I’m scared of weird mothers in Vietnamese movies

At the same time, I, like many other viewers, were frustrated and frustrated by the numerous appearances of scary mothers on Vietnamese television.
* The article represents the reader’s own point of view

It must be said that Vietnamese dramas have never been more interested and discussed than now. I confess that in the past I only liked foreign films, especially Korean films, but recently I have also been caught up in the movement of “plowing” domestic films because my mother always occupied the prime time television every night to watch Vietnamese movies. Male. So I tried to watch the same. It must be said that Vietnamese movies are now attractive, recorded and live voice, the actors play the role and the dialogue is very ordinary, so it is quite interesting to watch. However, I find there is a bad point in the way the filmmakers build the characters, specifically the mother characters in the movie. Let’s say love and The taste of friendship. The character of Mrs. Bich in ‘Flavor of Friendship’. In order to attract the audience’s attention, the mother characters are typified, even extreme, somewhat foreign to the Vietnamese. First of all, the character of Mrs. Bich in The taste of friendship . Right from the first episodes, I was stunned to see this character constantly beat little Nam, shouting and swearing, sometimes just because of the dumpling. Ms. Bich discriminated between her biological and adopted children very clearly, even intending to abandon little Nam in the middle of the market. Granted, Mrs. Bich is an adoptive mother, different from her heart, so it is difficult to treat Nam like her own child, but living with her since she was a child, perhaps there is no love that treats each other like enemies. Later, when she thought that Nam stood to pay her debt, Mrs. Bich somewhat changed her attitude, but in her mind, she always calculated the loss for her adopted child, even intending to calculate how many years to raise her if she met her biological father again. . This character emerges as a formidable, calculating and unselfish mother. Perhaps the writer succeeded in building such an extreme mother character, but I found that Bich was pushed to the extreme, unrealistic and difficult to accept. The character of Mrs. Sa in ‘Flavor of Friendship’. Also in Flavors of Friendship, I dread another mother, Mrs. Sa – Khanh Thy’s mother. Mrs. Sa also appeared as a cold-blooded, pragmatic mother who tried everything to get her daughter to marry one of her best friend’s two sons, in order to enter a rich family. Despite her daughter’s discomfort, Mrs. Sa constantly pressured, even insulted and slapped her daughter for not listening to her in the campaign to lure men. In recent episodes, when she learned that the eldest son had a new relationship, she was a rich family, and Mrs. Sa urged her daughter to pursue her second son, as long as she did not miss the opportunity to enter the noble house. Every mother wants her child to get a good, rich husband, but the character of Mrs. Sa is pushed too much, unrealistically to attract the attention of viewers. Sometimes I wonder if they are real mother and daughter because the way they treat each other is so bad. The character of the mother becomes scary, making viewers shudder. However, the title of the scariest mother on the screen right now must be for Mrs. Hoai in Let’s say love. Maybe I have to use the word “sick” for this character because of his excessive actions, unreasonable control of husband and children, and misplaced love. Granted, Mrs. Hoai had a reason to hire someone to harm her husband’s girlfriend to miscarry, all the madness was just because her husband was out promiscuous, but it’s difficult to explain the unacceptable actions of this mother character with her husband. children. The character of Mrs. Hoai in ‘Let’s say love’. The culmination was when my daughter was tricked by a married man, Hoai tried to publish the man’s photo online to avenge her daughter. However, the way to “bleach” her daughter after the clip of My being jealous was posted online, it subsided, making the girl even more embarrassed, her family story was once again dug up and commented on by netizens. While her daughter was sad because of the painful first trick in her life, instead of comforting her to help My overcome the shock, Mrs. Hoai chose to bully and intimidate her, making My feel like she was cornered. The imposition on her husband and children is also reflected in how Hoai, because of her high expectations for her second son, forced the boy to do everything he wanted, even to enter the school of his choice. Throughout the many episodes that have aired, this mother character makes me frustrated because of her patriarchy, almost never showing normal care to a wife’s family members. normal mother. Watching the mother characters on Vietnamese TV series currently, I only see a dark, pessimistic and ominous color. Readers Thu Huong (Hanoi) If you have any comments, please send them to us at: [email protected]. Your opinion may not coincide with the opinion of the article posted on VietNamNet.