (Snow) and a maid named Sam (Minh Cuc) exercise. At that time, Nam was eating ice cream next to her, the guy talked to her with his mouth, but his hand covered Nam’s hand, holding it while she tried to pull it away (seems like this screen couldn’t pass the old woman’s eyes). When Nam left the practice room, Long followed her and said, close to her face: “I came to let you see it so you don’t miss it “, Long removed his glasses from his face, leaned close to Nam and asked: “Do you remember better?” The girl responded with a “waist” and a grimace of disapproval. Long said softly: “ Kiss for the hour” and then just leave. 
Long’s hand pressed tightly on Nam’s hand while talking to her. On the part of Mrs. Bich (Tu Oanh), because she felt that Master Long liked his adopted daughter, he treated her well, and also peeled grapefruit and invited Nam to eat. When she learned that Nam was no longer taking care of Dan at night, Mrs. Bich told her what to do: “The other side eats happily, wears a warm blanket, a comfortable mattress, and the car picks up the car.” Nam said “it’s not my home anyway”, she eagerly taught: “That’s why I have to make it my home. Humans have to know how to reach high and fly far away to have the will to advance. If mom had a chance like you, die with her.” Male roll his eyes: “You’re the one who knows what I’m thinking. Stop dreaming with illusions.” 
Bich advises her daughter to “saw” rich boys in “Flavor of intimacy” episode 37. “Oh my dear, the dream is so close. Mr. Long cares about you right? What’s the chance?” Bich tried to advise. Then when Nam refused and reminded his mother “Don’t let people despise you” , she angrily scolded the capital behind her back: “ Honorable, not blood related, but they are so similar, I don’t know”, referring to her late husband. But not long after that, she was as happy as Tet when Diep told him about Long coming to find Nam by the lake and what he said to Nam. Listen to Diep’s comments “Brother Long married his sister Nam” Bich was as happy as if she had caught gold, exclaiming with pride: This is the way out of poverty.” Also in The taste of friendship episode 37, Mr. Sinh (Vo Hoai Nam) escaped Nam’s test when they met. Deliberately wearing a cap and when Mr. Sinh asked about it, she rambled on and tried to put it on his head. Nam wanted to see if he looked like the mysterious benefactor he was looking for when wearing his hat. Under the pretext of head fungus, Mr. Sinh refused. Question “So you’ve never worn a hat like this.” perhaps enough to make him realize the girl’s intentions. 
The older sister urged Mr. Sinh to tell Nam his identity and accept the child, but he said he couldn’t do that. When he returned home that day, when his sister asked about adoption, Mr. Sinh said that due to his precarious and complicated situation, he could not do it. However, he will always be by your side and protect you. Movie The taste of friendship is broadcast on VTV1 at 9 pm every night from Monday to Friday.
Illustration. At first I didn’t see anything out of the ordinary. But recently, every time I pick up my child from my mother-in-law’s house, I see her crying out in pain. My hands have many bruises, scratches and scrapes. Thinking that I was being bullied by my classmates, I called the homeroom teacher and received the answer: “The children in class are very good. There is no fighting. I do not believe you can monitor the camera of the classroom. “. I also watch the camera. Indeed, my child never fought with his classmates. I told this story to my mother-in-law, hoping that she would pay more attention to her when she picked me up. However, my mother-in-law was sober, and pouted her lips: “Oh yeah, there are 3 bruises. Sometimes she messed with her classmates and caused it without remembering. But when I picked it up, I didn’t see anything. often”. The bruises and scratches on my child’s hands are increasing day by day. This scar has just faded, a new bruise appears… Then I decided to take an early leave from work one day to pick up my son. I want to find out where my child’s hand injuries come from. I did not tell my mother-in-law about this. I still let her pick her up normally. Partly because I was afraid of her thinking, the other part I wanted to investigate quietly. Then at 5 o’clock, the gate of the kindergarten began to have many parents come to pick up their children and grandchildren. I quickly realized that my mother-in-law was also lined up among them. My baby rushed out and politely greeted her. But still had to wait for her to pick up her brother. Look at the sweaty baby and feel sorry. It must be very hot, but I don’t know how to ask her to fan it. 3 granddaughters lazily returned. I go from afar to monitor. Only then did I realize the anomaly. Even though her brother-in-law’s son is a younger brother, he is older than my daughter in terms of age. That boy was aggressive and bullied her while walking. My son is already carrying his backpack, but still has to carry his own. That’s it, the other boy teased me while walking, punching, poking and biting again.. But most frustrating is the attitude of the grandmother. My mother-in-law doesn’t care, she still goes as usual. When my son got angry, cried and hit the other boy, my mother-in-law defended him. She pinched my child’s hand and shouted: “You have to give me up. Crying about something. Will you hurry up so I can cook rice?” When I saw that scene, I was shocked and indignant. I rode up in front of my mother-in-law and two young children. Seeing me, my daughter was overjoyed, quickly wiped her tears, repeatedly clapped her hands and shouted “mom, mom…”. I asked why the mother-in-law treated the children like that, and she argued without doing anything. It’s normal for children to fight. But when I raised the red spot on my son’s hand, she turned around and said, “I teach him but he doesn’t listen. Your son is very stubborn. If you don’t teach him, he’ll be bad. And his grandson later asks for help, But when the granddaughter grows up, she will get married…”. I eagerly picked up the child in the car, drove straight home and didn’t say a word to my mother-in-law. Because at that time, I was very angry. If we continue to argue, I am afraid that I will act badly. I brought this story to my husband. He was also very angry, saying that every child is a grandchild, why is his mother so biased. But then he advised me to ignore this, because after all, she is the grandmother of the children and my mother-in-law, we still have to ask a lot. I was angry at my mother-in-law, and my anger spread to my husband. Your mother is so clearly wrong, but you can still say it!
Most of us often mistake “friends” for friends and set our expectations too high in that relationship. On the contrary, we also meet new people and see them as soulmates, ready to open up to them about everything in life. However, if that’s really the case, that’s great, but most of us often mistake “friends” for friends and set too high expectations in that relationship, but forget to observe their desire to be friends really, or just socializing. Identify who you want to build true friendships with 
Friends may be different in personality and opinion, but there must be similarity in thinking and ability. Not everyone is suitable for building a genuine, high-quality friendship. Different people will vibrate at different levels of consciousness and that will help you filter out who you can connect with. For example: A person with low self-esteem would not be suitable to be friends with an overconfident or ostentatious person; A courageous, experimental person would not be suitable to play too closely with someone who only speaks loudly but dares not to act. Because this will cause a situation where one person restrains/depends on the other, or one person is influenced/disadvantaged by the other. It’s almost a parasite-host, not a true friendship. Friends can be different in personality and opinion, but there must be similarity in thinking and ability (maybe in 2 different aspects, but cannot be too big of a difference). More importantly, the two words match. What true friendships have in common 
Sticky bonded friendships often have things in common. Analyzing the admirably attached types of friendship, we can see the common points: – They are always there for each other in difficult times or down times in life and help lift spirits. – They have never evaluated and criticized each other for the mistakes of the opponent, They are also not negative with the mistakes, the moves that go into the ground of their friends. – More successful people always support and encourage their friends in all aspects of life. The less successful people, instead of envious and secretly pulling each other down, they admire and appreciate the support of their best friend. – Their friendship usually evolves from a common environment, such as school, workplace, business project, etc.. There they started with win-win and mutual support, so When friendship sprouts it will grow into a very sturdy old tree. Be a best friend before looking for best friends 
Before I expect to find a good friend, I have to become a good friend myself! Before I expect to find a good friend, I have to become a good friend myself. We must learn to listen and share, build trust with friends by supporting and helping them when they need it. Support your friend’s positive decisions as well as encourage them to practice good habits, experience interesting, interesting things… We also need to learn to put the needs of others before our own. myself. And care about what others are going through in their lives. Things that make a friendship stronger and stronger 
Without the following, the friendship will break at any time. The starting point for true, true friendships is unconditional kindness, non-judgment, support, and mutual respect. In particular, it must be coming from 2 sides. Without these things, the friendship will “break” at any time. 
Seo Hee Soo became a front for her husband and mistress to interact with each other. Photo: tvN. Han Ji Yong got lost in the Hyowon clan in an unexpected way, he did not have the bloodline of this famous family. Ji Yong herself also had a child with another woman before marrying Hee Soo. To serve the education of Ha Jun (Jung Hyun Joon), Ji Yong’s stepson, the Hyowon family hired Kang Ja Kyung (Ok Ja Yeon) to be the boy’s personal tutor. The tutor often acts in excess, beyond her rights and responsibilities. Ja Kyung also has an affair with Ji Yong. When Hee Soo suggested firing the tutor, Ji Yong expressed disapproval because Ja Kyung is actually Ha Jun’s biological mother. The love scene was revealed to reveal the greedy nature of the young master Ji Yong. Even though he took Hee Soo as his wife, he still blatantly brought his old love back to live in the same house for convenience. Hee Soo is embarrassed to realize that she has been used as a screen for a long time for her husband and mistress to cover the eyes of the world. Not only failed as a husband, Ji Yong was also an irresponsible father. When stepmother Hee Soo and biological mother Ja Kyeong took each other to court to win custody of baby Ha Jun. Despite being the father, Ji Yong did not intervene to save the situation. He just kept silent “judging the mountain and fighting the tiger”. In the latest developments of Mine , the man’s nature was fully revealed. Ji Yong on the main road sat in the chair of the corporation’s chairman, not caring about the broken marriage or the fate of his son after the court’s ruling. Evil, intrigue and pervert are adjectives that most accurately describe the nature of Ji Yong’s character. Shim Su Ryeon and Ju Dan Tae Penthouse is a TV series about the super rich that has been storming the Korean small screen for the past year. Up to now, the film has entered the third season and shows signs of returning to the basic conflict – the confrontation between husband and wife Shim Su Ryeon (Lee Ji Ah) and Ju Dan Tae (Uhm Ki Joon). 
Ju Dan Tae single-handedly manipulates his family members as well as the residents of Hera. Photo: SBS. Ju Dan Tae plays the role of a one-armed villain. He is a true dictator both in business and in family life. In the past, out of jealousy, Ju Dan Tae hired someone to kill Shim Su Ryeon’s husband, separating her and her first daughter to replace the missing head of the family. After having Shim Su Ryeon, Dan Tae quickly fell in love with his neighbor Cheon Seo Jin, an opera singer and teacher at a prestigious art school. This time, Dan Tae has found a worthy partner when Seo Jin is also someone who does not use tricks to achieve his goal. Ju Dan Tae is ready to use the most despicable ways to destroy opponents in the marketplace. In the apartment located on the 100th floor of the Hera high-class apartment building, Dan Tae appears to be a brute, ready to beat his wife and children if they do not want to. At the end of season one, when he discovered Su Ryeon’s plot against him, Dan Tae did not hesitate to kill her. Living a hellish marriage with Ju Dan Tae, Shim Su Ryeon lost the man she loved, twice lost her child, lost her close sister and, finally, lost her life. Of course, as season 2 revealed, a last-minute change saved the woman’s life. But Su Ryeon’s miraculous survival only pushed her life to new limits – all caused by her ex-husband Ju Dan Tae. Ji Sun Woo and Lee Tae Oh The World of the Married is the work that achieved the rating record of the Korean screen in the first half of 2020. The film revolves around the dark corners of infidelity, betrayal, hatred, and payment in the marriage between talented doctor Ji Sun Woo (Kim Hee). Ae) and her husband is film director Lee Tae Oh (Park Hae Joon). 
