I eat Haidilao for 17 yuan, and I think the waiter doesn’t help with the children. It’s ugly that you are greedy for petty money!

Recently, Douyin became popular with a bunch of “money-saving strategies” videos about eating out of Haidilao. Some made homemade cold dishes, some made porridge, some made shouxi pot…

As a result, more and more people began to follow suit.

Just two days ago, a post on Xiaohongshu “Three people eat a Haidilao for a cup of milk tea” instantly became popular.

The person who posted said that he ordered four pot bottoms with clear water, half a vermicelli, a raw egg, and a bowl of rice. Fullness depends on bibimbap and complimentary fruits.

The blogger also said that out of good intentions, the waiter also presented steamed eggs to help get hot and sour noodles. But even so, the blogger still expressed disappointment with Haidilao after the meal, the service did not help with the children, and the attitude was not good and not positive. As soon as this post came out, netizens were angry:

20 yuan is not enough, still want someone to help see the child do hand care? Are you proud of taking such a small advantage? You still think the waiter’s attitude is not good? Li Shutong once said: “I don’t know what a gentleman is, but everything is willing to suffer; I don’t know what a villain is, but everything is a good advantage.”

It is said that face is not worth the money, but most of the reasons for losing the bottom are to gain growth, win success, and have a noble “lizi”, instead of following the villain and doing things that hurt others and selfish.

Only when you win back will you have real face, and that face will be worth it.

Otherwise, with no lining and no face, the road of life can only get narrower and narrower.

Compared with the face lost by eating Haidilao at 17 yuan, the latter is obviously more valuable and worthwhile.

I remembered that Luo Yonghao said in the “Talk Show Conference” that he had already paid off hundreds of millions of debts. People who used to scold him shamelessly began to admire him overnight.

People, don’t lose your face too cheaply.

It is an indispensable training course for children to grow up without taking a small advantage.

Only when parents agree with their words and deeds can children be the same. Parents don’t take advantage of it. Children will see it in their eyes and learn from their hearts when they know that they are grateful and rewarded.

There is a story in “Harvard Family Instructions”. A father took his two sons to watch a performance. He went to the ticket office and asked about the ticket price.

“5 coins for adults, 3 for children over 6 years old, and children under 6 years old are free.”

“These are my two sons, one is 3 years old, the other is 7 years old, and me.” Father said.

After buying the tickets, the conductor told the father half-jokingly–

“Actually, you could have saved 3 coins. If you said that the boss is not yet 6 years old, I would never see the truth.”

“Perhaps.” The father said seriously, looking at the two sons. “But, the children know for themselves that they remember this shameful thing all their lives.”

The essence of education is actually the self-cultivation of parents.

You can be the kind of person you want your child to be.