Damn a fat wife, a gentleman is ‘weak’ every time he comes into battle

After 5 years of marriage, the 30-year-old man is “weak” every time he does “sex” because he criticizes his fat wife, not as beautiful as before.

The gentleman has a headache because “above said, below does not listen” (Artwork) Worry because “little boy” is no longer the same MSc. BS. Ta Viet Cuong – Deputy Director of the Center for Obstetrics and Gynecology and Reproductive Health Care, Hanoi Obstetrics and Gynecology Hospital – said: Recently, the doctor has received many cases of male examination because of the husband and wife’s “blanket and pillow” problems. Recently, BS. Cuong was sent by a colleague to send a relative to be examined because of weakness in physiology. Patient is a man over 30 years old, married and with 2 children. Looking very healthy on the outside, but mentally worried. At the clinic, the patient shared: After 5 years of being married, recently he felt that his “little boy” is no longer the same. Whenever the couple did “sex”, he found it difficult to “enter the battle” because the penis could not be erect. After the effects, even though the penis can be an erection, it is very easy to “pass”. This made the wife unhappy and he himself felt uncomfortable. The story of “blanket and pillow” plays an important role in the couple’s love life (Artwork) When the doctor asked more carefully about the health status, family, … the patient said normal. Through examination and testing, the doctor determined that the patient did not have a male disease. The main cause of the “weak” young boy in battle may be related to family life, husband and wife’s love. When asked more about the couple connection, this man shared that: “The couple has been married for a long time, the relationship between husband and wife is no longer the same as when they first fell in love. Specifically, the two people no longer feel new, no longer excited. Even the wife is no longer as unfamiliar as when she first fell in love. In the past, my wife was both good and beautiful, and now she’s fat and like my mother ”. BS. Cuong said that the “physiological weakness” that the husband complained of and had to see a doctor was completely understandable. After a period of marriage, married life, especially sex, has decreased desire, when the desire is reduced, the arousal is reduced, there will be a situation “in the upper and lower level does not listen”. “In fact, reducing libido is not only in men but also in women. However, due to the way of thinking of society, due to the education problem, the woman is less likely to confess than the man. ”- Doctor. Cuong said. Refresh “love” to sublimate together To solve the problem of “above and below not listening” of the patient, the doctor. Cuong said that husband and wife need to regularly renew their “love”. When the “love” is renewed, the two receive enough sexual stimulation and attraction from each other, making both of them desire, feeling close to each other, touching each other then it will be solved the problem and you both will reach pleasure. “Pleasure is only achieved when the two can catch up with each other, both understand what the other wants and work together. And in the case of men reaching their destination earlier, or also known as early climax, people call them physiological weakness, but scientifically it is called premature ejaculation. On the contrary, if two people are close together, receive enough stimulation but the man can not harden (or see in old age), it will be called erectile dysfunction ”- BS. Cuong analyzed. In addition, the decrease in libido can also be caused by the husband or wife being worried, depressed, having problems in family life, falling love, too much responsibility to lose desire. close to each other but just trying to fulfill the responsibility of the other person. When meeting the above problems, BS. Cuong thinks that each family will react differently. Some people realize the problem of understanding the problem and hold hands together to heal, some break up, some people satisfy themselves (masturbate). However, “the best way is that the couple need to share, sympathize with each other, work together, renew the” love “to make life go up” – Doctor. Cuong advises.