The marriage between Ji Sun Woo and Lee Tae Oh was purely enmity. Photo: Jtbc. Outsiders looking in will only see Sun Woo and Tae Oh as a model family. They are educated, successful, rich and have never raised their voices to each other. However, the guise of a devoted husband and exemplary father that Tae Oh wears is only to hide his morally corrupt nature. On the one hand, Tae Oh respects his wife, but on the other hand, he wants to deny her influence on his life and career. For years, Tae Oh has been secretly having an affair. Until things broke out, he had no regrets but also used love to justify wrongdoing. In the world of a greedy man, Tae Oh has the right to love two women at the same time. Not only making the audience angry because of his distorted view of love, but Tae Oh is also an on-screen nightmare because of his jealous nature and brute force. Right from episode 2, the sick husband beat Sun Woo brutally. Throughout the series, the violent acts aimed at Tae Oh’s ex-wife are repeated many times. The image of Lee Tae Oh’s husband on the screen became even more pathetic when he returned to Sun Woo, feeling reassured when he was having an affair with his ex-wife. Thought that the marriage with the lover had satisfied Tae Oh’s love fantasy, but it turned out that what the man loved so much before was just himself. Lee Tae Oh’s greed and selfishness eventually pushed the lives of two women and his children into a spiral of pain and hatred.
Illustration You are from a poor background According to historical records, Truong Le Hoa came from a military family in Yangzhou, Jiangnan. However, in the life of her parents, the family fell into poverty and poverty, Le Hoa’s father and brother had to go to knit mats to earn a living. At the age of 10, Truong Le Hoa, thanks to her beautiful face, was recruited to the palace as a maidservant, serving Prince Tran Thuc Bao. In fact, the world has been in turmoil for a long time, the palace maids who are recruited to serve the royal family will not be bound by too many regulations, and their status is not limited, even a farmer’s son can enter the palace to work. job. Therefore, Truong Le Hoa seized this opportunity. Not long into the palace, with her heavenly beauty, Truong Le Hoa was noticed by Crown Prince Tran Thuc Bao and became happy. Because of constant love, Truong Le Hoa quickly became pregnant and gave birth to a fourth son for the Crown Prince, named Tran Tham. Right after that, Le Hoa gave birth to the 8th child for Tran Thuc Bao, Tran Trang. When Tran Thuc Bao succeeded and became the emperor of the country, Tran Truong Le Hoa was given the title of noble concubine, with great power, even surpassing the empress. When Tran Thuc Bao was injured, he did not even meet the queen, leaving only the noble concubine Truong Le Hoa to serve, enough to see how much this beauty was loved. Not stopping there, Tran Thuc Bao was so delusional that he even brought Truong Le Hoa to the royal court. Originally, it was stipulated that the concubine was absolutely not allowed to participate in the main court, if she violated the law, she would not be spared. However, at that time, the world was in turmoil, and the rules were no longer strict. Consort entered the court with the emperor hoàng Truong Le Hoa not only leisurely entered the court, but when she entered the court, she did not stand beside the emperor like other great ministers. This beauty sat on the emperor’s lap, sometimes the two even cuddled each other, making it difficult for the courtiers to endure. The worst part was, because she often had to go to court to listen to political stories, gradually Truong Le Hoa began to get involved in court affairs. She relied on Tran Thuc Bao’s favor, openly supported a group of trusted mandarins, and eliminated those who were against her will. After that, Le Hoa also invited the sorcerer to enter the royal palace to set up an altar to sacrifice, to display enough for superstitions to fascinate the emperor, and to be believed by the emperor. Since then, she has been swayed by the nobles, blatantly criticizing, arbitrarily conferring titles, accepting bribes, drawing factions. Just like that, the court was no longer disciplined, and soon it was disordered. When the Sui led troops to attack the Southern Dynasty, Tan Vuong Duong Quang surrounded the palace. Tran Thuc Bao couldn’t run in time, he only had to lead Truong Le Hoa to hide under a dry well in Ngu Uyen. But in the end, both were still found and captured by the Sui army. According to historical records, when he saw Truong Le Hoa, Duong Quang was also captivated by her unparalleled beauty, intending to take her home as his concubine. However, Chief historian Cao Quynh saw this and quickly intervened, saying that Truong Le Hoa was no different from Dat Ky, a demon who fascinates the king, holding back will face disaster. Hearing that, Duong Quang, although deeply mourning for the beautiful woman, was still more important to the national affairs, so the wrong person killed Truong Le Hoa. It can be said that, because it is so beautiful, Truong Le Hoa from the most favored place finally has a taste of jade. This is a predetermined outcome. However, in retrospect, historians admit that, even if Truong Le Hoa did not participate in the main court, Tran Thuc Bao would still lose the battle, Nam Tran would still perish. In fact, Nam Tran was originally a small country, economically and militarily unable to compete with the Sui dynasty. Only about the war. Emperor Van De went to fight a battle and sent out 50,000 troops, while the whole of Nam Tran, the demographics of all, young and old, were only 200,000, so what can we do to fight back? Consort Quy was originally a maid, even though she had no children, she was still favored by the Qianlong King Despite her small background, Cao Thi has outstanding appearance and gentle personality. She was selected by Emperor Yongzheng to serve in the palace to serve Bao Than Vuong Hoang Lich, also the later Qian Long Emperor. Not long after, she continued to be promoted by Ung Chinh Emperor to Trac Phuc, the position only after Di Phuc promoted to Phu Sat Thi. After Emperor Ung Chinh died, Bao Than Vuong Hoang Lich succeeded him. At this time, although she still had not given birth to any children for him, Cao Thi was still made a concubine, only under Queen Phu Sat. Even after that, the entire Bao yao clan with the Cao family name was raised and merged into the Manchurian Tuong Hoang Ky, the identity of the Bao robe was completely washed, helping to increase the position and status of Consort Cao Quy in the harem. more than ever. Since being married to Emperor Qianlong, Consort Cao Quy has always received favors, which makes Empress Phu Sat very jealous. Whenever she was sick, the Emperor was always very worried and gave her the best herbs. During a time when Consort Cao Quy fell seriously ill, Emperor Qianlong was very heartbroken. In order to make her happy, Emperor Qianlong issued an edict to elevate her to the rank of Imperial concubine, which was also the first time in his harem to have this concubine status. Unfortunately, Hoang Quy consort Cao Thi could not survive and died at the age of 34. Emperor Qian Long mourned, often wrote poems for her and called her “Tue Hien Hoang Quy consort”. Besides Hieu Hien Thuan Empress, Tue Hien Hoang Quy is the only concubine that makes Emperor Qianlong over the years still keep writing such memorial poems. After Du Lang was completed, Imperial Consort Tue Hien Hoang was transferred to be buried here, next to Queen Hieu Hien Thuan and Queen Triet Man Hoang. She is also one of the rare 5 concubines who were buried with the Qianlong Emperor in Du Lang’s palace. And yet, later, when Emperor Gia Khanh ascended the throne, changed the family name “Cao Thi” of the royal concubine Tue Hien Hoang to “Cao Giai Thi”, classified as one of the Manchu nobles.
The character of Mrs. Bich in ‘Flavor of Friendship’. In order to attract the audience’s attention, the mother characters are typified, even extreme, somewhat foreign to the Vietnamese. First of all, the character of Mrs. Bich in The taste of friendship . Right from the first episodes, I was stunned to see this character constantly beat little Nam, shouting and swearing, sometimes just because of the dumpling. Ms. Bich discriminated between her biological and adopted children very clearly, even intending to abandon little Nam in the middle of the market. Granted, Mrs. Bich is an adoptive mother, different from her heart, so it is difficult to treat Nam like her own child, but living with her since she was a child, perhaps there is no love that treats each other like enemies. Later, when she thought that Nam stood to pay her debt, Mrs. Bich somewhat changed her attitude, but in her mind, she always calculated the loss for her adopted child, even intending to calculate how many years to raise her if she met her biological father again. . This character emerges as a formidable, calculating and unselfish mother. Perhaps the writer succeeded in building such an extreme mother character, but I found that Bich was pushed to the extreme, unrealistic and difficult to accept. 
The character of Mrs. Sa in ‘Flavor of Friendship’. Also in Flavors of Friendship, I dread another mother, Mrs. Sa – Khanh Thy’s mother. Mrs. Sa also appeared as a cold-blooded, pragmatic mother who tried everything to get her daughter to marry one of her best friend’s two sons, in order to enter a rich family. Despite her daughter’s discomfort, Mrs. Sa constantly pressured, even insulted and slapped her daughter for not listening to her in the campaign to lure men. In recent episodes, when she learned that the eldest son had a new relationship, she was a rich family, and Mrs. Sa urged her daughter to pursue her second son, as long as she did not miss the opportunity to enter the noble house. Every mother wants her child to get a good, rich husband, but the character of Mrs. Sa is pushed too much, unrealistically to attract the attention of viewers. Sometimes I wonder if they are real mother and daughter because the way they treat each other is so bad. The character of the mother becomes scary, making viewers shudder. However, the title of the scariest mother on the screen right now must be for Mrs. Hoai in Let’s say love. Maybe I have to use the word “sick” for this character because of his excessive actions, unreasonable control of husband and children, and misplaced love. Granted, Mrs. Hoai had a reason to hire someone to harm her husband’s girlfriend to miscarry, all the madness was just because her husband was out promiscuous, but it’s difficult to explain the unacceptable actions of this mother character with her husband. children. 
The character of Mrs. Hoai in ‘Let’s say love’. The culmination was when my daughter was tricked by a married man, Hoai tried to publish the man’s photo online to avenge her daughter. However, the way to “bleach” her daughter after the clip of My being jealous was posted online, it subsided, making the girl even more embarrassed, her family story was once again dug up and commented on by netizens. While her daughter was sad because of the painful first trick in her life, instead of comforting her to help My overcome the shock, Mrs. Hoai chose to bully and intimidate her, making My feel like she was cornered. The imposition on her husband and children is also reflected in how Hoai, because of her high expectations for her second son, forced the boy to do everything he wanted, even to enter the school of his choice. Throughout the many episodes that have aired, this mother character makes me frustrated because of her patriarchy, almost never showing normal care to a wife’s family members. normal mother. Watching the mother characters on Vietnamese TV series currently, I only see a dark, pessimistic and ominous color. Readers Thu Huong (Hanoi) If you have any comments, please send them to us at: banvanhoa@vietnamnet.vn. Your opinion may not coincide with the opinion of the article posted on VietNamNet.
Many people start dating again after getting the Covid-19 vaccine. Photo: Unsplash. Thanks to the vaccine, dating is becoming popular again, although it will be very different from the past. For some people, the SARS-CoV-2 virus has brought a nightmare that is difficult to shake off in a short time. Many other singles say that the long period of isolation has made them realize many things and change their priorities. “I got the vaccine!” For vaccinated singles, the need to mate is stronger than ever. From January 2021, matchmaking company Three Day Rule began to see a boom in business. “We’ve never been this crowded,” said Talia Goldstein, the company’s founder and president. On social networking sites and dating apps, people mention being vaccinated as an attractive trait. In April 2021, dating site OkCupid reported that the phrase “vaccinated” in user profiles skyrocketed 680% compared to two months ago. 
