Master Ta Viet Cuong – Deputy Director of the Center for Obstetrics and Gynecology Examination and Reproductive Health Care, Hanoi Obstetrics Hospital shares the story of women suffering from a strange ‘fear of love’ disease.
Pregnant after 1 time only
Master Cuong said 5 years ago, he received a special case but perhaps even he saw it “how is it”. The girl named Hà, from Hải Phòng, was married, but the couple could not have sex. Every time the husband wants to ‘love’, the girl is afraid of crying and screaming. Therefore, the husband is no longer demanding from his wife.
The two only caressed the outside. Once Ha’s husband was determined to “break the fence” and put the ‘little boy’ in, his wife cried, tears filled his nose. Husband panicked too quickly surrendered and had vaginal ejaculation
After that special time the wife became pregnant. When visiting Dr. Cuong, the patient said that she had never had sex with her husband. The doctor suddenly “how can I be pregnant?” And when the girl told her due to her fear of pain, she refused to let her husband ‘love’ but was still pregnant.
Master Cuong said that this case is rare, but in medicine it can still happen that only a healthy sperm enters the uterus can still conceive. Many cases of vaginal ejaculation are still pregnant because there are certain sperm in the semen.
When she examined the girl, the doctor found that her hymen had disappeared and her vagina was constricting. The doctor checked because he found that the patient was accompanied by vaginitis but could not use a normal speculum but only took a tiny speculum with a finger and then gently spleen the vaginal cavity to get fluid. But the girl kept cowering, her whole body stiffening. Dr. Cuong saw that this was the reason why her husband could not have sex, because of fear, the harder the girl, the tighter the vagina.
Dr. Cuong has planned for the patient the possibility of having a cesarean section because he cannot give birth normally. But on the day of her labor, even though she had a lot of stomachache, she was still afraid to go to hospital. It was only when her sister was forced into the hospital that she opened 6 cm. Doctor Cuong was surprised because he only went to the hospital for a moment when the girl gave birth by vaginal delivery, giving birth normally. Later, the girl returned to her hometown, so Dr. Cuong did not know if he could have sex with her husband or not.
Or another case is that two young couples in Hanoi go to the hospital for an examination because they cannot have sex. The reason is that the wife suffers from the fear of having sex. Every time the couple wanted to do ‘sex’, the wife cried with tears, her mentality affected and gradually the husband could not get an erection.
When examining the patient, Dr. Cuong discovered that the girl had the uterus tip down so it caused pain during sex, 1 time of pain and the girl was afraid of obsession. Meanwhile, the vaginal cavity is a virtual cavity that expands when the woman relaxes her body and it will close tightly if the woman is frightened.
Master Ta Viet Cuong shares vaginal muscle contraction syndrome.
In these cases, meeting a husband with sexual skills and experience may also help his wife, but this husband does not have much experience with sex.
Meanwhile, Dr. Cuong said in Vietnam there is no major in sex studies, training people how to deal with sex. When it comes to sex, people still think it is a secret story and can not be revealed out.
Vaginismus Syndrome
The syndrome that the other women have, according to Dr. Cuong, the literature mentions it is a syndrome called “Vaginismus” which literally means pain when putting anything into the genital area (maybe the finger hands, penis …) caused by muscle contraction in the vagina.
This syndrome is divided into two types, primary occurring in people who have never had sex. Secondly, it is found in those who have ever had sex and for some reason, the relationship hurts like this. These cases are most common after normal birth, or have a condition with the genital pelvic area.
Master Cuong said although this is not a disease, but the problem of treatment is not simple, the first reason is always considered a delicate problem both for the patient and the medical professional.
Some cases can use sex therapy that instructs the patient to self-pleasure because vaginal spasms do not mean a woman becomes cold, does not want to have sex or does not love her partner. .
In addition, self-inducing self-pleasure can help alleviate your fear of having sex. Doctors believe that peak sensation is not the sole purpose of self-pleasure, but also a way to increase genital comfort.
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