Every time my grandma picks me up from school, my hand is bruised

Standing from afar, I couldn’t hold back my tears. I did not expect my 4-year-old son to endure such suffering.
Although I don’t live with my husband’s parents, but my house and my house mother-in-law very close together. Since the day I came here as a bride, I have always been sensible and filial. Anything delicious, I leave a portion and bring it to my parents-in-law to supplement. Sometimes my husband comes home from work, buys some local specialties, and I also give more to my mother-in-law.

Recently, I’ve been busy with work, so I can’t come home early to pick up my children. My mother-in-law was convenient to pick up the son of her brother-in-law’s family, so I asked her to pick up my son as well. Because the two kids go to the same school. I also do not ask my mother-in-law for nothing. From the day she picked me up, I sent her 1 million dong every month. I do it to feel comfortable. I don’t like to ask for help from others. The school is about 1km from my house. Mother-in-law is old and can’t ride a motorbike, so she has to walk pick up the kids . g, I also feel secure. After all, this is also her grandson, she must also be responsible. Illustration. At first I didn’t see anything out of the ordinary. But recently, every time I pick up my child from my mother-in-law’s house, I see her crying out in pain. My hands have many bruises, scratches and scrapes. Thinking that I was being bullied by my classmates, I called the homeroom teacher and received the answer: “The children in class are very good. There is no fighting. I do not believe you can monitor the camera of the classroom. “. I also watch the camera. Indeed, my child never fought with his classmates. I told this story to my mother-in-law, hoping that she would pay more attention to her when she picked me up. However, my mother-in-law was sober, and pouted her lips: “Oh yeah, there are 3 bruises. Sometimes she messed with her classmates and caused it without remembering. But when I picked it up, I didn’t see anything. often”. The bruises and scratches on my child’s hands are increasing day by day. This scar has just faded, a new bruise appears… Then I decided to take an early leave from work one day to pick up my son. I want to find out where my child’s hand injuries come from. I did not tell my mother-in-law about this. I still let her pick her up normally. Partly because I was afraid of her thinking, the other part I wanted to investigate quietly. Then at 5 o’clock, the gate of the kindergarten began to have many parents come to pick up their children and grandchildren. I quickly realized that my mother-in-law was also lined up among them. My baby rushed out and politely greeted her. But still had to wait for her to pick up her brother. Look at the sweaty baby and feel sorry. It must be very hot, but I don’t know how to ask her to fan it. 3 granddaughters lazily returned. I go from afar to monitor. Only then did I realize the anomaly. Even though her brother-in-law’s son is a younger brother, he is older than my daughter in terms of age. That boy was aggressive and bullied her while walking. My son is already carrying his backpack, but still has to carry his own. That’s it, the other boy teased me while walking, punching, poking and biting again.. But most frustrating is the attitude of the grandmother. My mother-in-law doesn’t care, she still goes as usual. When my son got angry, cried and hit the other boy, my mother-in-law defended him. She pinched my child’s hand and shouted: “You have to give me up. Crying about something. Will you hurry up so I can cook rice?” When I saw that scene, I was shocked and indignant. I rode up in front of my mother-in-law and two young children. Seeing me, my daughter was overjoyed, quickly wiped her tears, repeatedly clapped her hands and shouted “mom, mom…”. I asked why the mother-in-law treated the children like that, and she argued without doing anything. It’s normal for children to fight. But when I raised the red spot on my son’s hand, she turned around and said, “I teach him but he doesn’t listen. Your son is very stubborn. If you don’t teach him, he’ll be bad. And his grandson later asks for help, But when the granddaughter grows up, she will get married…”. I eagerly picked up the child in the car, drove straight home and didn’t say a word to my mother-in-law. Because at that time, I was very angry. If we continue to argue, I am afraid that I will act badly. I brought this story to my husband. He was also very angry, saying that every child is a grandchild, why is his mother so biased. But then he advised me to ignore this, because after all, she is the grandmother of the children and my mother-in-law, we still have to ask a lot. I was angry at my mother-in-law, and my anger spread to my husband. Your mother is so clearly wrong, but you can still say it!