Being vaccinated is a big plus in the Covid-19 dating scene. Photo: AZ Big Media. Guidance from the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC) states that fully vaccinated people can congregate indoors without wearing masks. However, the risk has not been clearly determined for both couples who have and have not been vaccinated, said epidemiologist Chris Beyrer at John Hopkins University (USA). “The risk of infection is almost no longer with those who have been vaccinated. If they are infected, they also have very little ability to spread the virus,” Dr. Beyrer said. For unvaccinated people, if you are a healthy young adult, living alone and dating someone who has been vaccinated, the risk is relatively low. But for those who have underlying medical conditions, are over 65 years old or live with someone over 65, they should follow safety instructions such as wearing a mask and social distancing. Anxiety and loss Vaccines have reduced the likelihood of infection, but not necessarily alleviating the fear in American society over the past year. Ilana Diamant, a filmmaker living in Brooklyn (USA), returned to her single life in January 2021 and recently had her second vaccination. “Even after getting vaccinated, I no longer feel the urge to go out. Seeing the crowds gives me goosebumps,” she said. Diamant (25 years old) feels shy when dating people who despise the epidemic. For her, that means not taking human life seriously. However, she wondered how to mention social responsibility at a party without being seen as boring. 
Vibrant parties are back with singles eager to connect. Photo: SCMP. While there are singles looking for a deep and lasting connection, many just want to have fun without being tied down. Terron Moore (32 years old) just ended a relationship in March 2021. He doesn’t want to be in a serious relationship yet, but just wants to stand on the dance floor with other gay men or kiss a stranger. Moore believes that creating a deep connection means sharing the “Covid-19 burden”. “I just went through a big change in my worldview and who I am,” says Moore. During a period of reflection on his life, he didn’t want to meet someone new and hear their story of fighting the epidemic. Despite seeing herself as a self-centered and self-indulgent person, Moore has learned to prioritize her own health and life first during the pandemic. He still maintains this way of thinking to this day. Honest and open heart Jenny Taitz, a clinical psychologist in Los Angeles (USA), believes that assertiveness and self-understanding is a positive change after the pandemic. “After a year of life interruption, many people are becoming more aware of what is important to them and what they can endure,” she said. In a report on the future of dating, Tinder said its users are being more honest and clear about their personal boundaries. That means people will be more authentic in post-pandemic dating. 
People become authentic and seek deeper values after the pandemic. Photo: The Lily. Many of Three Day Rule’s clients are less shallow, Ms. Goldstein said. In the past, many people’s standards were usually about height or weight. Now they prioritize inner qualities like a sense of humor or a forward-thinking spirit. Moreover, with the flexibility of remote working, dating is no longer limited by geography as it used to be. “We are connecting people who are willing to catch a flight to meet in real life,” she said. Even though face-to-face interactions are becoming safer, online dating is still popular. Tinder says 40% of Gen Z users (born 1996-2010) will continue to video chat even when businesses reopen. Despite the hesitation, most people are excited about the fresh start after the pandemic. “The general mood has shifted from health anxiety to curiosity and now to hope,” says psychologist Taiz. “The dating scene this spring and summer will be great. The positive changes from last year will continue once everyone is vaccinated,” Ms. Goldstein said excitedly.
The female student chose the job of selling trolley coffee to work part-time, even though it was a genuine job, she was ridiculed by her friends. Illustration Next, the female student recounted that, due to the impact of the Covid-19 epidemic, the economic situation of her parents in the countryside was severely reduced, so the female student found herself a part-time job after school to earn more money. tuition fees for living expenses. The job that the female student chooses is selling trolley coffee, a job that receives a salary that makes her happy, more importantly, that she has just made money without affecting her studies. The story would not be worth mentioning if the female student did not have to listen to the sarcasm and teasing of her classmates about the job the female student is doing. The text of the story is shared as follows: “This year, the epidemic has returned, so my parents are in the countryside, doing live music rental business, but during the epidemic season, no one can organize events or get married to have an income. Just under control, our family receives After a few parties, when the festival came, the epidemic broke out again. If I could not pay the investment debt to buy equipment, I would lose my income because of the epidemic, so my education would also be affected. I see that, so I also want to go to work to help my parents in the countryside. But I still have a busy schedule, so full time is impossible. So I’m looking for part-time jobs. That’s it, I read and found a job that was selling trolley coffee. The work is not very hard, just push the small coffee cart to the corner of the street to sell. With an initial salary of 28k / hour, but one day I sold a lot, so the owner supported me to increase it to 40k / hour. I worked for a few weeks and felt that I could both ensure my schedule and take advantage of my free time to earn extra income, so I’m quite satisfied. And the story should have stopped here, but when I was assigned to sell near my school in Binh Thanh and my guests that day were students in the same course as me. And especially before, I once refused the love of a male friend in that group and until now I still think it was the right decision because even though he is really rich, he is like a beloved son with a series of “favorites”. ” about his feelings on his school’s Confession. Yesterday, it was sunny, but I was still recognized by them. They mocked “I knew you in the past, but now I don’t have to do this hard wholesale” and many sayings sound like nothing, but really, in my situation, I can understand what it’s like to be hinted at. Only “studying in college but going to the street to sell coffee, accepting friends N. is time to go out” is very annoying. Honestly, at that time, I was also a little sorry because I did not have the same conditions as them. But it wouldn’t be sad if today I didn’t hear my friends talking about them going around the school saying “business administration” but selling coffee, mocking me for studying “business administration” at a school. fame without finding a suitable job to do but selling coffee for a walk…. Then my friends also asked if I needed any help… Then when I go to class, everyone keeps teasing me, why don’t you sell coffee anymore, tomorrow get me a few dozen cups and I’ll invite the whole class to drink. … Hey everyone, the ministry of manual labor is not worthy of respect, is it that I go to college to gain knowledge, universities train quality labor, not always training directors and chiefs? where is the room. I do it with my own strength, I wake up at 5 am to prepare, at 5:30 am I have to be at the shop. I do it with my own strength, not cheating or stealing from anyone. Every industry is a profession, it is also a labor. Why do they have a mocking attitude towards people, part-time students like me?”. Immediately after this story appeared on social networks, it immediately received a lot of attention from fans, especially students. A series of comments were made, most of which advised female students to stay confident in what they are doing, to be proud of themselves when they can earn genuine money to support themselves. help parents. “Why do you care so much? I just do what I like, I have to be myself. I don’t care what other people say, as long as it doesn’t break the law it’s fine.” “In the past, when I went to school, I sold burgers, cleaned the toilet, cleaned the office, still delicious. Only someone who has never worked for a living behaves like that, but what makes money without committing crimes? All laws are the same.” “There is nothing funny about doing business with your own labor, thanks to a few small businesses, you have learned a lot of experience, the important thing is that not everyone dares to work hard and show their face to sell like that. !”. “Students in any profession need to be respected and put in the effort to be shameless. Those who are successful, they have also done manual and hard work to get the results they are today. what the gossip in and out of”. Indeed, any profession is worthy of respect, any genuine work is suitable for us to be passionate about. Earning money is not easy, for this reason, when you earn it yourself, you can see how precious it is. For those young people who are fortunate to have a better life, better family conditions, please refrain from criticizing and mocking other friends. Because you can’t know that those words, whether unintentionally or intentionally, will not make you more noble and noble; not to mention will severely hurt those “innocent” friends.
At first, his orchid garden only had a few baskets, with a value from a few hundred thousand to several million. Each orchid is carefully selected and cared for by him. Because he does not have much experience in caring for orchids, Mr. Hai chooses easy-to-raise and easy-to-grow sausages to accumulate more experience. In the process, he also encountered many difficulties, having orchid rolls because he did not know how to care but was waterlogged, the tree has not grown yet. The family also advised him to leave, because orchids are difficult to raise, with high prices, to maintain his passion is not easy. However, his love for this flower has helped Duy Trong Hai overcome difficulties, he looks to people who have experience in the profession to learn, interact with his brothers in the flower love association and gradually find a way to raise orchids. healthy. The joy of successfully cultivating an orchid manually made Duy Trong Hai forget her previous hardships and more determined to pursue her passion. 
Up to the modern time, the orchid garden of Duy Trong Hai owner has collected many different strains of orchids such as: Orchids, 5 CT SH, 5 CT HD, 5 CT Thao Nguyen, Anonymous Beauty, Hong Phu Hoa, Hong Runner …. Each spring roll has its own beauty. There are pure sausages with flowers and brood leaves, others blooming in brilliantly beautiful bunches. Hundreds of colorful racing flowers adorn the garden of the young boss. Mr. Duy Trong Hai specially dedicated a large garden to grow orchids, the distance between the rolls is also carefully calculated by him so that the orchid grows well, not crowded or lack of light. When a guest comes to visit Mr. Hai’s house, he will wholeheartedly introduce clues to buy beautiful orchids and how to choose like orchid rolls. These are the experiences that he gathered after years of playing orchids and growing orchids. He advised orchid players not to buy trees with thin, short, broken roots. Most orchids in your garden have a healthy root system, this is the first factor to help orchids grow and live well. 
Sharing more about the meaning of each orchid in the garden, Mr. Duy Trong Hai happily said “There are rolls, I have to go to the forest, it takes a few days to bring back. But when I arrived, I found the orchid so beautiful, I was fascinated by the look, so I did not feel tired. When there are friends to “hunt” beautiful orchids, he offered to go along. Just one person confided in his passion and found a satisfactory orchid “. For Duy Trong Hai, he is always lucky because his relatives and family understand and support him to pursue the joy of growing orchids. At first, seeing that he spent a lot of money in pursuit of fun, his family was a bit afraid, but gradually found this joy more rewarding and made him happier, loving and caring for his family, so the whole family. no more objections. 
Mr. Hai confided, “Playing orchids is not just a hobby but also helps me to change myself.” When planting orchids, he learned to be patient, to care and to listen. When he talked to people with similar interests, he learned to inspire and become more sociable. Many people believe that playing orchids is burning money, not realistic, but when you have real love, you can feel the joy and values that orchids bring. He believes that everyone has their own joy, just boldly pursue your passion, not too interested in social prejudices.
Nguyet Hang – Anh Tuan Actress Nguyet Hang said that being an actress has one advantage for her to apply in her family life, which is to grasp the psychology to deal with her husband. Mr. Tuan is a hot-tempered person, she knows how to stop, so the family life has been through many storms. “Every time my husband and wife are stressed, I stop because I can’t argue or talk anymore. Mr. Tuan is hot-tempered, even a little dry. I have not heard any sweet words from my husband, nor bought gifts. For the mother and daughter on the holidays But he brings other happiness that I find much more valuable. It is a gesture of taking care of me every day when I’m tired, understanding my wife and children and living responsibly with family, “Nguyet Hang said. The most difficult time with her husband and wife was when she was newly married and had children. The couple’s salary at the theater was too low, Anh Tuan left the stage to go out to do business. The actor’s time was also the time when the couple’s life fell into crisis when Nguyet Hang heard many rumors about her husband having someone else. She flew in to meet her husband to find out the truth and then decided to write a divorce petition. Now remembering that “event”, Nguyet Hang could not help but laugh: “According to the court’s appointment, we came to settle, but somehow closed that day. The two of them finished making pho. So we can’t quit each other. 
Nguyet Hang still remains young She said, in fact, the story of “fluttering” in a man is very difficult to avoid. Anh Tuan himself is also an artist, so I sympathize. Only it must be at what level, if we no longer respect our wife and children, our family should not keep it. And that was just a “miss step”. I could only hold back when I turned my head. Anh Tuan himself is a transit person separated from the age of 6, so he is very afraid of divorce and needs family affection. I also know that I used to be busy playing, and I also had many shortcomings, but because of the children, we tried to get along. Until now, after many waves, we still go together is an “achievement” already. Because in an artistic environment, there is not much that can go so long. As for the future, no one can tell, but we determine the happiness that day or that day, what we can ignore, sympathy for each other should be ignored. So up to now, our married life is being stabilized temporarily. Economic difficulties are also a big challenge affecting the life of actor Nguyet Hang – Anh Tuan. Once in a difficult time, Anh Tuan thought about riding a motorbike taxi to have money to take care of his family. “I asked him if he was afraid when he was an actor well known to the audience, if anyone recognized it, would he be afraid? He shook his head to say he would cover his mask. I took off the mask again to take me on stage. That sincerity I cannot forget now, “remembers Nguyet Hang. 
