Choosing a spouse is the most important investment

Marriage is to find a normal person, to live a normal life happily. Choosing a spouse is the most important investment in life.
Crying for joy when receiving divorce judgment

Not long ago, Dong Son Xuzhou Court, China tried the divorce case between a 70-year-old couple. Ms. Liu said she had difficulty resolutely demanding a divorce even when her family went bankrupt. In 1975, Ms. Liu and Mr. Wang registered their marriage. For more than 40 years, Ms. Liu suffered year-round domestic violence resulting in repeated miscarriages, her health was not normal. At the age near the earth, she decided to divorce her husband with the solid support of her children. “This nightmare is finally over!” – Ms. Liu burst into tears when she received her divorce verdict. Writer Strindberg said: “The most beautiful and painful is love. Marrying someone is the most important investment in a person’s life. A good marriage doesn’t have to be paradise but one. Bad marriage is definitely hell. Illustration. There was a topic on social networks: “What experience can we learn from a good husband?”. A reader named Xiao shared her story. Her husband is very stingy, does not allow her to use credit cards, does not allow her to go to restaurants, let alone use expensive skin care products and rarely gives her gifts except for her birthday. This taciturn, taciturn man often made her question her original choice. Xiao has a disability in her legs, her parents abandoned her at a young age. During an argument, she blamed her husband for being stingy, he shouted: “Don’t you know how to eat and drink? But is it time? I want to save enough money for you to have surgery sooner. Recovery becomes more difficult as you get older. Only then did Xiao understand her husband’s sincere feelings for her. Marriage is to find a normal person, to live a normal life happily. A good marriage can help one complete person. A bad marriage can bury a person. Shakespeare said: “Marriage is not satisfactory like hell, fighting for a lifetime is also not peaceful, on the contrary, choosing a mate like that can be peaceful, happy hundred years”. Japanese filmmaker Miyazaki says that whoever you choose from is their lifestyle and values. Which partner you choose not only determines your current life circumstances and moods, but also all the emotions you will experience in your future life. How is marrying the right person? As the saying goes, the other half is the most important investment in life. A spouse with negative energy will only bring negative energy into your life, while someone with positive energy can give you more positive energy. Illustration. In fact, the so-called right marriage is probably two people going through the storms of life together. In the end, you get better and make the enemy better. Many people wonder, how do you know if a man is worthy of marriage? Many people agree that a person worthy of marriage will have the same mindset in solving big problems. Many people avoid discussing some issues in love and marriage, and even classify them as forbidden areas, but these issues will emerge sooner or later. For example: Do you agree to live with your parents-in-law? Is there a monthly allowance for parents? Can dowry money be negotiated? If one day the other half leaves? … Before getting married, these issues need to be seriously discussed with your spouse, being honest about each other’s ideas, what can be done, and what can’t. Not everyone is suitable for getting old with you. Someone comes to help us become more mature, someone comes to live with, and someone has to spend a lifetime to remember. Life is an adventure full of unknowns, it is impossible to choose the starting point, let alone predict the future correctly. However, as long as you marry the right people, the value you can get is much greater than your wealth. Choosing a suitable spouse, taking care of each other, caring for each other, having children and raising children are the happiest things in the world.