Full happiness of actor Nguyet Hang – Anh Tuan Every time Anh Tuan had a business at a loss, Nguyet Hang had to worry about it all. From renting a house to supporting families, children studying… She said, sometimes the car does not have enough money to repair it. It took us 15 very hard years, fortunately I have grandparents to support and take care of my children to work as a profession. And Anh Tuan, after many times of opening a restaurant with losses, has been successful in recent years. Although we are not rich, our lives are now more stable, not too hard anymore. In 2018, when her first daughter studied abroad in Germany (then got married and settled there), she gave birth to a baby girl. Being a mother at the age of 45, Nguyet Hang confided that she did not face much difficulty because of her grandparents’ support. Adding a member, her family is also happier because “Anh Tuan likes to have many children. He is an only son, but does not place a heavy emphasis on having a son and a daughter. It is simply like having many children”, Nguyet Hang said. share with joy radiant in the eyes.
Illustration. Her ex is a student friend. They are not really a true couple, just better than usual friends. They are not living in the same dorm, but are staying at their parents’ house, and he is still in the dorm. So the two only met when they were in school, on the lecture hall. He is a smart guy, a bit lazy to learn but learn very quickly. The brother is tall, his voice is warm. She is both smart and diligent in studying. At that time everyone commented, she was a person with an underground charm, especially big eyes, deep eyes. They often talk to each other when they have an interesting professional issue. He often said to her: “You study well, well. I usually get high scores in exams. I will still go far on the path of study and research ”. He added that he studied arbitrarily so it would be difficult to go far … The day he graduated from school, he and I met each other, even though he passed the grade as the valedictorian, he still said that he did not appreciate himself. I hope you, if you are chosen by the school, stay at the school to be a university lecturer …
Illustration: Dinh Huong Hue told Lich: “When I have a little capital, I will open a company, I will not work as hired labor, so I will see you every day.” Love is like that, people who always need to meet people every day like waking up every morning to see the sun throw brilliant golden rays of sunlight on the ground. But Hue’s work often takes long trips. When she arrived at home without Lich, Hue stuck multicolored sheets of paper on the door of his house. These words are like replacing Hue rabbits with Lich: “God, I have to go to work again today. So I can’t have lunch with you this Saturday. Kiss you”. “You’re spoiled. The other day I told you to go wherever you go, bring a raincoat to keep in the trunk of the car, but you don’t obey. Rain, when you are sick, whoever goes out to go to the market with me. I bought you a raincoat, I kept it in a place where … only the two of us know “. “In a place where only the two of us know” was an empty slot of the house’s two walls, covered with an old, green moss-colored concrete block. “Brother, I miss you so much today.” Sometimes the words on the paper are just that. But is it not necessary to write long enough to spread all your thoughts with your loved one? Sometimes just one word implies a heart leaning toward one heart. Or sometimes, on the other piece of paper just a mere word: “Angry”. The word angry is sometimes very pitiful because he has to endure the monsoons blowing on the street, when Lich has not read, the paper on the door has to turn up and down like hangover be removed, put into the anniversary box. *** Love each other for a month and 12 days, then they get married. All love after walking through the streets of the city, visiting all the sidewalk eateries, even sitting tired in cafes large and small – often end with two people together. about living in the same roof. Calendar laughed with Hue: “Let’s save some money together”. Hue laughed: “That means someone cleaning the house, cleaning the house, rubbing the cigarette butts you smoke, washing the clothes for you to wear, putting the curtains for you to sleep … right?” Calendar shakes his head: “I don’t mean that. I mean when I invite you to breakfast, I have you by my side. No need to call to ask if I have free time? ” Hue pouted: “Get married to have someone go to breakfast and coffee, but do you love me?”. Without answering his wife’s words, Lich just whispered: “Probably no one has stuck the red and green papers in front of my door from now on” … Then Hue opened a real company. Many things learned from the old company, when being assigned to the position of assistant director, helped Hue to have many business partners. Hue is an experienced person in communication, capturing the thoughts of guests. On the day of the company’s opening ceremony Hue, flowers congratulate a lot. In the afternoon of his wife, Lich also sent his wife a huge flower basket with 100 roses. Calendar said: “I should only send 99 roses as in some piece of music. But now you and I are husband and wife, so you have to even count ”. Hue put on her lips with a gloss of lip gloss, sprinkled some pretty glitter, kissed her husband’s cheek: “Thank you. Thank you, General Manager ”. The calendar looked in the mirror, saw that his wife’s lipstick was on her cheeks, and was also happy: “Come on, make me the general manager so that tomorrow I will make you surrender, right?” Hue laughed loudly: “That’s right”. *** The multicolored sheets of paper with a corner of a flower no longer appeared on the door, now hastily written words on the letter pad left at the table in the living room. Hue’s work increasingly attracted Hue away from her role as a wife. In the past, when two people fell in love, Lich once said: “I really crave family meals. Just sitting with you to eat, even if you just eat water spinach dipped in fish sauce, I will feel delicious ”. Hue laughed very happily: “What can I do to let me eat water spinach dipped in fish sauce? I will let you eat stir-fried morning glory with garlic and chili sauce “. The days when two people meet each other are rare, meals together are rarer. Every time I go home in the afternoon, Lich often sees the words Hue written. “Bro, I have stocked meat, I also keep raw vegetables in the fridge. You can just eat rice by yourself. Today I have to receive guests. Have a good meal.” “Today is Grandpa’s death, isn’t it. I kept the money in the envelope. You brought it over to your house, saying I’m sorry for so much work.” “I have to go on an unexpected business trip for a few days. Don’t be sad, honey “. Sometimes, if he wanted to say something to his wife, Lich also had to write quickly on a piece of paper: “Are you not afraid that you forgot me, your wife? You stay at home alone, eating alone like a man. he is single, boring “. “What, I call you for an hour. You keep writing on the desk like in the old days?”. “Next week, my agency organized to go to Da Lat. Try to arrange it. It has been a long time since we went out together.” Then very when angry, he wrote in large letters: “I LOOK SO MUCH. I LIKES YOU”. Hue answered her husband with the words: “I also miss you very much. Lately I’m a little busy, I sympathize with you”. Just like that, the handwritten papers of Hue and Lich have become thicker than ever without Hue’s knowledge. Until one afternoon, after a week of market research. Hue came home. Hue plans to spend a week with Lich, the couple will have an outing such as Ha Long Bay. Hue figured how happy Lich would be. He would embrace Hue and shout: “Yes, it has been a long time since I went out”. But the door to the house is closed even after work is over. Hue was surprised and did not understand that Lich was going to hang out at the inn with friends? Because Calendar almost does not have that habit. Suddenly Hue was startled when she entered the house. On the wall of the living room are pictures of Hue written for Lich. There are many colored sheets of paper from the time the two fell in love and also sheets of paper when the two were married. The calendar writes a large line of letters with a black brush: “I’m so sad. I’m going to drink.” The sheets were removed by Hue and put back in the box. Hue quickly dressed, drove the car into the dark. Hue went to find Calendar. Hue did not want everything to become too late, if she let Lich not return with her today. In the house with husband and wife. Short story by Phan Thi Tan
Member of a matchmaking company in Singapore. Photo: The Straits Times The government gave “fulcrum” A spokesman for the Lawyers Association Pro Bono said that it is very important that the Singapore Government publicizes its stance on the immigration status of foreigners after divorce. This is a “thoughtful and tolerant” approach by the government of this country, she said. In addition, a spokesman for the Ministry of the Interior (MHA) told The Straits Times that widows, spouses or divorced Singapore citizens have the right to custody of children under the age of 21. They are allowed to live in Singapore on a long-term visitor visa until the child reaches 21 years of age. Although the former Singaporean spouse cancels the visa extension, they can still be sponsored by another Singapore citizen or permanent resident over the age of 21. At the age of 21, children can sponsor foreign parents to stay. Since December 2018, the Pro Bono Lawyers Association and Ms. June Lim – CEO of Eden Law Firm – have started the LEAF Project (Empowerment and Legal Support for Foreign Spouses). . The LEAF project is now part of a Family Justice Assistance program that helps noncitizens or Singapore permanent residents with marriage matters. The project aims to provide free assistance to a spouse who is a foreigner who meets a number of conditions, for example with a per capita monthly income of S $ 950 or less. They decided to start this pilot scheme because foreign spouses with children in Singapore are a “particularly vulnerable” group. They often depend on their partner for all aspects of their life. They may not have anyone to help them in the face of home violence or a broken marriage. In many cases, they also do not have any other friends or relatives in Singapore, they just have to look to charities like LEAF to stay. To avoid unfortunate things from happening, the Singapore Department of Family and Social Development has introduced a marriage support program for couples of different nationalities to help them have a strong marriage foundation. The program offers classes that teach English or Mandarin for the brides, give instructions on how to communicate, deal with conflicts in a multicultural setting, as well as tips on living in Singapore. Source: Straits Times, Sixth Tone
With love deficient in respect, no matter how hard you try, the other half will not appreciate those efforts. 2. The other party never does anything for you No matter how busy life or work, everyone has a way of arranging time to do what they really want. If the other person cares about you, they will constantly find ways to make you happy. It doesn’t have to be a big act, a “huge” surprise, but simply a sweet message, a small gift or a warm meal, … All to show that you are real. the specialness of them. If someone never does anything that makes you feel warm and loved, consider your relationship. 3. The other party avoids “serious” topics. A serious conversation is essential for any long-term relationship. If your partner just wants to stop at the level of pure fun, this may be a sign that they don’t want to “go far” with you. Ignorance can be identified by their disregard for serious issues such as your place of residence, your job, your family situation and your future plans. Even if you take the lead, they will try to evade it or try to turn it into a “not worth talking about” topic. 4. The other party doesn’t appreciate you Above, we mentioned the sign that “the other person never does anything for you”. However, in some cases, this is still acceptable if they show gratitude and appreciation for what you do. This may just be a sign of inattention. 
But underestimating and underestimating other people’s efforts is hard to accept. These can be “red alarms” that you need to be alert to reconsider your relationship. 5. The other person regularly criticizes your point of view They don’t take what you think seriously, even criticize and make fun of your choices. We all understand that each person has a different way of thinking and thinking about life. But people with insufficient respect will look down on your point just because it is different from them. This is also the source of all negative conflicts and quarrels. Don’t let unhealthy relationships keep you from expressing yourself, saying what you think. Believe that every point of view deserves to be heard and acknowledged. 6. The other person often ignores you Have you ever felt lonely and miserable because the “other half” is too cold? This is one of the signs that they do not have enough respect for you. Because someone who loves you will always try to cherish every moment with you. This is evident during the dating period, when the two of you cannot always be together. 
If your partner spends too much time with you on the phone, surfing the web or chatting with another person, don’t be foolish about trying to blame yourself. The problem is not because you are not attractive enough. Because a respectful person won’t “leave” you with the time that should be spent together. 7. The opponent always makes excuses for the mistakes No matter what you do wrong, people who don’t respect seem to have a good reason to protect themselves. They can’t make it in time because the car is broken, can’t remember the anniversary because the work is too busy, can not introduce you to your friends just because you are not attractive enough … It all becomes the reason that there, they are innocent people. It is your job to sympathize with the difficulties they face. In fact, they don’t care about your feelings and try to understand what you are thinking. Because they know you love them enough to be willing to accept. 8. The other person compares you to others This is exactly the worst sign of a disrespectful relationship. Each person has their own personality, their own strengths and weaknesses. One individual cannot be used as a measure of the evaluation of another individual. Someone who truly loves you, cherishes you will try to accept who you really are. They will love both your strengths and your shortcomings. They will want you to be yourself, not a copy of anyone. If the other person is constantly comparing and expecting you to be like someone else, frankly express his opinion and put an end to that disrespect.
Predicting 12 children today April 24: Thin is difficult to increase income, financial tuat prospered. Snake Age The prediction of 12 zodiac animals shows that the work of the Snake is going very smoothly, everything is going on the right trajectory. The financial situation is better, you have many opportunities to make money, your income is improved, there is no need to worry about money. In terms of love, you are thriving, single people are more likely to find the true will of your life, couples increasingly understand each other. Born in the year of the Horse The work of the Horse is going very well, although there are a few problems, you are helped by a noble, so everything will be resolved quickly. With a stable financial situation, Ngo can save a lot of money today. In terms of love, false rumors make the two of you more likely to argue, the single person wants to escape the FA life but lacks the initiative. Age odor The work of the Goat is only average, you are very busy and can work overtime, but in return it will capture a good opportunity, the results are worth what you spend. Financially, Goat age can accumulate a fair amount today, you can freely buy things you like. The process of affection is harmonious and full, couples are getting closer and closer together. Single people should expand diplomatic relations to increase their luck. Age of Body At work, you should review your personal stance and find new points to break through. Try to save money, remove the things that are not really necessary from the shopping list. In terms of love, single people should be more proactive, do not hold a tree and wait for the rabbit, lest you never know when to escape. Lovers should be more attentive to their partner. Roster age The job of Rooster is going smoothly, you will quickly complete the assigned tasks well, respected by your superiors. Regarding finance, if you intend to invest in business, you should discuss with acquaintances and people with experience to avoid unnecessary risks. In terms of love, the day or a good time for single people to confess their love to the person you like, the likelihood of success will be very high. Born in the year of Dog At work, the age of Tuat is quite busy and pressured because there are many urgent things that need you to solve, which makes your mind quite stressful and there is no time to rest. With a prosperous financial situation, you will bring Tuat several opportunities to invest in business, you should quickly grasp it. About love, be careful with the feelings of your lover, today you are prosperous to make him jealous. 
Predict 12 children today 24/4: Financial prosperity. Pig Age The prediction of 12 zodiac animals today shows that your work is done quite smoothly, teamwork and cooperation with others achieved high results. Financially, you can predict the volatility of the market, thus ensuring stability in investment, increasing income. In terms of affection, you are prosperous, more likely to find your true will today. Couples have a lot of sweet time together, and the relationship is more strong.
Two sisters Le Tran – Le Trieu both suffer from chronic kidney failure, are being monitored and treated at Children’s Hospital 2. Suffering from her daughter being abused by illnesses, Mrs. Jin felt more grief for her young son. Just now, the doctor encouraged her to prepare herself, and her son is about to transition to stage 4 chronic kidney failure. Then there will be a stage where you have to choose between peritoneal dialysis, hemodialysis or a kidney transplant. treatment. However, her family has nowhere else to rely on. Cam’s family is from the seaside of Binh Dinh province. Fishing did not bring much income so they decided to move to Phu Yen to build a life. Far from brothers, relatives, there is only one grade-four house and acacia-planted land. Pham Quang Nhat, her husband Cam used to have meningitis and stomach cancer. Due to his weak health, he could not “plow” to make money. Every day, in addition to taking care of the acacia garden, he also takes the opportunity to work as hired labor, but not much. Mrs. Cam is alone in charge of taking care of the child. In order to have money for the treatment of two sisters Le Tran, she and her husband had to quickly sell their 4-year-old acacia garden for 100 million VND. The money quickly dissipated, they planned to sell the house to save their children, but the two sisters Tran disagreed. “ The two children told us that this disease cannot be cured, if the house is sold then where the parents are. Then, when the children no longer have any more, then get somewhere to worship. I heard that my heart ached. Why is my family’s destiny so floating! “, Mrs. Jin sobbed. Not to sell the house, you only have a mortgage to borrow 100 million dong from the bank. In addition, they also borrowed about 50 million from relatives and relatives. But during the past 3 years, all are over. 
Cam’s eyes were red after crying silently because she loved her child. “ I am nearly 40 years old to give birth to 2 children. Thought God was merciful, who would have expected you to be so miserable. Now I do not know how to manage 7-8 million VND per month to treat my children anymore. May all the philanthropists take care of the family situation in need, save my children! “, Mrs. Jin pleaded. Khanh Hoa Any help please send to:
Illustration. On my wedding day, everyone was happy, me too. I eagerly think about my new future. But things are completely contrary to my thinking. On the wedding night, her husband approached me with a lewd face that was completely different from his usual politeness. He touches me impulsively. I’m not used to it, put his hand away, say slowly, because we have never been so close. Finished he laughed, telling me: “The boat is built now, and the high bar is set up?”. I’m shocked! But not in time to regain his spirit, he pulled my hand sideways to another room. It had all sorts of sex toys out there – something I’ve only seen on the internet that I’ve never seen with my own eyes. “ My job is to be my wife well. If you know how to serve, I won’t let you down. Know it yet? Whatever you want ” – When he finished, he pushed me in and tortured me all night in there. In the morning, I frown on my face, my whole body aches and I can’t shuffle back to my room. But my husband considered not. He threw me a to-do list for me and said: “Now I have to go out. You clean the house, then cook. At 12 o’clock you have to have rice, everything should be decent. Especially the first floor, clean it up, the wedding day is crowded. You can walk, you can die. Well, you should quit your job, you have more money for you to live happily. And so from that day until now, I have been like an umbrella in the house. This board is cleaning, taking care of the rice. The evening serves his bizarre hobby. I take 10 days off, everyone thinks I’m happy, happy on my honeymoon. In fact, I’m so tired I can’t even crawl … Now I suddenly understand why my husband is never married at age 50. Perhaps no one girl meets his bizarre hobby and paternalism. I am a fool, deceived by your elegant cover. I regret it now. I want to give up everything about my mother, is that okay?
Illustrations: QUANG CUONG. We met on a night train. Later he kept teasing me: “That train was a storm train, also a train of destiny”. Our daughters got up from Hanoi station, so they have decent seats. The more you went back and forth, the more crowded the ship was, because the ladies who were traveling in business loaded the goods with them. The wagon is packed with people and sacks like a mortar. Arriving at Huong Canh station, someone was seated on the roof of the train. He and his friend, two soldiers in blue, climbed through the window of the train, just as the train jerked, shifting gear. So the two of them fell right into our group of girls. All the beautiful and fresh mouths every day suddenly became twisted and screamed. He and his friends were in a panic, always saying “sorry, sorry”, hands and back turned around the swollen toad backpack. How sweet is it, his hand reaches my chest. I cowered, my face was as red as the flag color. He does not seem to know anything, asking permission to put his backpack under my seat and ask for permission to stand next to me, close to my knees. It was dark, and the light on the ceiling of the car was pale yellow, radiating an insufficient light out of the mesh surrounding it … The bumps, when strong when the train shook, sometimes lightly when the train shook, kept making my legs numb. Then the smell of a man, the smell that I have not known before, it lingers around my head around my chest. It smells of smoke, it smells of honey, it smells like a chick … I swallowed hard, turned to face the window of the train, mumbled idle songs … He asked me about my hometown, studying onions, brothers in the house … I kept answering like a machine. It even seemed like giving the lesson in an interview with the teacher of the subject “Teaching Method”. We broke up at Vu On station, I got off the train to return to my hometown, and he continued on to the unit. Back then, there were cell phones like now. Just keep in mind each other’s home address and inbox. Even though it is strange, everyone and even I used to tell the truth about where I came from when I first got acquainted. But somehow that day, I “confessed” to him. Is he a soldier like my father. The soldier is easy to make people believe! Then two years of correspondence and travel, I finished the program for three years and graduated. Thinking that the teacher loves the soldier, what’s the point? That is the model of the future family of many people desire. Especially when the lyrics of the song say: “… Fire you up on the high hill, hitting the American enemy’s head / the pulpit in the deep underground, you are also a soldier …” really touched our hearts. Even though the US and Vietnam have normalized their diplomatic relations two years ago when I graduated. But who expected, it was the character of the soldiers in a battle that almost broke us. My father, who was a senior officer in the military army, definitely did not marry a girl to someone that far away! That day going back from Phu Tho to Hai Duong was determined. Dad said, the bridge is so deep, it looks like you have lost your daughter? He gave birth to him, an officer commanding a commando company, with medals filled with drawers, fiercely demanding that he marry in his hometown, because he is the eldest son, and is the head of a large surname. Wives from the same hometown and farming can easily take care of the important affairs of the lineages and the family. He brought me back to the countryside under their cold glances. I brought him back to his hometown in consideration of the neighbors. Three years passed, we tried to persuade, but not shake the children. Sometimes we think that, if we just stay together, have a baby, then our grandparents and grandchildren will accept it. But that day, the story of unmarried but having a baby is a terrible incident. I am a teacher again! I teach in Viet Tri city. He seldom returns to his hometown. Every time he takes a vacation or takes time to take advantage of, he jumps the train from Yen Bai to school to visit me. Every time he comes back, he always has a few wild banana flowers on his backpack. The flowers were bright red as flag colors, arrogant. The banana flower is put in a jar of clean, fresh water for up to three or four weeks. Surely, he wanted to tell me about the iron, or the freshness of his love for me. When I received flowers, I kept thinking about the color of my face on the train when he got the right chest, so my face was always blushing like the color of the flag … The day I was at the pedagogical school in Hanoi, I saw my room decoration With wild banana flowers, many of the classmates kept laughing … The capital lacked anything beautiful, but played banana flowers, and the forest was there. I just laughed, the more he loved him to cherish and preserve flowers on those bustling ships! Seeing me frown because I’m worried about the future, my mother loves me very much. At one point, I overheard my mother say to my father: “I should relax with you, sometimes!”. Ba said sharply: “It cannot be! The soldier must be decisive. That is the way to win the enemy!”. Mother whispered: “Well, you should watch it again. In the past, you firmly fought the US, now the state has established a new relationship with America … But this is my daughter, is the enemy invading?” where?”. Three silently did not say anything more. At his house, his teacher insisted on not visiting my house, even though he pleaded five times seven times. Then it was the determination of his teacher that made my father feel narcissistic. He said to my mother: “You see, they have been together for five or six years, but their family doesn’t care about your children. If you leave your children in the house so contemptuously, will you be happy? ”Hearing Dad say that, I was happy silently, so he also had a certain change. On his side, he once threatened: – I do not agree to let us get married, I will go out to the army! – Huh, the soldier’s son, has soldier’s personality. You leave the army, you know what to do? – I wear you, I go to work abroad or I go to the South to do business. – Hmm, just take it slowly! As a soldier, you have to know how to calculate it later! He said, so he also somewhat went into the water! I believe you, even if you tell me to please, I still believe. My belief is still like the first day I met you on that stormy ship! The two former officers kept tense together like that, forcing new-era officers to have a righteous opinion. He also wore the rank of lieutenant. He told me very firmly but with a humorous voice: – Honey, we love each other for a long time, waiting for the two leaders of the two families to be less determined, we will miss our youth. The law of our country does not require two people to register their marriage with witnesses! There is also no rule that a married couple must have the full two surnames! We go to the People’s Committee of the ward where you teach and register your marriage. I asked the unit to go back to my school, we get married at school! Before organizing, we go back to our hometown to report to the heads, as it is already done! I agree with you! Of course I follow you. Holding the marriage registration form in hand, I went back to my hometown to go to my parents. My dad snickered, huffed for an hour, then turned to hissing at once at three pipe tobacco. Later, I heard the story of him, when he brought a marriage certificate back to his mother. His teacher tightened his mouth to hear everything he said, then uttered two words “you are good!”. Our wedding took place two weeks later. The skillful teachers have made the school hall bright. The young soldiers with words made the atmosphere of the wedding surprisingly youthful. My parents and his teacher also invited some family representatives to come to us. Looking at my young mother in an ao dai, standing next to the girls, the uncle was originally a retired school teacher and I almost didn’t recognize my mother. The most funny thing is that my mother kept saying to the uncles and aunts: “Well, God will not bear the earth, and the earth will suffer, grandparents!”. The two “heads” are our two fathers solemnly in white uniforms, with full trophies. Handshake hands, mouth to greet the guests, but when looking at each other, he is still afraid. Our wedding is definitely not like any wedding. That difference, perhaps only I have. These flowers are decorated from outside the school gate to the school, and are wild banana flowers. The young soldiers and his friends must have been doing a great job fetching flowers for the past few days. The jars, vases, the jars, the systems, the five flowers, the place where the flowers are, the place seven flowers … raced as if overflowing to welcome guests. The wild banana flowers were red like the colors of flags, red as if they were drawn from the trunk of the tree, but red. Leaning postures, straight postures … all exuding resilience and drasticness. The resilience and drasticness of the soldier in difficult places. And the flower color exuded the freshness and stability like a soldier’s soul and will. The flower body is sturdy, straightforward, but the petals spread out are both soft and tolerant … I was happy, thinking about the days to come, I will be attached to three soldiers who are tough, straightforward, and soft like the wild flowers burning in the color of flags, flying in front of me …
Ngoc, Hanh’s family and the children often quarreled loudly like a market. Two twin sisters Chau (Thuy Ngan) and Bau (Nha Phuong) engrave words like the moon, the sun. As much as Chau has the will to progress, work hard and seriously, the more Bau is frivolous, depends on and often envious. Finally, the youngest brother named Du was sent to prison to live quietly like a shadow in the family. Coming back to be Ngoc’s bride, Hanh (Hong Anh) had to hand over her husband’s family with a stretcher – his four younger brothers. Chau and Du were able to support their families. On the contrary, Ivory and Bau are not only ineffective and inexperienced, but also often gamble on debt. Conflict in the small family arose from the scene of the disruptor. In the 9 episodes that aired, the audience witnessed many fierce arguments between members of Ngoc’s family. Chau and Bau pulled their hair apart like enemies, the couple Ngoc and Hanh had a heated argument, Hanh scolded her two in-law, Du loudly at Ngoc, Ngoc shouted at Bau … On average, per episode The apple tree blooms There is a little quarrel scene. Characters speak loudly from petty nonsense to serious problems, which have existed for decades and cannot be resolved overnight. “Punishes injured” In the world of The apple tree blooms , the characters still speak calmly and gently. But most of that kind of conversation was just a fight, evading the heart of the matter that either wanted to clarify. 
Loudness is the only way for the characters of the Apple Tree to bloom to talk. Only in the endless quarrels that Ngoc, Hanh, Nga, Chau, Bau, Du really “dialogue”. The word dialogue is understood in the sense that both sides actively participate in the story, ready to talk about their own problems and express their thoughts. The Vietnamese are taught to be gentle and gentle. But the calm on the face sometimes makes people tormented, suffering more than the determination to “make a mess, break it into a scoop”. For a family of up to two shameless people like Nga and Bau and the weak head of the family, Ngoc, one thing that doesn’t make nine good things happen. It only tolerates, making each person’s bad habits worse. Therefore, each quarrel in The apple tree blooms All help characters have the opportunity to express themselves, relieve the frustration that has been stored for a long time and show the hurt they have suffered. For Hanh, the woman who had to serve her brother-in-law for 18 years, the emotional outbursts in episode 7 and episode 8 were the only chance for her to talk about herself, spilling resentment still swallowed throughout. last year. Hanh’s explosive moment was sympathetic to many viewers. In episode 1, Nha Phuong’s role as Bau is laughable because of her ridiculous posture and her mischievous personality. As she went on, she revealed her blinding, selfish, superficial nature more and more. Because of being jealous of Chau, Bau is ready to stab her sister’s back. In order not to be kicked out of the house, Bau was chaotic and made up the blame for his sister-in-law. However, through loud times with siblings, the character makes viewers feel pity. The wealth in the present can be the victim of the clingy lifestyle and the envy has eaten into the blood. But the germ of that bad habit came from the childhood of need, not properly raised by his parents. When will the movie “turn down the volume”? Until now, controversy has often been associated with the moment of a drop of water overflowing. On-screen speech wars often lead to a broken end, from which the character transforms. In other words, in the classic film outline, the controversy is an important tipping point, inaccessible to rampant use. 
As long as Bau and Ivory are not big enough, the audience will have a headache because of the quarrels in the Flowering Tree. However, in The apple tree blooms , quarreling has become the identity of the Ngoc family. Characters loud often like eating rice, drinking water every day. Watching the characters scream at each other, from the good news to the reasoning like a crab, made many viewers feel tired, discouraged and did not want to continue watching the work. At this time, the brand noise becomes a barrier, preventing the work from revealing the depth of the plot, mentality, personality and tragedy that each character contains. If dialogue is rational, quarreling is motivated by emotion. In fact, no one wants to see a person’s subjective emotions speak up instead of their reason. Raising is always lowering the book. Because of that, the character kept on loudly inadvertently making an impression The apple tree blooms superficial, focusing too much on greed, jealousy, and the bottlenecks in each character’s life without pointing out a solution. By the end of episode 9, Ngoc found the courage to once say no to Nga and Bau, ending the series of quarrels surrounding the junior’s eating. This can be considered a big step forward in the plot. From here on, Ivory and Bau will no longer provide free accommodation or food. Coercive independence as a catalyst forces the two “sloths” to brainstorm and start working. That change of lifestyle inevitably leads to psychological development. The stumbles in the new stage of life will bring Tusks and Treasures many experiences, helping them to mature and think more thoroughly. Attached to this new development in psychology will inevitably be a change in attitude. Once they can think, understand and share, there will certainly be fewer quarrels between Bau and Chau, while Ngoc and Hanh’s family will break the mirror and heal when the cause of discord is removed. The apple tree blooms received many positive feedbacks because of the diverse and engaging story that harmoniously blends the drama element with the comedy genre. On the screen, the audience saw many problems, belonging to groups of characters of different ages intertwined and present. Elderly class with concern for their children, the adult class with so many worries about rice and money and happy couples, a new age with many uncertainties in their thoughts and actions … Hopefully in the future, when the surface quarrels subside, the characters will have more space and time to develop their psychology in depth, the film will entertain the audience with warm stories, rich in love. documents between people and between brothers and sisters in the same family.
This fourth time, she will unilaterally apply for a divorce. Illustration Yesterday, she went home to talk to her parents about her divorce problem. She just opened her words, instead of asking her son the cause of being upset, her father rolled his eyes: “This house does not leave her husband. You are a teacher, teach people, now you leave your husband. Who do you teach? I told you not to listen, you leave your husband and then go anywhere. The sandy soil I have changed to the red book name for your two brothers, so you don’t have anything “. Her mother just kept silent, crying and crying: “How can you be so miserable when you eat and study!”. She belongs to the second half of 8X generation but is still deeply ingrained in her mother’s old thought. Remembering the day when she returned to her husband’s house, it was only because of the mother’s admonition that “the boat follows the driver, the girl follows her husband. If a woman steps to marry, she will live as her husband’s family, die is her husband’s ghost” but she is single because husband, blind sacrifice. After completing the Pedagogical University, after graduating from school, she asked to return to the commune secondary school to teach near her home. Having been teaching for nearly 2 years, researching through matchmaking, she nodded to marry him because … just near the house, the family has conditions. He only finished high school and his parents allowed him to open a shop selling electrical appliances. His work is favorable, the couple is well-off economically. Anyone outside can see that her life is happy and peaceful. But only “in the blanket will know that the blanket has lice”. Patriarch, selfish and unjustifiably jealous. Knowing her husband is jealous, she is always withdrawn, minimizing meetings and contact. Even having to receive male and female parents is absolutely avoided. All her life, she dared not go to class meetings and halls because … he did not agree. Many times she gently analyzed and explained to him to understand, but he refused to listen. Wherever she went, she refused to ask him to go with him. She knows, deep down in his heart, he has a little self-esteem because he “does not study as much as her”. She has told him countless times that it is important that husband and wife love, understand, and respect each other; that she is always grateful because he is good at making money, and is an economic support for her mother and daughter. At first, hearing his wife say, he just hummed, after giving birth, he scolded her for “many words” and blamed her for the crime of liking … “teaching her husband”. Since then, she chose to be silent and pamper him. She still tells her students about the woman’s self-esteem and confidence. During the extracurricular lessons, she taught her children about gender equality, the criteria of a modern woman … Watching her children attentively, her eyes filled with dreams, her heart was excited but every time she turned home, she finds herself petty again. Once, passing by a group of students, she overheard a female student say to her friends: “That’s all for my aunt at school, but at home it is not different from me, afraid of her husband …”. She felt numb. The day before, he came home from late drinking, did not know who said, but he asked her to … quit teaching. He said, when she went to teach, she paid three poles and three dong, she didn’t have enough money for electricity and water, just stay at home to cook and look after her children, she would have everything. Knowing he was a bit of a gas, she did not argue. Seeing her silent, he thought she agreed. The next morning, she stole her schoolbag, he pulled back, threw her stuff. He slandered her and then gave her the conditions to make her choose: “Either profession, or family”. He was so unreasonable, she couldn’t take it anymore. And for the first time after 10 years of being his wife, she firmly protested. He took the right to be a husband, thinking that she was a mess, so he beat her to … teach. She looked back at herself, she never seemed to know how to live and love properly. With him, she only knew obedience and silence. Yesterday, she found a small house to rent. I will move out there while waiting for the court to settle. He tore 3 divorce papers in front of her with the statement: “You can’t leave me to death”. But this fourth time, she will unilaterally apply for a divorce. Living together or divorced? Both solutions suffer. And I will choose less painful solutions, to have the right to love myself.
The story of “blanket and pillow” plays an important role in the couple’s love life (Artwork) When the doctor asked more carefully about the health status, family, … the patient said normal. Through examination and testing, the doctor determined that the patient did not have a male disease. The main cause of the “weak” young boy in battle may be related to family life, husband and wife’s love. When asked more about the couple connection, this man shared that: “The couple has been married for a long time, the relationship between husband and wife is no longer the same as when they first fell in love. Specifically, the two people no longer feel new, no longer excited. Even the wife is no longer as unfamiliar as when she first fell in love. In the past, my wife was both good and beautiful, and now she’s fat and like my mother ”. BS. Cuong said that the “physiological weakness” that the husband complained of and had to see a doctor was completely understandable. After a period of marriage, married life, especially sex, has decreased desire, when the desire is reduced, the arousal is reduced, there will be a situation “in the upper and lower level does not listen”. “In fact, reducing libido is not only in men but also in women. However, due to the way of thinking of society, due to the education problem, the woman is less likely to confess than the man. ”- Doctor. Cuong said. Refresh “love” to sublimate together To solve the problem of “above and below not listening” of the patient, the doctor. Cuong said that husband and wife need to regularly renew their “love”. When the “love” is renewed, the two receive enough sexual stimulation and attraction from each other, making both of them desire, feeling close to each other, touching each other then it will be solved the problem and you both will reach pleasure. “Pleasure is only achieved when the two can catch up with each other, both understand what the other wants and work together. And in the case of men reaching their destination earlier, or also known as early climax, people call them physiological weakness, but scientifically it is called premature ejaculation. On the contrary, if two people are close together, receive enough stimulation but the man can not harden (or see in old age), it will be called erectile dysfunction ”- BS. Cuong analyzed. In addition, the decrease in libido can also be caused by the husband or wife being worried, depressed, having problems in family life, falling love, too much responsibility to lose desire. close to each other but just trying to fulfill the responsibility of the other person. When meeting the above problems, BS. Cuong thinks that each family will react differently. Some people realize the problem of understanding the problem and hold hands together to heal, some break up, some people satisfy themselves (masturbate). However, “the best way is that the couple need to share, sympathize with each other, work together, renew the” love “to make life go up” – Doctor. Cuong advises.
After spending time together, they fell in love and eventually became married. When they got married, Truong Phuong was 28 years old, and Van Truong Lam was 73 years old. At that time, Truong Phuong’s mother wanted her to marry a young man from a nearby village, even accepting their home ceremony. However, Truong Phuong’s “stubborn temperament” at that time made everyone unable to convince her. More importantly, she not only refused her mother’s request, but also decided to marry Van Truong Lam immediately. The incident caused a stir in public opinion in the village. Everyone thought that the girl was over-dressed and would have to regret it later. In the end, Truong Phuong and Van Truong Lam also achieved their goal. After getting married, they still gave birth to a baby boy. 
The couple also participated in the show “Happiness to knock on the door” on television, which surprised the audience with their post-marriage life, extremely simple, despite their normal living conditions. But the breath of a happy life filled the house like many other families. Truong Phuong stays at home to take care of his children and do chores in his spare time. Van Truong Lam is still the main source of income and the breadwinner of the family, he often visits home to visit for patients. Van Truong Lam loves Truong Phuong very much, because every time he comes home, he considers whether to bring something such as household appliances or clothes to Truong Phuong. When the couple looked at each other, their eyes filled with love and hope. In the past, villagers who used to see this as a joke always asked Truong Phuong if she would regret it. But no matter how many people ask, Truong Phuong always insists that he has no regrets. Now, people in the village that used to not take this relationship seriously also begin to send their blessings to them. Today, more and more people are pessimistic about their marriage, feeling that the marriage is not as good as they thought. But for this couple, on the contrary, they are even happier and more peaceful than normal couples. 
Looking at Truong Phuong and Van Truong Lam so happy, many people will wake up and realize that love is always so warm. However, many questions are raised around the age gap so much, whether they have any difficulty in raising children. Most people believe that the large gap between the two sides easily causes a generation gap. When faced with anything, a wife may have a more flexible resolution or attitude, while an older husband may be more stubborn and rigid. If neither side gives in, the relationship will turn into a game of tit-for-tat and will inevitably deteriorate. The large age gap means that older people will leave the world sooner, and those who stay will endure loneliness while alone. Conversely, if couples are the same age, they may spend more time together. This way, the longer they are together, the longer they will be with the children. In addition, in terms of children’s education, the pairs of “deviated chopsticks” are also often faced with conflicting opinions more often. Today, education is increasingly developing, because the young and the old receive different educational environments, so they will definitely give their own opinions in the process of educating children. Parents’ educational differences will not only affect their relationship but also their children. So in a family with such a large age gap, how can children have a correct view of the two words “family”? 
First of all, the relationship between parents must be harmonious. Parents should not lose their temper because of disagreement, because it will affect the family atmosphere. Children are very sensitive and can easily feel their parents’ feelings, and at the same time, they also develop a mentality quickly. In order for children to have a correct view of marriage and love, first of all, the love between parents must be harmonious, children must feel the love of their parents and the warmth of the family. For example, Truong Phuong might tell the child that she loves her husband very much, and the couple loves you very much, even though the father may leave later, but his love for the child is always something to be cherished to cherish. . At that time, the child will mature and will know how to cherish himself and others.
“What medicine did you give my son that he kept against me to defend you?” Illustration. Experts have many opportunities to observe in Love – Marriage – Family courses, find that every person who comes to healing courses, or to find specialists has his or her own symptoms, or relationship. Our system is facing to be consulted, “prescribed” … Most of the trainees just stop at the level of handling, or healing situations after the course. And every time they have problems such as getting stuck in the unification of parenting methods, parenting methods, conflicts of relationships, responsible behavior with paternal and maternal parents … they have to find experts to express themselves. problem, disassembly. The way it is going to heal this problem couples will have other problems in their life (the little ones quarrel about taking care of their children; the kids go to school, the children conflict with the official schooling. Many, or learn life skills; when children come back to life, they disagree about how they choose their lover; when the internal affairs of the relationship are okay, there will be problems with both sides’ paternal and maternal grandparents; when successful in making money, arising conflicts in the use of money, money management …). Just like that, until retirement, the married life will not necessarily reduce the problems of conflict. Then they argued about daughter-in-law, son-in-law, grandchild, grandchild, sui … maybe even quarreling about sleeping together or sleeping separately, eating bland or eating salty food. In fact, all the difficulties in raising children, disagreements between internal and external positions, inconsistency in financial management, problems with the blanket … the instability is not caused by children, internal affairs, finances, Or what is the problem of sex … but it is in an unstable relationship between husband and wife. Going further, each person himself is in turmoil. 
The war with oneself is the important one. Illustration. More specifically, where each person still has a lot of hurts and inadequacies, so that we haven’t been able to solve this problem in time, another problem has arisen. I thought that everything was finished handling and everything went smoothly, and suddenly that story appeared. After all, external instability is just a reflection of our inner turmoil. When we don’t deal with the root cause of our instability – whoever interacts with us, whatever happens to us … obstacles arise. This war is not outside (with children, parents, finance, health, or sex …), but is a war within each person. The problem is not that we find a solution in turn, or win in every thing that happens to us, to our family, but that we have to find a solution to win the war with ourselves. It is a battle with the ego, with the “I”, overcoming the limits of the physical world to enter the true mind, true and unconditional love of oneself. If we lose ourselves – that is, we will lose our ego – then we have to lose in every war. If we just run to settle the top, forever we won’t have any moments of satisfaction, peace, happiness. So when encountering any external problem, first of all couples go deep into themselves to observe, to connect and to realize what is wrong inside, the voice. Which is coming up… So couples will find it easier to see where the real knot of external problems is within themselves. Nguyen Duc Quynh (Love – Marriage – Family Consultant)
Pisces (February 19 – March 20) Horoscope 12 zodiac says that Pisces is full of energy, although you do not promise much, you can do things beyond your imagination. Besides work, you should also take time to hone your knowledge or learn a new skill. Presently, this may not bring immediate effects in work or in life, but study is never redundant. The emotional aspect of Pisces is still flat and peaceful. You always have someone with you in the most difficult times, someone who cheers, encourages, supports all your decisions, someone who protects you, comforts you every time you are hurt. For those who are single today, the love line is somewhat in bloom. You simply help a stranger, others noticed, impressed, even went to ask questions, offered to make acquaintances. However, be careful in all cases to avoid unnecessary trouble. The lucky number of Pisces is 14. Aries (March 21 – April 19) See the horoscope on April 19, 2021 of the 12 signs of the zodiac shows that Aries is not very focused, distracted by personal feelings that have a problem. Fortunately, you soon realize this and remind yourself to focus more on work. If you want to find peace of mind, the simplest way is to help someone, you will feel happy and confident in yourself. In terms of affection, although single Aries is extremely eager to find your true partner, it seems that the lack of positive attitude makes you not make any progress in relation to the other party. Use the most sincere and friendly attitude to reach potential audiences. Advise you to be careful with your money, avoid losing control. Keep yourself a certain amount of room. What can we do if we earn money for a long time and we can spend it quickly? It’s the same as collecting firewood for three years and burning in an hour. The lucky number of Aries is 42. Taurus (April 20 – May 20) Your work today is quite idle, so you have more time to gossip with coworkers. However, you need to pay attention to the working time and break time, talk too loudly, lest your boss will remind you. Your relationship with that person is becoming more and more intimate and close. Over the past time, you and your partner have been very active in talking and getting to know each other. Looks like the two of you found a lot in common. So it’s natural to be intimate and be able to progress further. Your health is not very good today. When you have decided to have fun earlier, you are also very enthusiastic, or it can be said that you are quite busy playing so you cannot avoid forgetting meals. The lucky number of Taurus is 58. Gemini (May 21 – June 20) Gemini today let the emotional judgments affect the emotions quite a bit. You may even be too sensitive and let your surroundings affect you too much. You can not set two different goals at the same time in your career, you have to define clearly your goals at work, do not stand here and there. Life balance is really important, sometimes the undesirable things happen at the same time making you extremely tired. However, being depressed is not the way to solve problems, having to calm down, have faith in yourself. If we cannot solve it, do not be disappointed, sometimes we have to take a step back to take three steps. Thrift is an essential and precious human virtue, but if you always work hard to save, you will accidentally miss great opportunities. Gemini should know that saving is an important thing, but if you are not actively making money, what can you use to save? Lucky number of Gemini is 5. Cancer (June 21 – July 22) Cancer is very susceptible to external factors, sometimes just jokes that make you angry, tell yourself that other people are belittling or belittling you. Don’t be too concerned with what other people think of you, but ask yourself what you are here for and what your greatest passions are. In terms of love, single friends should be less immersed in the delusions of movies and love stories, but go out in real life looking for love. The past is over, let it sleep quietly, do not forever remember the old things without knowing the attraction of the new. Cancer is too passionate at work but has not found a balance so that he can not rush too fast at an unreasonable speed. Go slowly but surely, think carefully before you act, sometimes what you think is not necessarily true. The lucky number for Cancer is 96. Lion (July 23 – August 22) Success does not depend on whether you are beautiful or not, it just depends on the mind, path, direction and determination of each person. Therefore, spend less time taking care of your appearance, invest more in studying, and you will soon reap worthy results. Horoscope today said Monday was really a happy day and full of joy for the Lion. Although you have a cold personality and sometimes are difficult to get along with, besides your loved ones, you are a considerate person and very knowledgeable about how to care for others. Although sometimes in the eyes of your lover you are a bit stubborn, but your care is enough to make the other person happy. In addition to the time working, studying, playing entertainment, connecting with people, this zodiac should take the time to explore yourself. Sometimes the root of insecurity, inferiority and confusion in life is that you do not really understand yourself, so there is a saying that people know me, hundreds of victories. Lucky number of Lion is 35. Virgo (August 23 – September 22) Virgo wishes to have the opportunity to show off her talents and abilities, but does not have the opportunity. Be careful lest someone wants to take advantage of this to push you into a situation that only benefits them. In terms of work, things cannot happen as quickly as you want, but don’t push others too hard either. Sometimes you help people to be calmer, the work will also be more favorable. In terms of wealth, money is an issue that makes you feel anxious when you find your plan is unstable. You should avoid following someone’s advice at this time. Loneliness invades you to feel lost, confused, but fortunately this emotion passes quickly. Today is very favorable for the love of couples who have had time to understand each other more than before. The lucky number of Virgo is 8. Thien Binh (September 23 – October 22) Thien Binh’s love life has improved slightly today. Meeting an old person on the street by chance, your feelings from the beginning flooding make you feel as nervous as when you first met each other. Maybe you really want to mend your feelings because you still love that person quite a lot. 
Your work requires you to be quite flexible, meet and establish strong relationships with many partners. In order for your job to flourish, you should learn to behave subtly and deftly because the words you say directly affect your partner. Your health is facing many problems. Maybe you drink a lot of stimulants like alcohol and beer during this time so your stomach and liver are very upset. You need to drink a lot of filtered water, eat more green vegetables and fruits to better purify the body. The lucky number of Thien Binh is 24. Scorpio (October 23 – November 21) Predict Scorpio today will face some disagreement in the opinion, everything can come from a joke but is too happy to make others feel uncomfortable. So moderating yourself a bit, sometimes having fun and a big ego can make the emotional situation not good. Horoscope tomorrow advises constellation to cherish what you have, including your friends. Money, matter, and fleeting, superficial relationships can bring joy to a moment, but only those who truly love you will always be there under any circumstances. On the emotional side, Scorpio will be attracted to what you consider to be an ideal partner. Maybe today they show up making you feel restless, if so, approach them because maybe they are really the half you are looking for. Be with the people who remind you of the future, many people just stand still because they cannot get rid of the sad stories of the past. Scorpio’s lucky number is 45 Sagittarius (November 22 – December 21) Sagittarius becomes more vibrant and cheerful than usual, so everyone around has a different feeling. It’s better to take a little bit of your emotions. In terms of work, you are only accomplished by solving the problem yourself, so until today you do not expect anyone to help you. Everyone is dealing with their own affairs too, so don’t scold. In terms of health, if your room is secret, open the window to let the sun and wind get into the room so that you can be in harmony with nature or add a green tree next to you. The lucky number of Sagittarius is 96 Daily Horoscope – Monday 19/4/2021 of the 12 signs of the zodiac Illustration. (Source: Internet) Capricorn (December 22 – January 19) Your finances today are quite tight, so even if you really want to take him to a luxury restaurant to enjoy dinner together, you still have to accept other options. Perhaps you have been thinking too much, the person is very understanding and does not ask anything from you. You and your significant other have been in love for a long time. You and your partner are both thinking of a near future for you both. Perhaps this is the right time for you and your significant other to take an important step in this love. Your health is quite stable. To get in good shape as now is a scientific process of eating and living. You have been doing very well. You can practice a sport that will keep you in good health. The lucky number of Capricorn is 23
Illustration. There was a topic on social networks: “What experience can we learn from a good husband?”. A reader named Xiao shared her story. Her husband is very stingy, does not allow her to use credit cards, does not allow her to go to restaurants, let alone use expensive skin care products and rarely gives her gifts except for her birthday. This taciturn, taciturn man often made her question her original choice. Xiao has a disability in her legs, her parents abandoned her at a young age. During an argument, she blamed her husband for being stingy, he shouted: “Don’t you know how to eat and drink? But is it time? I want to save enough money for you to have surgery sooner. Recovery becomes more difficult as you get older. Only then did Xiao understand her husband’s sincere feelings for her. Marriage is to find a normal person, to live a normal life happily. A good marriage can help one complete person. A bad marriage can bury a person. Shakespeare said: “Marriage is not satisfactory like hell, fighting for a lifetime is also not peaceful, on the contrary, choosing a mate like that can be peaceful, happy hundred years”. Japanese filmmaker Miyazaki says that whoever you choose from is their lifestyle and values. Which partner you choose not only determines your current life circumstances and moods, but also all the emotions you will experience in your future life. How is marrying the right person? As the saying goes, the other half is the most important investment in life. A spouse with negative energy will only bring negative energy into your life, while someone with positive energy can give you more positive energy. 
Illustration. In fact, the so-called right marriage is probably two people going through the storms of life together. In the end, you get better and make the enemy better. Many people wonder, how do you know if a man is worthy of marriage? Many people agree that a person worthy of marriage will have the same mindset in solving big problems. Many people avoid discussing some issues in love and marriage, and even classify them as forbidden areas, but these issues will emerge sooner or later. For example: Do you agree to live with your parents-in-law? Is there a monthly allowance for parents? Can dowry money be negotiated? If one day the other half leaves? … Before getting married, these issues need to be seriously discussed with your spouse, being honest about each other’s ideas, what can be done, and what can’t. Not everyone is suitable for getting old with you. Someone comes to help us become more mature, someone comes to live with, and someone has to spend a lifetime to remember. Life is an adventure full of unknowns, it is impossible to choose the starting point, let alone predict the future correctly. However, as long as you marry the right people, the value you can get is much greater than your wealth. Choosing a suitable spouse, taking care of each other, caring for each other, having children and raising children are the happiest things in the world.
Grade 11 student Pham Van Thong. Photo: Ngan Chi Overcoming adversity In April, the first sunshine of the season is like yellowing in the sky in the idyllic northern countryside. It was past noon, a slender pupil was hurriedly cycling alone in the middle of a deserted road to return to his small house in Che Lead village (Di Che commune, Tien Lu district, Hung Yen), the whole family waiting for rice. The electric bicycle probably had a problem in the middle of the road, so his face was so sweaty. It was the 11th grade student Pham Van Thong (Hung Yen specialized high school, Hung Yen province), but now, when it comes to the whole village below, everyone knows the language and the commendation plate. People admire Thong, not only because, last school year, he was honored to be in the national team of excellent students in Math, but also because, the diligent pupil overcame his family’s adversity towards the future is full of light. Born into a poor family, his father suffers from schizophrenia, his mother suffers from epilepsy since the day he was in school, when Thong was born, everyone worried that he would inherit the disease from his parents. But no, both Thong and his sister currently in grade 6 are very bright and even have remarkable academic achievements. 
A simple meal of a family of 4. Photo: Ngan Chi From an early age, Thong had an outstanding record in Math. Knowing his family was in difficult, his parents brought many diseases, he never asked his mother to take tutoring, even though his mother advised to take extra classes, the male student still firmly refused. In order to foster his passion for Mathematics, Thong always makes the most of his time for studying, taking advantage of it to explore and exchange more knowledge with teachers and friends after school; the rest, relying on their own initiative and perseverance to conquer difficult content. Just like that, in grade 7, Pham Van Thong won the third prize at district level in Mathematics, in grade 9, won the consolation prize at district level in Mathematics. In the 10th grade entrance exam, the male student excellently passed the Math class of Hung Yen High School, ranked 4th in the whole school. In particular, by the beginning of the 11th grade year (August 2020), Thong was honored to be 1 of 6 math students in the national excellent student team. The day of receiving the congratulatory letter from the Director of the Department of Education and Training of Hung Yen province when Thong was admitted to the team of excellent students in National Mathematics, the mother was happy to shed tears because her son had high achievements in studying, and his father still “Indifferent” for not knowing what it is. Although later, sad to hear that I have not been accepted, but with the spirit of optimism, “do not falter”, Thong affirms: “Since I have not tried my best, this year, I am practicing. Trung rehearsed for the next attempt “. 
After school, Usually help parents with housework. Photo: Ngan Chi Love can be foolish at times, but always treasured Thong’s parents – Ms. Hoang Thi Quy (44 years old) and Pham Van Hinh (50 years old, known by villagers as “Hinh Tons”) have been married for 19 years. Their home is from two pieces of match matchmaking, which have no love, but become happiness. Ms. Quy from a girl who is considered “too old to miss” because she is ill-tempered and does not dare to love anyone, has found a family. Anh Hinh from a naive man, “does not know what to do, does not listen to anyone”, after getting married, began to “understand” again. Ms. Quy patiently taught him from farming to housework, it all started from zero. 
After the meal, the younger sister and her father feed the chickens. Photo: Ngan Chi Gradually, he also knew the job. “At first you didn’t know what to do, I just had to go with it to show it personally. Initially, when he pulled the seedlings, he pulled the grass. Then, his wife showed how to distinguish the seedlings from the grass, how to push the seedlings when transplanted, to stand and slap the water properly. Ordinary people can pick up 5 plots a day, and he only gets 1 piece. Ordinary people can pull 100 seedlings a day, and he only gets 30 bunches of seedlings. Ordinary people get the whole pole every day, he only gets 2 pieces, but more than he can not help anything. Then comes the housework like cooking, I also have to show him how to measure the water level with my knuckles, the meal is so dull, the meal is awkward but gradually getting used to it ”- she shared. Just like that, the small house every day adds a happy part. The outsider said that he may not be sure that Mr. Hinh has heard it, but his wife told him that he was uneasy. 
Mr. Pham Van Hinh and Ms. Hoang Thi Quy. Photo: Ngan Chi In the past few years, “Hinh Teo” has gotten faster every day, even shows that his children are good at studying with their neighbors and relatives, they have known to give up delicious food to their children during the meal, so far it is time to take care of meals. water for his wife, even able to sign his own name taught by his wife even though he is illiterate … Only he could not count more than 10 numbers and could not spend money. The man had just picked a handful of morning glory from the field, started to prepare lunch, his mouth kept showing off “there is an older son who studies very well, many certificates of merit but not sure what subject, who praised” … After all, boys, he mentioned his daughter, “he doesn’t study as much as his brother, but he is quite good” – he laughed after saying that. Rice just cooked, Ms. Quy also drove the car of Cup 82 to the yard. Currently, the whole family depends on her salary as a construction worker, 200,000 VND / day. Poor health, not used to heavy work, just building the car, the woman hurriedly sat down on the steps, breathless. She said: “The illness itself has been in remission for several years now, and my illness is still the same, I try to buy more health insurance for the couple to keep away, the rest will invest. for you… ”. Waiting for the two children to come home from school, the whole family gathered around a simple tray of rice in the 4th grade house with only a plate of boiled water spinach, a bowl of water and a few pieces of simmered sausages. Finished meal, Ms. Quy took advantage of the nap and then went to work. Anh Hinh and his daughter feed the chickens, and the son is also nimble at cleaning the dishes. Not only did he study well, Thong and his sister were both good children, after every hour at school, when they returned home, the two brothers helped their parents manage the housework, and rarely went out to play. The house was more than 10 km away from the school, at first Thong asked his mother to ride a bicycle, but thought that the long way, the children went to school hard, relatives helped to buy him an electric bicycle. The house was far away, many days in the afternoon shift, Thong brought a pair of rice cages to school to eat. As a son, but Thong does not care about anything, after school he goes to the pond to help his mother wash vegetables, partly because he wants to watch because he is afraid of his mother falling. When they got older, the two brothers never demanded that their parents buy new furniture or buy new clothes. 
Congratulation letter from the Director of the Department of Education and Training of Hung Yen province. Photo: Ngan Chi Referring to “whether their parents are sick, do you hesitate to talk to friends?” Thong said: “I have never been ashamed of my parents. There are new parents with you today. I am proud of my family. I love my parents so much, when I grow up, I will take care of them ”. Anyone who asked about his dream, student Pham Van Thong immediately said he would “be a doctor” to be able to take care of his parents. And in the short term, Thong hopes that he will pass the exam to the Military Medical Academy because it can reduce the burden of school fees to pay for his family. Life has linked two people, though not perfect, but has created a perfect and happy family. Although they do not know what love is, but for the past 19 years, brothers and sisters have treated each other with the most sincere and deepest feelings. The beautiful end of the love story is that the children are obedient and well-educated. The mother wishes her son to pass university and pursue a favorite job to escape the village of bamboo – something she and her husband have never dared to think of before.
